Not cuddly bear any more as much
Doesn't engage in texts immediately like he use to..stares off when I talk sometimes
He cut me off I never saw that coming but whatever (its been 8 days and no I am not taking propositions guys thanks Im sure u all are studds stay beautiful)
Hangs out with his buddies
Complains about little stuff he never use to but makes no effort to clean unless I say something or look poff
Tells me he loves me lots still??confused
We still laugh as often as the opportunity presents itself
I think I overheard him on the phone and with his buds about cheating but I don't know who they were talking about....
Heard him say Yeah i need to tell her i am starting to feel bad...me possibly...i have a paranoia problem and big trust issues How do I ask 4 honest answer from him?He takes me out to eat on dates (we live together) he tells me he loves me lots and that I look hot (I am gonna be pissed if he is turned off by my 20lb weight gain) hes not a super model himsel
2007-01-16 17:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there sounds like a change in the wind. his inattentive behaviour is suspect enough for you to ask questions. Be prepared for a break , he may want time away from you, and you are going to have to deal with this, so do not try to read his mind ask the questions and deal with them sorry that is the best I can offer
2007-01-16 18:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been together?
If it's been a while, then the honeymoon stage is gone. I know this because I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I'm feelin' it already.
Guys and girls are TOTALLY DIFFERENT. I don't know why that is... but it's the truth. Our brains are just not wired the same way.
If you have a feeling he's cheating, well... find out other signs that he may be. Sometimes your instincts are right. I don't want to scare you, but just prepare yourself.
"Relationships don't work they way they do on television and in the movies. Will they? Won't they? And then they finally do, and they're happy forever. Gimme a break. Nine out of ten of them end because they weren't right for each other to begin with, and half of the ones who get married get divorced anyway, and I'm telling you right now, through all this stuff I have not become a cynic. I haven't. Yes, I do happen to believe that love is mainly about pushing chocolate covered candies and, y'know, in some cultures, a chicken. You can call me a sucker, I don't care, because I do believe in it. Bottom line: it's couples who are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is they don't let it take them down. One of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship every time. If it's right, and they're real lucky, one of them will say something."
2007-01-17 02:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either cheating on you, or you need to spice up your relationship.
Remember that most relationships end because people think that once they are in a relationship, they don't have to do anything to make it work.
Try to do something special that he likes. Maybe cook some special meals. When making love, (If you are.) Make him feel better than he is.
If these things don't help, he is definitely cheating on you.
If these things do work, he was getting bored and frustrated. Just keeping doing things for him and he will treat you like a queen. (If he really loves you.)
2007-01-17 02:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask him. Communication is the key! If you guys arent married then you shouldn't be living togehter. He is probably tired of you are needs his space. If you keep being paranoid and worried then most likely he is cheating on you.
2007-01-17 02:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose 20 lb.
2007-01-17 02:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋