Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

I've never had a fight with his girlfriend (sarah) in my life. he's been dating her for about 2 years now, and i dont live with them. i get a drive from my dad about no more than 3 times a week and she thinks that i should be taking the bus because i am 20 years old now. i dont think i should have to take the bus because he is unemplyed, and this is a way i get to see him because i dont live with him. to make things short i didn't think much of the argument at all, i thought ok we had a fight no big deal. but she thought something else, she talked to my sister on msn and said things like " she's immature", " i dont mind if she thinks im a total *****, i just feel sorry for her" " tammy...well she has a very hard side to her...and she will have difficult relationships. i would hate to see her end up bitter like your mom"..im not bitter im a veryy nice person..i can be hard but only when you get on my bad side... so what do you think i should do?

2007-01-16 19:00:44 · 11 answers · asked by Very Very. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a true love

2007-01-16 18:58:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My half brother who is older than me and whose mom is the one married to my father once threatened me with a lawsuit if I showed more interest in getting to know my father better.

2007-01-16 18:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by Tumpza 1 in Family

oh ............no one should lie.

2007-01-16 18:57:42 · 5 answers · asked by sowmi 3 in Friends

My half brother who is older than me and whose mom is the one married to my mother once threatened me with a lawsuit if I showed more interest in getting to know my father better.

2007-01-16 18:57:02 · 11 answers · asked by Tumpza 1 in Family

2007-01-16 18:55:56 · 23 answers · asked by Manish S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, if a guy handwrote you a letter with a quil pen and then sealed it with wax, or if a guy had a picnic with you in the park, would you like that?

2007-01-16 18:55:31 · 24 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE BE NICE!EVERYONE IS A JERK NOW A DAYS,DONT ADD TO THAT COUNT!Heres my question,this guy I love,I mean love,started flirting with me,and I think he wanted to be more than "Friends".Then he gets asked out,and he accepts. :( Well anyways,I still caught him looking at me even though he had a girlfriend,almost every day,but now,for about a month,I hardly ever catch him,which makes me feel as though he's over me.But one day,about a week ago,we had to do this playing test(playing scales on an instrument in front of the whole band) as individuals,and when I got done,people started clapping,but he was the only one who stood up and clapped.That day,out of like 35 people,he only stood up and clapped for 5 of us,2 guys,his girlfriend,his girlfriends best friend,and then me.I was seriously the odd ball out.I could see why he stood up if we were super close,but were not,we dont talk much anymore.What do you think?Is he over me?

2007-01-16 18:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does size really matter? And you KNOW what I'm talking about. ;-)~

2007-01-16 18:52:42 · 9 answers · asked by daisy14320022003 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you choose between two people you really love. without comparing them to each other

2007-01-16 18:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by ladybaby 2 in Singles & Dating

does it hurt real bad? where exactly does the guys dick go in? how far does it go in? whats the best thing about it? whos on top? how fast do u go? how slow do u go?

2007-01-16 18:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for a couple of years now, and my boyfriends ex has yet to leave us alone. She comes in and tries to stir up things in our relationship, or start stuff between us and herself whenever she feels like it. I have confronted her quite a few times and everytime she tells me that all the drama is over, she's not that kind of person, etc. except it keeps reoccuring. She always tells me that my boyfriend has cheated on me and has done all of these horrible things. I kind of believe her just because I don't have proof either way if he did anything, but at the same time she could just be trying to break us up out of some form of spite. I don't know what to do about this anymore. I can't see a future with my boyfriend if I have to deal with this forever. A restraining order wouldn't work because she hasn't threatened violence or anything of that matter upon us. Any suggestions? I'm an adult, so teenage love advice isnt going to quite work on this

2007-01-16 18:51:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this wonderful loving sexy girlfriend whom I love very very much. However she gets these moods and when in one of these moods she tells me how she has heard these promises and words b4 and I am sure she has. I need to prove to her that I am not ome of "those guys" and that I would never lie, cheat, or abuse. There are just too many guys who treat women like crap in this world and it makes it really hard for gentlemen like myself

2007-01-16 18:50:30 · 9 answers · asked by John N 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 18:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Friends

I am engaged to a wonderful woman - I am a 32 yo male and she a 33 yo female. Dating about 3.5 years, not living together. We are both financially secure and don't fight often and have what I consider a respectful relationship - no cheating, etc.
We are planning a wedding this summer, and she wants to be pregnant later this year or early next year. We have fought about timetable for children quite a bit in the last year and I am having severe cold feet. We have traveled quite a bit the last few years (Hawaii, Jamaica, Alaska Etc.) and I love the adventure and excitement that comes with our lifestyle of being able to pursue adventures together. I am worried children will end all of that and drive a wedge in our relationship rather than bring us closer as a family. I am not sure if one is ever ready for kids, but I enjoy my time with my fiance and am not sure the pressures of children wouldn't end our relationship. She won't compromise on her timetable and I have a career change in 2 years. I think 38 is the time, I would be ready for children, but she says 39 is too old. I feel like if I give in, my dreams are dying and sooner or later I will have tremendous regret and I will resent the kids, but if she gives in and has problems with pregnancy, she will blame me. Is it better to break up and allow her to find someone who wants children now so she can be happy. or am I just going through normal jitters. I have no problem with marriage, but I wan't our relationship to be like it is for a few more years so we can still live more of our dreams instead of giving them up for children. I would hate to be 60 years old with terrible regrets on giving up on dreams because I didn't wan't to lose a woman who had differing goals from me. Please help!

2007-01-16 18:48:19 · 17 answers · asked by extreme360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don' like any guys from my school n none of them like me. i really want to a boyfriend from another school, but i only get to c them in the train station or in the shopping centre after school. how can i get some of them to notice me, n get them to like me? like if u were a random teen guy n a random girl comes up to u n says hi, ur cute, can i have ur no? or hi, ur cute, here's my no.? wat would ur reaction be?

2007-01-16 18:44:58 · 20 answers · asked by revengeofthemisfit 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I make friends over internet ? {I AM SERIOUS}

2007-01-16 18:44:41 · 17 answers · asked by Queen of Happy Civilization 1 in Friends

means i want to know by which process we can give birth to a baby

2007-01-16 18:43:27 · 14 answers · asked by veteranuni 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 18:43:17 · 14 answers · asked by drishya 1 in Friends

he called me and told me that he would be home by 12 30 because he wanted to go out with his friend after work and then he also had to take him to the airport at 4 30....at 1 am i called him and asked him where he was turns out he just got to the dennys about 12 45 (over 2 hours late.) and he told me he wasnt even gonna come home till after he dropped his friend off at the airport..so he wouldnt be here till about 5 30 or 6 am.... i started bitching at him since he didnt call me and tell me he was gonna be late and told him he needed to come home before taking his friend to the airport.we got into an argument and finally he said fine hed be home in 20 min.i dont feel bad about making him come home after all thats what i was wanting, but i know hell be pissed when he gets here.I feel that im justfied for doing what i did since he always says hell do something then just blows it off and tells me oh well you do it.and other things.my question is how should i handle him being mad at me

2007-01-16 18:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by ashleyhaddon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Five days ago I went on a first date with a guy I met on an online dating website. We had a fun time, but apart from saying 'it was lovely to meet you' (which I initiated and he responded to) correspondence has been friendly but platonic, and only by email. I said I'd be interested in going for a coffee with him again, and he said, 'good, any time' but left it at that. Is he just keeping his options open by humouring me with (platonic) emails? Does he just want an email penpal? It would be great to get some feedback before I ask him where I stand.

2007-01-16 18:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 14 yr old boy and i am sexually attracted to a 30 yr old women and i know she feels the same she is a sexy woman and has offered m sex befor i turned it down seeing as ny gf was in the room and now i feel i should of gone for i she is beutiful what do i do??

2007-01-16 18:42:34 · 18 answers · asked by azza s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 18:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by melissa m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. he is my dad and i love hem soo much but since 6 years ago he knoen a woman no it's a devil she loves hem soo much so for that she traied more and more to make us hate him he alwayes say the truth no he was the truth but now i dont know any thing i heared his voise with here making sex but he denyed i wanna believe him but i can't in firest iwas his soul ,heart and all his life but now i'm the rock on his road idont know what can i say else ? i can't live ican't love he was my world i was succed for him smile ,all my life for him but i'm soo sad now i can't lough no i'm not me i'm another person dont want to leve again plz help me.........

2007-01-16 18:40:35 · 16 answers · asked by jorjina09 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and this girl were hanging out one night, shes underage btw, and she got drunk for the first time..HE claims that she came on to him and that SHE kissed him first and then she did other things to him...they never had sex...and the grl and him had actually stopped themselves from having sex bc she knew that he was with me and i guess the guilt in him kicked in. He told me that he had told her that he couldn't do anything with her because he loved me and had made a mistake by letting things get as far as they did...i believe him because i made him jump through hoops to prove to me that he loves me..and i still love him and i think people deserve second chances...its been nearly 3 months since then but lately our relationship has been going down hill...

I'm always wondering if hes still faithful to me...should i have taken him back? or is it true when they say once a cheater always a cheater?

2007-01-16 18:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by ivy019 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex lives like two states away from me but he would still call me ubtil one day i told him not to anymore and he hasnt! like omg! am i that easy to forget? why hasnt he called? its been about three weeks now and nothing. i dont want him anymore. i care about him alot i just dont think our relationship will ever work out. but i still want him to call . im weird whats wrong with me?

2007-01-16 18:39:24 · 4 answers · asked by datgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you are man in this thirtys why would you be looking at woman in there twentys? Being more specific he is 39 and i am 22. Is it an ego thing or what? Just really confused.

2007-01-16 18:38:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend is a year older than me so shes ahead by one grade too.. Well the thing is she asked me to do one of her projects in history and she gets straight F's in school and i get straight A's.. So even though she's in a school grade higher I decided to do her project that was worth her whole grade. She has to turn it in tommorow and I totally forgot about it. I dont know whether to feel bad cuz i do EVERYTHING for her like homework.. I dont know what to do.. If i dont do it she might not even talk to me anymore.. If i dont do it what will i tell her tommorow.. I CANT TELL HER I FORGOT!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-01-16 18:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Friends

i know it sounds histarical, but seriously.....

it hasn't been a problem, but the only time we had sex (of course he had to take off the diapers) he pooped all over the bed (it was NASTY!)




i'm lost and feel hopeless--any suggestions?!?!
i told him we can't get engaged until he at least gets into pull-ups

2007-01-16 18:37:45 · 28 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Singles & Dating

Can someone describe love in a teen kind of way please?Oh,and is it possible to be whipped by a guy your not even dating but you've liked him for a really long time?

2007-01-16 18:36:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating