my friend is emo n he hurts himself but i love him n i do the same sometimes he says he wants to die n so do i but if he ever decided to kill himself i wouldnt stop him and i would kill myself 2 would this be wrong or selfish to my family? i wont change my mind about what i will do but i still want to know...
2007-01-16 18:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you and your friend need to talk to a professional about the way you feel. Most often self injury and suicidal ideation are symptoms of a mental illness that can easily be controlled with medication and/or therapy. Suicide is permanent and hurts so many people. The ones who die are gone, but the ones left behind are left suffering for the rest of their lives. If you are in school, speak to a teacher or counselor about your thoughts and concerns- they can get you the help you need. Look in the front of your phone book, there should be a number to a crisis hotline there. Please do not continue to live in this fantasy of dying- there are so many options out there to better your situation. Be safe and good luck.
2007-01-16 18:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i want to state that melancholy isn't something that someone can turn on and rancid at will.even even as the fellow is conscious of they are loved they are unable to make certain that straightforward on the top of the tunnel, that ray of desire that retains maximum individuals going ,even in our darkest moments. attempt to imagine those same human beings you talk about and picture what number cases we push aside problem-free human beings in our on a daily basis lives because we are too busy.we are all in charge of it because we each so often fail to get exhilaration from how our lives will result on yet another. i'll provide an get jointly that you'll likely have witnessed or heard about.imagine of the youngsters in college who get bullied daily at school and by no ability one newborn will tell the bully to provide up.they are enablers.Do you imagine the youngsters being bullied feels loved or will be ignored? Do you imagine those childrens sense component of something helpful at school ? I imagine the newborn is conscious of his relations loves him and could bypass over him even though it in basic terms isn't adequate. I imagine maximum toddlers on the following can positioned a face to this newborn and yet did not say or do something to make this childrens existence more effective perfect.the newborn can't undergo an extra effective day at school and turns right into a statistic. in this get jointly who's being egocentric ? The bully, the bullied newborn or the bystanders? EDIT all of us make selections in our on a daily basis existence which will result others and that i are say that maximum individuals do not imagine about how those selections will result yet another.The spoken be conscious (and the written be conscious for that matter) can result human beings for a protracted time than a slap.i imagine in this quick paced international we've forgotten the thanks to take heed to, the thanks to attain out to others and to grant a reassuring contact or hug.human beings slightly understand their neighbours, the cost of relations has been minimized and we are indoctrinated that we would want to continuously develop into solid and self reliant.someplace alongside the way we've forgotten that frailty and worrying for others is likewise component of being human.The force for perfection and being superbeings has taken a the front seat over the flexibility to be human.No ask your self some human beings sense isolated.
2016-10-15 08:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would be wrong and selfish to your family and friends. Do you want them to feel the most imaginable pain in the world? That is what your death would do to them. Imagine the pain that would cause them. Seek professional help to lift the burden of your pain. If you love your partner then you would get them help too.
2007-01-16 18:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes....to answer your question....it would be very selfish of you to take yourself out. Your family and those closest to you (and love you) would be greatly hurt by this act!!
It sounds like you and your friend may be in need of some counseling. Suicide is a permanent solution to what might be a temporary problem. Please contact one of my sources below and talk to somebody about this!!
I'll pray for you....too!!
2007-01-16 18:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Asking the question shows you know the answer.
"I wont change my mind about what i will do but i still want to know"... If you aren't asking for help, why bother asking? Think about this. You are asking for help.
2007-01-16 18:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing more precious on this earth then life please dont kill yourself and get out of his emo stage and help out others at least before you think of ending yourself. I believe there is a purpouse for your life you will find it sooner or later.
2007-01-16 18:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by michael h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Both you and your friend need to talk to someone,seriously. If you do commit suicide, remember that you are not going to go to heaven.
2007-01-16 18:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by rspheart 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever happened to just being happy with the one your with?
2007-01-16 18:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't and it would be a very selfish, cruel and heartless thing to do to your family. not being mean, I just believe this.
2007-01-16 18:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOSERS!!
go for it bro,i hope u understand the meaning of NATURAL SELECTION,mother nature is getting rid of losers
*survival of the fittest*
2007-01-16 18:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋