Ok I'm dating my exs ex best friend and today I went to bed really early and I just woke up about an hour a ago. I checked my mail and there was an email from my ex saying "ok so uhm i can't talk to you anymore after talking to (gfs name here) i just can't talk to you anymore so i'm just going to stop talking to you and yeah i'm sorry but i hope the classier one makes you way happier than i ever did because yeah i'm not classy and i'm a slut compared to her to so uhm yeah don't be mad because i'm sure she'll be a way better gf bye" Like what the heck happened in those 6 hours I was sleep? Whats going on? What should I do?
2007-01-16 18:19:02 · 7 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds as if someone has been sharing information about you without your knowledge (gossip)...to bad you were not given a chance to defend yourself in any way....ASK
2007-01-16 18:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two things could have happened, and TRUST me both are a possibility. Either your current girl tried to get you mad at your ex to cut the cord or, your ex is making stuff up to cause problems between you and your gf. I don't know what the situation is between you guys but, you call one ex and one girlfriend. My advice, talk to the girlfriend and ask nicely (don't get all stupid in her face cuz her first thought will be that you are defending your ex) THEN, ask your ex. Weight down both stories, and make your own mind. If out of this you get that you and your ex shouldn't be friends, then so be it, because although your current was the best friend, still must suck for her having someone that was involved with you before. If you value your relationship with your girlfriend you will know what to do, but first find out what is going on. Whether true or not, still neither should have opened their mouths. Good luck
2007-01-16 18:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on is jealously and competetiveness. She may be your ex- but your dating her ex-friend. Which means her swarn enemy. You CAN'T DO THAT. Didn't anyone give you the girlfriend book of rules. "girls don't date their friends boyfriends- even if they aren't best friends anymore!!!" Ok, clearly these two got into it and the NEW girlfriend compared herself to the OLD girlfriend in some way and told her she was better in some way. Which is NOT cool. I would ask you current girlfriend about it- i'll bet she will sugar coat it that she did nothing wrong and it was your ex's fault. Then talk to the ex- it appears you are still friends- which is probably why the NEW girlfriend feels threatened and needed to "mark her territory". Boy, am I confused- are you? Hope you can understand all that!!! ex this and ex best that yada yada yada- Good luck, i don't envy you.
2007-01-16 18:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Silliest message I ever heard...but she is reacting like any hurt individual---she spoke her piece and you listened--erase it and act like you didn't hear it or care what she said. it is only a last ditched effort to have contact with you or to harrass you---and just try to make you miserable. Ignore her--she is being aggressive but will eventually stop if you just don't react. Be quiet, be mature, be happy and move on. To respond in any way will keep the annoying calls coming---ignore it all and be happy. Guys do it too---imagine yourself watching an ex with a friend of yours--you might do stupid stuff too---or maybe you are too grown up for all that and would let them be.....good luck.
2007-01-16 18:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone opened their big mouth and spread your business to your ex and now she's upset. Alot can happen in 6 hours.
2007-01-16 18:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously the girl your dating most likely told her ex best friend that you were dating her or someone else told her. If she is your ex...why do you care wha she thinks?
2007-01-16 18:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to her
2007-01-16 18:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋