Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

love with them for the first time? Do you think that is possible?

2007-01-16 17:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by Psychgirl35 3 in Singles & Dating

she doing it for the money, she putting herself through university, she comes from a poor family and student loans are too steep, it bothers me a little but i do understand, help

2007-01-16 17:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 yr and we had a long conversation about our relationship last thursday. He told me he couldn't move in with me right now because I had talked to his ex behind his back and now he can't fully trust me anymore, he told me he felt caged by me, that he likes to be by himself sometimes, that I go nuts if I don't see him for 1 day, but the truth is that we only see each other 2-3 days out of the week and sometimes he doesn't call me all day or when he says he's going to so I feel neglected and I just want to see him whenever I can. since our conversation on thur. he told me that he loved me and he invited me and my brother over to his house on fri. called me on sat. to let me know we couldn't go to the movies like we were suppose to and said he would call me later on or on sun. but ever since sat. he hasn't called and I don't know why and I feel so hurt because he tells me "I love u" all the time and now I'm thinking maybe he's not that into me anymore

2007-01-16 17:22:14 · 6 answers · asked by bettygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 17:21:51 · 15 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5 in Singles & Dating

Her and her fiance were hang out a total of 31 days, after two weeks of dating they got engaged and have set the date to May of 07. Meaning by the time they get married they would only be dating for six months. Should I tell her my concerns or keep quiet? Either way I'm happy for her. She totally deserves happiness. But come on who gets engaged after two weeks of dating? HELP! Let me know what u guys think.

2007-01-16 17:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by Sweet Shay 2 in Friends

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2007-01-16 17:21:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In a dream I saw my fiancee with another girl, and they were married. What should i make of this? I have had this type if dream 3 times? But the other two dreams he was not married to them. And in all the dreams I knew the girl!

2007-01-16 17:21:05 · 13 answers · asked by Sandra 2 in Weddings

I started dating this guy last summer and we dated exclusively for about 4 months until it started trickling into dating casually and then not at all. I see him all the time because I work with him. Yeah I know. Never date a co worker. But it's too late for that. Anyway this year I felt he and I were starting to gain back something we had before. Last night I spoke to him about it and he said he doesn't feel we should date again cuz we don't "mesh" well together. He likes me though and wants to remain friends. The dreaded words! The sad thing is, I think I fell in love with him and now I am so heartbroken. I don't know what to do! I am just so incredibly saddened by all of this. Help please!!! :(

2007-01-16 17:20:52 · 7 answers · asked by L 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this one guy, and I know 2 people that are good friends with me and him. Both of them say "Just don't worry about it anymore" or "It's not worth your time." But the thing is, I think he is really interested in me, but shy and intimidated (I am a year and a half older). So, Should I give my crush up, or just ask him out? I mean, we don't talk a lot during the week because I am too scared to call him, and we talk occassionally through MySpace.

2007-01-16 17:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by bridgetrocks86 2 in Singles & Dating

Although we have not broken up, but we both agree to give each other some time and space to discover what we really want in life, although it had settled my mind, but it still hasn't settled my heart, as each second goes by without her, another piece of my heart breaks off and replaced with the cold insanity of loneliness.


I've been missing her since the first day of this time and space and it is killing me every second, killing my heart away.


I know time is the best medicine, it shows us who and what we are in the long run and I do hope to keep missing her every day, but I need my heart to stay strong, strong enough to ride time, strong enough to see her again, even if it was just one more time.


Help me, to stay strong...


Thank You

2007-01-16 17:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by calv83luc 3 in Singles & Dating

You help someone with a troubled childhood out, was selling herself, she falls in love with you. Is it possible to forgive them??

2007-01-16 17:19:32 · 29 answers · asked by James F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

People ask a question, because they're unsure.
Why do some of you people have to be so rude ? Is it that you are immature ?Insecure ? Like, what possess you to act so rude!?!?

If you don't have anything nice to say, keep it to yourself. Some of these people are unsure, and there is nothing wrong with it.

God... get a life you guys!

2007-01-16 17:19:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MONEY is his God, i'm not kidding you. he has been threatening all kinds of stuff lately, because i'm due a states 'cost of living increase' for Child Support. How do i deal with this crazy man?

yeah i know, its child support, not child trust fund.... but he is just a complete LUNATIC.

2007-01-16 17:16:36 · 6 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 17:16:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I've known for over 8 yrs is someone I could always trust, I could tell her anything, we've never faught and we've never had a disgreement. But about 2 yrs ago I met this boy I ended up falling madly in love with, we are currently in a relationship... Anyway, my boyfriend and I just recently kissed for the first time, my bestfriend still doesn't know, but the issue is that she seems to always have something bad to say about him and I haven't really mentioned anything to her yet but lately I've been snapping back with comments just as bad. I love him so much but she really doesn't know much about all that and is automatically making false assumptions, as many times as I correct her she still doesn't seem to get the hint. I haven't told her that him and I are now official because I don't want to hear her bull, but I also don't want him to think that I want to hide our relationship..... if it comes down to it....I think I'm going to have to choose.....your opions?

2007-01-16 17:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by Chikk230 2 in Friends

I have been feeling very loney lately. At schoo, I usually have people with me, people say hi in the hallways, people know my name. Recently i lost a friendship with someone. we had been friends for 2 years, she did deserve the loss of my trust after she started rumors and told everyone all my secrets and I had done nothing. After that passed I feel like I have lost more even though every one else is the same around me and I don't miss her as a friend but I feel like something is missing.

2007-01-16 17:15:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Mine saids he don't know why? But that to me makes no sense! Sense i know if i cheated I would know why I did it!! I think if you cheat on a woman your with and suppose to love her you should know why you did it ! I just wonder if other men thats been through this had an answer as to why ?they did it to her?

2007-01-16 17:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by monkeymomma46 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just moved out with my g/f of one year and I have to say it was a pretty big mistake. We do not get along whatsoever in a living together situation and It's obviously not going to work out. This is only three days into it and we've been just arguing every single day and tonight she went as far as to nearly break up with me. The apartment and everything is all in her name and if she decides to give me the boot I really can't do anything about it. I have nowhere to go to if she does either. What the heck am I supposed to do?

2007-01-16 17:13:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my father spoke of a will,when he passed the wife put all money and house in her sons nameas exector.she now has a restraining order on me from gossipp. i havent done anything wrong.i just asked to see the will
she is moving back to indiana.my father has been dead 3 months

2007-01-16 17:12:15 · 2 answers · asked by janet . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 17:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by S x 1 in Singles & Dating

Well in my group of friends, I have this friend who thinks she can say and do whatever she wants. She thinks she's our "leader." Well I got sick of it, so I started sticking up for myself whenever she offended me or one of my friends. Then she started "talking" about me behind my back, but being friendly to my face. I know this because people have told me. Then she started taking me off her "top friends" on myspace. I haven't done anything to her except not side with her when she complains about other people.

Being nice doesnt work as she just walks over me. If I leave my groups of friends, she'll call me "pathetic" and I dont like to run away from issues. It's as if she is so bored with her life, she has to have fighting for fun.

2007-01-16 17:10:55 · 15 answers · asked by Nass 1 in Friends

I've been with her for almost 3 years and put it in this way, we are very sexually active in the past and we enjoyed it alot. But gradually, it got lesser. Until recently, she felt that i treated her just like a tool to satisfy my sexual desires and she always against sex even though we hadn't done it for a month. She told me she can live without sex for a long time. BUT I CAN'T! She claims that i'm a great bf and i should respect her for what she wants. But she wants a sex-free love life. What should i do now??

2007-01-16 17:10:49 · 18 answers · asked by twpin82 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding date had to be pushed up a few months, and now I don't know if I will have time to make all the necessary plans. Does anyone know any reliable and relatively inexpensive photographers/videographers, florists, tent rental companies (outdoor wedding), dj's, or any other useful info for a quick wedding in the Louisville, Kentucky area? ANY help is much appreciated!!

2007-01-16 17:10:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. then my friend called her while i was on the third line and my friend asked why she keeps looking at me during class and she said just to see what hes doing. then she kept going about the things she liked about me and then my friend asked do you like him and she said she'll tell him at school then they talked at school the next day and she does like me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy. i'm just not sure what to think anymore.

2007-01-16 17:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

and I don't get much satisfaction from it, and I just can't get use to it. Plus I don't enjoy touching skin to skin, it kind of turns me off in a weird way. I know this sounds pathetic, but I enjoy masturbating more. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-01-16 17:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suicide.He expressed his love and told me he didnt want to lose me. I find out the reason he was feeling this way was bc he got a onenight stand pregnant months bfr we met. I helped him come to terms he decided to want to meet his child & I told him he should be apart of the childs life.Well, he decided to remain friends w/ me until he figured how to deal with it all, but to hold on to "us". But I found out he was developing feelings for the mom and he got caught out. We had a huge blow out and exchanged very hurtful words and was cold and hurtful..we never did before.Then we spoke again and he said it was all uncalled for. Yet, I feel he wasn't sincere about it. He wasnt even able to speak to me on the phone for more then 2 min.Now he doesnt want to speak to me at all.All I wanted was to discuss the matter.His he feeling guilty, does he feel imperfect in my eyes now, so he is acting defensive?Did he really want me gone? Idont want him back, I just cant get how someone can be this way

2007-01-16 17:09:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancy delivered her first child 4 months back. I must honestly state that i like sex and if i dont get it, i go mad. So we waited for sometimes that her scars heal. Later on she tells me that she has lost interest in sex psycologically and physically because of the hormones. Normally when we sleep everytime we are naked. This night she lay on her belly and her arms streched outward and i happened to lye next to her my leg on top of hers and my tools(u know what i mean) fell right into her hand and i slept. I was then woken up by her body quivering and shaking and i wondered what could this be. Does it mean she is ready or i should still give it time? I dont sleep because i want her so much. What do you think? Am i mad or just understand or too understanding?

2007-01-16 17:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 17:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by coolbuddy 1 in Friends

My Filipina fiance joined me here in Australia 4 months ago on a fiance visa. We are supposed to get married before 9 months up when her Fiance visa expires. Now she is pregnant and yet I am NOT prepared to marry her. My thoughts about her have changed considerably. The baby is mine....I am sure about that and I am willing to be the father. As far as I know, no one else knows about the pregnacy, incuding her parenst and siblings---I find that strange--I thought she would have told them by now. I know she will soon ask when we will be getting married, and it is then when I will most likely say hmmmmm....What is the best way to handle this situation with out creating a lot of animosity form my fiance? It is far too common for ladies in her shoes to file fictitious violence claims and the like. I don't mind her remaining in Australia, only that I don't want the say "I Do"! Any suggestions?

2007-01-16 17:07:29 · 9 answers · asked by Chito 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 a senior in high school, and I am a very handsome young man. I'm 6'3 tall and dark and I already said handsome. I am not conceded, but this is what I always hear. I wanna know how do I put myself out there. How do I show girls I am interesting? I am lookin for a girl, and when you want one the most... it doesn't come and your bait doesnt get bites... any ideas ,suggestion?

2007-01-16 17:06:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating