Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

My fiance keeps putting off telling his parents about our wedding.

They know that we are engaged - we are living together.

But when I ask him to see if his parents are home so that we can go and see them about the wedding, he grumbles and says that he will and never does. And when he does it is when I am not there.

I don't think that the reason is because he doesn't want to marry me - because I know that he does want to.

Could the reason be something to do with his parents??

2007-01-16 18:08:22 · 5 answers · asked by angelicpanda27 3 in Weddings

Ok is there such thing as to many guy friends? Almost all of my friends are guys. But guys that I go out and date say that there is no such thing as guys wanting to be a girls friend. They says that the only time a guy is a girls friend is when he thinks that eventually he will get lucky? Is this true?

2007-01-16 18:08:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i chased my best friend who i had a crush on for years, 9 to be exact, i told her how i felt about her like 4 times throughout. unfortunately, she didn't feel the same way. rejection has always been a close friend of mine. i really believed i could show her eventually that no other guy alive could love and care for her the way i could. but for some reason, she wanted the guys who end up in prison or america's most wanted list, they didn't care about her, they just wanted sex. well anyway, i just called off the friendship about 2 weeks ago and it was one of the hardest things i've ever had to do. now i feel like crap all the time. she broke my already unstable and fragile heart. so i just wanted to know if it was possible to lose interest in girls altogether? i mean, i'm not gay, or even bi, but just altogether give up on looking for that special someone?

2007-01-16 18:06:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I am having a big crush on this bloke in my classes and I feel like a total idiot. Like a sixth-grader. Is it childish to have crushes in college? I have not had one for years

2007-01-16 18:05:57 · 13 answers · asked by heuteistperfectday 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are women so disgusted by farts ? Isn't it just part of the natural cycle ? Also, being a great farter myself, people at work say my farts smell worse because I eat little meat. Is it true that vegetarians pass worse gas than meat-eaters ?

2007-01-16 18:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love is hard!?
I had been dating this girl on and off on and off for about a year. Untill a couple weeks ago we broke up. I just recently moved states for school. But i am in lots of pain because im missing her i think. We broke up because we kept arguing at least 4 times a day. We would go out to eat and wouldn't say a word to each other. Unless we forced a convo. I feel like an idiot because when i was in the relationship i wanted out so we would break up. But then when i was not in the relationship i wanted her again. So i realized that she wasn't right for me she had nothing i wanted in a girl. Well to be honest the only good thing we had together was the sex. But nothing more. But now that i have moved away its killing me knowing there is no possibility now for us again. And jealousy is also killing me. Why do i still want her knowing she isn't right for me. And how do i deal with jealousy of her sleeping with other guys?

2007-01-16 18:01:34 · 10 answers · asked by dishizal 1 in Singles & Dating

And who or what attracts your attention?

2007-01-16 18:00:39 · 4 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Singles & Dating

Your dating someone for awhile, when do you take them to meet your family? Ladies how long will you wait and how long is too long for your to wait?

2007-01-16 18:00:26 · 15 answers · asked by JamaicanVixen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not want to seem like the lonesome weirdo, hanging out by myself, How do i spark a girl interest. work brought me out hear but it sucks not been able to hang out with no one, thank you to who ever answers this question.

2007-01-16 17:59:45 · 4 answers · asked by hugnat2224 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 17:59:27 · 3 answers · asked by 818er 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 17:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by deegreat:) 2 in Singles & Dating

Not cuddly bear any more as much
Doesn't engage in texts immediately like he use to..stares off when I talk sometimes
He cut me off I never saw that coming but whatever (its been 8 days and no I am not taking propositions guys thanks Im sure u all are studds stay beautiful)
Hangs out with his buddies
Complains about little stuff he never use to but makes no effort to clean unless I say something or look poff
Tells me he loves me lots still??confused
We still laugh as often as the opportunity presents itself
I think I overheard him on the phone and with his buds about cheating but I don't know who they were talking about....
Heard him say Yeah i need to tell her i am starting to feel bad...me possibly...i have a paranoia problem and big trust issues How do I ask 4 honest answer from him?He takes me out to eat on dates (we live together) he tells me he loves me lots and that I look hot (I am gonna be pissed if he is turned off by my 20lb weight gain) hes not a super model himsel

2007-01-16 17:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 29 I first discoverd my bf was a alcoholic after only 6 mths of dating, After a heated arguement during his drunken stage, he tossed a glass @ my face, I left him, 3 days later I discoverd I was pregnant. I took him back.. back then I knew all, I don't belive in abortions ( when it's my own stupidty for not being more safe)but, damn it I was going to make this work for our child, i have failed. my parents are passed on now, I have no siblings and I have no friends,( that would be a risk of me leaving) I'm not allowed to work, so naturally I have no money saved up, he drinks a few times a week & when he does, it lasts for 30 some hours, I think hes an abuser of alcohol. He's a mean SOB. I try to avoid him,(when hes drunk) but he always seems to want to follow where ever i'am and instigates me, I cry& beg for him to stop,He won't & then its the next day he loves me so much.Pls help me get out,HOW? Our child will be devasated, the love those two share is unreal, he just hates me

2007-01-16 17:58:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 36 yrold male still single. I have to say that I have a problem that I cant figure out how to fix. I started having a affair with a married woman a few months ago. It was all fun and games when we first started out. She called me all the time, I called her all the time, we saw each other often. She use to tell me when we first stated that she did not care what her husband thought. She was just ready to get out of the marriage that she was in. We were intimate quite a bit at first, we cold not stay away from each other. Until recently she started acting really strange. The phon calls started to come maybe once a week, now there are no calls at all. The only time she has anything to do with me, is when she is at work, and I go by and see her. She has promised me on many occassions, days that we are suppose to be alone together,but she never shows up anymre. I questioned her about it, and she said that things are getting complicated for her, she feels confused. She says that he is

2007-01-16 17:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by cougar b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 17:54:49 · 13 answers · asked by LucyInTheSky 1 in Family

I am 16 and have been dating the same girl for about six monthe. From the start we hit it off really well we were unseparable untilt he parents found out that we had had relations together. We are havn't been allowed to see eachother for about two months now yet we continue to see one an other periodically. we had origionally thought that the relationship would end before she moved but by not being able to see eachother it really made the bond between us that much stronger then it was before. Now the trouble will be coming soon, she is moving to South Carolina in two months and i live in California! We have decided that we want to go to college together at UC DAvis when she returns and eventually we would may be like to get married. To make things even harde she has given me her grandmothers ingagement ring that was pressed into her hands by her dying grandmother with instructions to her to find the right guy and marry him! At this point in time i really am having a hard time deciding!

2007-01-16 17:54:38 · 21 answers · asked by funkywhiteshirt 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone I know from school died today and we got a note after school to inform our parents...should i give it to him?

2007-01-16 17:53:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think this guy could be in love with her? He never gets angry at my friend but I think he is this way to all girls but when she told him she was leaving the country to go back home he always come on IM and asks her where are you? He seems to care very much where she is and when she is going home one time he wrote to her.Hi Iam X I never angry at you ok so you will go to Italy to play so I miss you and I hope we can meet at somewhere i don't forget you don't worry about this see you next time...does he care more than a friend?

2007-01-16 17:53:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thanks to all of u answer my previous questions.i would like to know whether lovers can kiss each other?can they hug each other?i don't know whther it is right or wrong.

2007-01-16 17:52:07 · 20 answers · asked by pakistani 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 155/156cm ,this is normal here,but I want to be taller,I'm quite jealous of those models...

2007-01-16 17:51:49 · 25 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

'Am I pregnant?'
or
'Does he still love me?'

2007-01-16 17:51:44 · 15 answers · asked by Sammy Da Bull 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 17:51:18 · 24 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Singles & Dating

How to introduce yourself?

2007-01-16 17:50:21 · 12 answers · asked by Nic 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a female gemini, and was just wondering, what are some of the characteristics and physical appearance of the female gemini?? and the guy i like is a scorpio. I heard that gemini's and scorpio's don't get on very well. I wish i was a different starsign, because alot of people critisize gemini and find it hard to understand us. Please help. : )

2007-01-16 17:50:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17. i want loos my virginity without a partner how?

2007-01-16 17:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by Xanderman 1 in Singles & Dating

was just into you for your body would he call everyday (lives 8hrs away)? He hasn't asked to be my bf or anything, he just acts like it. I've also been warned about him: come rodeo season he tends to blow off his gfs. Should this be a major red flag or not?

2007-01-16 17:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by mntrek 2 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed many white men dating chinese women. my cousin Jenny Parker married a German guy. they have two girls that look white. I'm afraid to tell white girls my name even when they flirt with me. some people think I look japanese and say words I dont understand. I'm from China but came to california 2 years of age.

2007-01-16 17:48:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with Reference to the other post
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Alkkb1Rn5S9d91eVXA8XrTDsy6IX?qid=20070114024506AAX3Cal

My friend,a gal helped tested me the water ytd.
She asked that gal who's playing hard to get how's thing between u and him[me] and she replied "soso.."
and after a while later...she msged my friend asking my friend if my friend happens to like me.

Now i confirm she likes me but yet still playing had t o get,
although most guys would be happy that it has been confirm that their crush feels the same way,for me i feel pissed.
Its like NOPE I'M NOT GONNA PUT DOWN MY PRIDE OR EGO JUST FOR A GAL.

Am i too arogant or what?

2007-01-16 17:47:38 · 3 answers · asked by Evans 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell you that I have herpes?

2007-01-16 17:45:43 · 18 answers · asked by Just Chillin' 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever met someone that in moments of being with them everything seemed so right? Your day couldn't possibly suck if they were with you and you end up in a relationship, long term, and come to find out everything you had with this person was a lie to manipulate your heart? He played on my symphathy and loyalty and sense of desire to be with the "one" and he made up cancer as a ploy to keep me. He really was abusive to his ex's and they all warned me. I didn't believe it until those words no man should ever call his girlfriend that he intended on marrying in front of her children for that matter. The verbal abuse was insane at the end. Come to find out he has all these standby women on the side that he's messed with through our whole relationship. I'm so disgusted with him it actually feels more like hate. I really want to throw up when I think about him. Has anyone ever felt this way and if so how long til the disgust goes away? do you ever find someone new to trust?

2007-01-16 17:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by Baby girl 3 in Singles & Dating