Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

Hb driving on the high way while wife is at the back seat with baby.
H : Can you comb the baby's hair? (W comb the baby's hair)
H: His hair shd be comb the other direction
W: No, this is the right direction.
H: Its always been to the other direction.
W: No, it is always this direction
H: Do you want me to stop the car now to comb his hair for him?
W: No
H: Then do it properly now!
W: I am doing it properly, just not the way you want it.
H : I am asking you want me to stop the car right and risk an accident now is it? You better do it properly! I am telling you now it should be done "X"way.
W: What does not combing the hair the direction you want it have to do with wanting you to stop your car? Why should it be done X way if that is not the right way? I'm not going to do it.
H: You ******* b**ch! tell you nicely don't want to listen, have to make me angry early in the morning. You are a ******* b**ch! . Why can't you just listen? See what you make me do in front of him

2007-01-16 18:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by peaceful 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its true but not by choice. being very shy, poor, and not very good looking is a deadly trifecta for loneiness. i don't want to make it sound like i'm quisi moto (i'm not that bad looking) but i have even been turned down by hookers! i need royalities on that movie (40 yrld virgin- which i didn't see because i don't think it is so funny having lived it)

2007-01-16 18:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are heaps of questions been asked about y do guys like girls who are skinny girls/ bony girls .the most common answer is that guys find girls like that really gross etc but wot if the girl is naturally skinny?? like some girls are naturally bigger. If i am naturally skinny ( a little bony) and i EAT would you still judge or think negative thoughts or refuse to date me etc????

2007-01-16 18:34:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 22 yr old male. At age of 14 I was raped in my boarding school. To this day I am suffering bcoz of that shocking experience. A 14 yr old innocent boy raped by a group of seniors. It was extremely humiliating & it has shattered my life. It's something so shameful that I could never tell it to anyone. Also I've a physically and emotionally abusive father. I am the only son. My only support is my mom. She has always been there for me & given me moral support & unconditional love. I share many personal matters with her because she's very understanding, friendly, and supportive person. But now she is suffering from cancer. The only thing I kept secret from her is this horrible thing in the past -rape. It is very shameful & I to this day I don't fell comfortable with my body. Meaning I don't feel comfortable in my own skin. I'm suffering emotionally. At 22 I secretly took psychatric treatment for post traumatic disorder. But sometimes I feel guilty for hiding frm mom. Should I tell her?

2007-01-16 18:33:44 · 18 answers · asked by mavis24 1 in Friends

2007-01-16 18:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by saza_didy 1 in Family

My husband and I are fighting alot and I think that we may be on the verge of a divorce, this would be my second and I don't want to loose my husband, I really love him, we have a son together and we don't want to split our family apart, What should I do, I am at my wits end here, Please help us.

2007-01-16 18:33:34 · 9 answers · asked by jessicahogan6985@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay,heres some things that he's done that makes me feel like he likes me.
-We never talked before,but one day he came up to me,and said something like he was just trying to talk to me.
-He did me a favor(getting my marching band uniform),which seems like something a guy would do for his girlfriend.
-We was waiting to get our uniforms,and usually he would talk to his friends,but ALL of his attention was on me,and for some reason he waited for EVERYONE to get off the bus except me him his friend and my friend and then me and him made our way to get our uniforms.
-I catch him staring at me quite alot.
-He had this concert thing he was singing at,and I decided to go,right when I walked in his eyes went RIGHT to me(even though he had a girlfriend then)then while he was singing,he made eye contact with me,and didnt let it break for like 3 to 5 seconds and he kept smiling at me every second we just looked at each other.
-He hold the door for me every now and then.
What do you think???

2007-01-16 18:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my girlfriend has been away for over 6 months now and she will be coming back soon. we love each other and talk everyday and i want to do something special and memorable when she arrives to the airport in the morning next week. so i want to make that entire day unforgettable and just spectacular. if u have any suggestions or past experiences that u could share that would be great! thanks.

2007-01-16 18:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by Rusty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 18:31:45 · 3 answers · asked by les s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 18:31:41 · 2 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Friends

i've been dating my bf for 6 months now. he's cheated on previous gf's in the past. im trying not to judge him, but he gives me reason to: i caught him lying about some phone calls & texts he made to other girls, he flirts a lot, and after he claims he really wants to be with me and will never hurt me, i saw a message he sent to another girl on myspace saying "hey cutie, when are you going to let me tap that" -literally the day before my birthday!!.... this was a couple months ago, and he has changed (deleted girls' #'s and deleted his myspace for me) but i really can't seem to forgive him, or get over it. and i've found that i've become a very jealous person while dating him, only because i want to be cautious- ive had my heart broken in the past, and i really don't want it to happen again. what should i do???

2007-01-16 18:31:06 · 26 answers · asked by Elysse 1 in Singles & Dating

I really hate how it works, ya know? I hate how you put effort into something, and while trying not to get too emotionally involved into something that's not yet exclusive, you have to maintain a level of trust with the other person so they don't think you are a flake or someone that is just using them. I mean, if you have fun, but then are "too busy" with shyte to see each other again, why would you agree to go out in the first place?? unless of course it's just a cover up, if so then why play the games? be straight up about it, either didn't have a good time or whatever. too busy is such a copout. i could have to reorganize my socks and that could be "too busy".

just me ranting, obviously having women issues. i'm waiting for this girl to call me ('cause she's busy with school and doesn't know when she's gonna have time). which i totally understand, i've been to school too. but honestly, can't you pick up a phone just to CHAT for 5 minutes and give a guy a hint that you'r into him?

2007-01-16 18:26:19 · 12 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this girl used to be my freind. she used to call me to hang out few months ago, when we hang out we hold hand and kudle and all. well i did liked her and finally told her. we went out together too also mad out couple times. weeks later she wouldnt return my calls and finally told me she is not ready. maybe later she said what the hell is she doing to me??? i dont get it..

2007-01-16 18:25:47 · 5 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

unfortunatily we get a badlife partner what to do

2007-01-16 18:24:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I rememberd something bad bout my past, and i aint shure how to deal with it. What should i do?

2007-01-16 18:24:35 · 12 answers · asked by RedneckCuitie 2 in Family

Give me some creative things I could do for my ex this Valentine's Day to let him know I really want him back.

Some info ... we broke up because we fight alot about each others' friends. And also because I was hormonally crazy from being pregnant. We have a 2 week old little girl.

2007-01-16 18:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by justsumchickie1 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I had our first baby about three 1/2 months ago and he's sort of acting funny now. He isn't interested in me anymore, it seems...he's barely kissed me the last week. He's a hard worker and a great dad, but I feel like we're roomates instead of husband and wife. Well, he recently started a new position at work and for the last couple of weeks he's been kind of 'fixin' himself up for work. He quit wearing a hat and now he fixes his hair, he shaves before work when he never did before, he even puts on his cologne which he never put on unless he was with me before. Idk. He hasn't really given me any clues that he's up to something, but I just get a feeling he may be. How do I confront himi about it without his thinking I don't trust him?

2007-01-16 18:22:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when bf drinks he gets mad and yells at me for our roomates,he breaks things such as the doors,cups and pics of us it happens every couple of weeks and when sober he wont talk about it we have together for 9 years and i dont know what to do i love him but at the same time i dont want to be with someone who is being distructive he has never hit me or anything like that he just gets mad and hits the wall or whatever is near

2007-01-16 18:22:16 · 19 answers · asked by little one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've asked him. We've been going to a counselor. Its just become so hard and I'm on the verge of depression. If I say something like "I heard this on the news today..." He has this attitude with me for telling him because he apparantly already knew about it. Well, I didn't know! I had just heard it. He never tells me he loves unless I say it first. He becomes hateful to me but then eventually apologizes. He NEVER looks at me, even just to speak to me. I feel like he takes me for granted. He tells me hes hungry and he says from that, I should take it and make him something to eat. He never just asks me to make him something, then I wouldn't mind so much. He doesn't like my cooking but expects me to cook anyways and doesn't understand why I don't want to. When we get into an arguement, he picks up our 21 mo old son and seems to "hide" behind him. He doesn't act the same way with our daughter who is 6 mo. He eventually stops and apologizes to me for all the meanness, but when will it end

2007-01-16 18:20:07 · 17 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'm dating my exs ex best friend and today I went to bed really early and I just woke up about an hour a ago. I checked my mail and there was an email from my ex saying "ok so uhm i can't talk to you anymore after talking to (gfs name here) i just can't talk to you anymore so i'm just going to stop talking to you and yeah i'm sorry but i hope the classier one makes you way happier than i ever did because yeah i'm not classy and i'm a slut compared to her to so uhm yeah don't be mad because i'm sure she'll be a way better gf bye" Like what the heck happened in those 6 hours I was sleep? Whats going on? What should I do?

2007-01-16 18:19:02 · 7 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I met online and have never met in person yet, we both want to take our time and get to know each other. He used to text me alot during the day and call me as soon as he got home from work. We still talk at least 1-3 hours every night but lately it seems he has been getting more distant. He is not a very good communicator but he has told me that he feels like we are soul mates and he says he loves me all the time. this last weekend at the last minute he told me he was going somewhere with his mom all weekend, his story had little pieces that didnt exactly fit but I didnt want to press because I feel like with him distancing himself I have become a little more clingy and I dont want to scare him off. Am I being paranoid or does it sound like I have something to be concerned about? And if so what can I do to bring it back the way it was?

2007-01-16 18:17:23 · 11 answers · asked by felicia d 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if this is going to make any sense but whatever..anyway, the boy I am in love with, one of his best friends, who knows that me and the one I love are in a relationship, keeps telling my friends to ask me if I have feelings for him, and he knows that my boyfriend will be hurt and most likely beat the crap out of him because number one, the boy is a pervert, and number two, that's suppose to be his best friend and he's going behind his back doing this. I've actually had this boy against walls about the slap the crap out of him because he said something inappropiate and he still keeps this up....what is up with him?????

2007-01-16 18:17:11 · 6 answers · asked by Chikk230 2 in Singles & Dating

can i get some warm ladie booty to keep me company?

2007-01-16 18:17:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 18:16:50 · 11 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hi every bodythere? he left ethiopia by cause of ethio_ertra war.there is no means of comincation there to get him for the last few year but know i heared he is in USA with his brother ephrem haile.he was my best.to make thise guy identical from others he had him a sister senayet,lemem,abeba botherts guitom,ephrem. so if any one knows him please E_mail me by Isacsel777@yahoo.com

2007-01-16 18:16:41 · 1 answers · asked by isacsel777 1 in Friends

I wouldnt

2007-01-16 18:16:32 · 26 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my High School Sweetheart for 6 years now. He cheated on me the second year we were together----the third year---- talked to another girl over the phone---talked to one of the girls he cheated on me before I left for the Navy---now today I just found out the girl that he cheated on me with the first year---he has kept in touch with since I got out of basic and txt messaged her a week ago telling her how his day was. I have just recently been honorably discharged from the service in December. He told me that since we have been here he has been really stressed out and that is his reason. I am so tired of dealing with all of this. We just recently made it through a porn addiction. I don't understand how I could be the issue. I am pretty---in shape--and smart. I will be attending Texas A&M in August. What should I do---should I get a divorce? How much does it cost to get one? How long? Where do I go? Plus-since I got out he has to take care of me until I can find a job.

2007-01-16 18:14:12 · 12 answers · asked by Raven 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been going out with this girl for last 6 Years and i have given everything i can in this relationship .
I Have never really made friends with anyone, as Wanting to spend more time with her and Some of my Friends Got Distance'd as my Girl Dint Like them .
My Parents Always told me That this is not the right girl but i dint even listened to them.
I Work got effected i got Fired.
Spent So much Money On her , My own Brother who haave helped me so much in my life , Got Distance's from me .....
And now She Dump's me for another Guy .
I lost 6 Years of my Life .
What i Just Want is Revenge , I want to Crush Her So Bad that she can Never really Come out of it .
Any Suggestion's ????

2007-01-16 18:11:04 · 23 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is emo n he hurts himself but i love him n i do the same sometimes he says he wants to die n so do i but if he ever decided to kill himself i wouldnt stop him and i would kill myself 2 would this be wrong or selfish to my family? i wont change my mind about what i will do but i still want to know...

2007-01-16 18:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My elder friend told me that he is working in multi national company where Asian and Middle East people working with him. The Middly East people no problem for him but Asians. They always are focusing enemity behind him. He almost always doing good as they have benefitted financially what he could do because of his responsibility. He helps most of financial benefits where they can't find. As well as he provides good food apart from the company arrangements. They are very good at that time then they start think of bad and criticize him with their own nationals. Sure they are not good at heart. How could he solve this problem and win their heart. They are from Philipines.

2007-01-16 18:10:21 · 1 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Friends