i have been going out with this girl for last 6 Years and i have given everything i can in this relationship .
I Have never really made friends with anyone, as Wanting to spend more time with her and Some of my Friends Got Distance'd as my Girl Dint Like them .
My Parents Always told me That this is not the right girl but i dint even listened to them.
I Work got effected i got Fired.
Spent So much Money On her , My own Brother who haave helped me so much in my life , Got Distance's from me .....
And now She Dump's me for another Guy .
I lost 6 Years of my Life .
What i Just Want is Revenge , I want to Crush Her So Bad that she can Never really Come out of it .
Any Suggestion's ????
2007-01-16 18:11:04 · 23 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your best revenge is moving on with your life and not showing her that this has messed up your life. You can't blame her for the state of your life because you did choose to do those things for her. I'm not saying what she did is right but, you have to take some responsibility here. Seriously, the best revenge is living well. Reconnect with your old friends, get a new job and as hard as it is, don't worry about her or what she did. What goes around comes around. Believe that!
2007-01-16 18:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to get on with your life. Be HAPPY you finally escaped from a bad relationship. Make up with your relatives and friends. Go places and do fun things. When you run into her and tell her how genuinely happy you are and how much better things are for you, it will be the best revenge. Being happy and not being angry and not missing her will hurt her more than anything else you could do. You've already wasted 6 years on this gal; don't waste another minute thinking about her. Get busy making a much better life than you ever could have had with her!!!
2007-01-16 18:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sara Katrina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am reading your question and i can see it happened to others before. You invested every single last bit on her to the point that you have nothing left in your life except her. Something started off as good but it went downhill cus it went onto the extreme. Love vs business deal? did all that you gave out to her at the end turned into a bunch of burden and debt for her instead? Was she just a b*itch in the very first to begin with, the kind of people that only responds to you when you please their material needs and you ,knowingly, still went for it(maybe your parents wasn't entirely false w/ their opinion, i dont know...)?
There's a war going on outside, and the world have to move forward everyday. True love stories only exist in fairy tales but this is the real world you also need bread. Makes me think of an ancient tale set place near a desert where a guy tries to please this very attractive girl by draining out all the water from his backyard well just to perform a short water splash dance to see her smile. Then one day his house caught fire, you guessed it, no water left in the well, so everything burnt to dust. the girl left him. Who represents the water: your parents, your brother, and maybe your friends, and your job; but seems like you left them all just for her. If the girl was the right kind she would be the one telling you to keep the water inside the well to irrigate the fields instead. Let's just say she WAS that kind of good girl to begin with, but now the guy have drained all the water to please her that a fire came and there's nothing he can do to protect her, with nothing left, she STILL got no choice at the end but had to leave no matter how much she wish she could've stayed behind with him.
I could get creative telling you different revenge methods, but i just wanted to say there are still alot of decent good girls out there and if you do find one this time, you will know to keep the water first, then...one, two, three, four they'll naturally keep coming... now will you even need to think about revenge by that time, probably not.
2007-01-19 04:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. Get a new job, rekindle old friendships... pick up where you left off. Get some counseling and rebuild your life. Form a new and healthy relationship, become a success without her. She was controlling you and still is through your anger and hurt.
Let her go and live a happy life. Show her that you are happy and healthy not that you are now with her... that is the best revenge.
2007-01-16 18:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept responsibility for your past. Free yourself so you can move to a bigger brighter future of your own choosing. Do not allow your ex to dictate your future in a negative way. If you allow yourself to blame her or anyone for your present situation you will forever be caught in a web of the past. Look forward. Do not let your past control your destiny.
Don't dwell in a pit of despair moaning over squandered time and losses. Your future is today. Be a person of action.
Remember, by the simple act of forgiveness you release the demons of the past about which you can do nothing.
Today create a new heart and a new beginning.
2007-01-16 18:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, the best revenge is always simply being happy yourself. In this case that means moving on with your life and being happy, with or without a new gf.
And secondly, a wise old owl >{@v@}< once said, revenge is a dish that is best served cold.
Cheers
2007-01-16 18:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge, is to be glad she is gone, that was not a healthy relationship. So move on with your life and do not waste anymore time and thought on her...Don't waste time trying to get even with her, be glad she is with some other poor guy, Make your life the best you can and that will give you more satisfaction than anything..count you blessings....
2007-01-16 18:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes also. The best way is the leave it to God for the "ultimate punishment". In other words, just let it go. You will need to treat this as an experience and learn and be a better person in your next relationship. Take care and good luck!
2007-01-16 18:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it eventually. The best revenge you could have is to find another girl and be happy with her. For real, not for revenge. Don't hurt another like this girl hurt you. Just learn from your experience.
2007-01-16 18:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to move on so she will feel that you dont care also what gos around comes around what she did to u this man may do to her then she will see what she had with u and miss u.
2007-01-16 18:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋