I am 18 a senior in high school, and I am a very handsome young man. I'm 6'3 tall and dark and I already said handsome. I am not conceded, but this is what I always hear. I wanna know how do I put myself out there. How do I show girls I am interesting? I am lookin for a girl, and when you want one the most... it doesn't come and your bait doesnt get bites... any ideas ,suggestion?
2007-01-16 17:06:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself and listen more and talk less.
2007-01-16 17:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The absolute way to get a girl interested in you is by showing extreme and sincere interest in her by asking her questions about her interests, thoughts, goals, dreams and hobbies and by finding areas you have in common. Then help her in some way, show gestures. Too much in common- she will think you are a fraud. If you show the same interest in more than one woman, it will be eventually found out and you will lose both women, so try to stick with one girl at a time.
After a decent amount of chatting (girls like and need to TALK to get to know a guy before getting comfortable with him), do something sweet like hide a rose in the girls locker.
On the first date do NOT move in for the kiss. Wait till you are at her door and come close to it, but say- next time I want to get to know you better. It will drive her crazy with anticipation and earn you brownie points.
So in summary. - Dont talk about yourself unless questioned, and then do so only sparingly. Be careful about insensitive questions that strike a negative cord. Dont flash cash at her, as her own interest may not be genuine for you and you cant win a heart that way.
Be confident but not egotistical (acting like you OWN THE PLACE=BAD IDEA) you may attract the wrong type of girl (ie one into drugs, fights, and other negative behavior)
Any guy who follows this advice (good looking or not) will do well. Good looks only gets you so far. This advice works with ALL women and even girls. PS. I am a married woman.
2007-01-16 17:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Variant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are dumb. they're not worth it. heh. if you have to ask how to appear interesting, maybe you should take up a new hobby and stop worrying about it. if you have to make a conscious effort to be interesting, it's not the real you. girls don't want you to put on a show. You're only a senior. when you get to college, you get to start over and be who you want to be. it's like a second chance at life. if you're really desperate, I've got one word for you: service. Girls love the kind of guy who will go the extra mile to help someone out. just don't overdo it.
2007-01-16 17:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're honestly good looking then you already have their attention, try being funny. Make a girl laugh, im always attracted to a guy who can make me laugh. Maybe be the one to just ask a girl if she wants to hang out, or set up a group outing with a couple girls you may be interested in. Just start talking to someone and im sure they'll notice, even if you feel reatarded doing it. :] hope that helped.
2007-01-16 17:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by whyy_nottt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really care how handsome he is, hes personality is what I most enjoy about him. Also a guy that is nice and treat others nice. I like guys who are nice to me but know when to back off. What I mean is that I don't guys to be all over me trying to be always being nice. But know when to be a gentleman. I kind of like it when he keeps me guessing, not always playing games but once a while I like them to be mysterious.
2007-01-16 17:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big hint - get over yourself. And if you concentrate more on others than yourself you may be off to a decent start.
2007-01-16 17:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act cool, and Calected.... do some everyday Flirting....
Act like you own the place. Be bad!
Thats what all girls like about boyz (i shud know)
2007-01-16 17:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Paris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-16 17:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them, seem intrested in what they do, saying etc. and eye contact i guess. though i'm a girl, i'm not 18 yet =p
2007-01-16 17:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...well talk to them and like seem interested! just pretend you know what there talking about even if you don't! just nod your head!
2007-01-16 17:11:18 · answer #11 · answered by Samantha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋