My fiancy delivered her first child 4 months back. I must honestly state that i like sex and if i dont get it, i go mad. So we waited for sometimes that her scars heal. Later on she tells me that she has lost interest in sex psycologically and physically because of the hormones. Normally when we sleep everytime we are naked. This night she lay on her belly and her arms streched outward and i happened to lye next to her my leg on top of hers and my tools(u know what i mean) fell right into her hand and i slept. I was then woken up by her body quivering and shaking and i wondered what could this be. Does it mean she is ready or i should still give it time? I dont sleep because i want her so much. What do you think? Am i mad or just understand or too understanding?
2007-01-16 17:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel. Sex is a big issue between couples. Two people can hate each other and still HAVE SEX regularly. If the sex is gone between you two, then its a problem. If she's not interested in sex with you anymore, then she needs outside help. She should understand how you feel, and she should WANT to please you. If she knows she needs help, then she needs to get it.
2007-01-16 17:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was crying because she doesn't know or can't understand what is happening with her body right now.She could be going through post-part em depression.Talk to her and ask her if she needs to talk to her doctor.I think that sex should be put on the back burner for now.4 months she would've been back to her old self again.Something is not right and she needs your support at a time like this.Good luck& Take care.
2007-01-17 01:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quivering and shaking doesnt mean a girl is ready for sex...the only way to know is too ASK HER! How are we supposed to tell you if shes ready or not?
2007-01-17 01:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she was shivering-yes she could be ready now. But u have a baby-its time to make an honest women out of her already.
2007-01-17 01:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually wondering if you fathered the child. How did it work the last time?
Flowers, chocolate, romance. She needs to feel like a sexy woman, not a brood mare.
2007-01-17 01:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quivering and shaking? Sounds like she had an orgasm without you!
2007-01-17 01:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you ask her that's the only way you'll know for sure right?
2007-01-17 01:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premarital counseling and/or sex addiction counseling for you.
2007-01-17 01:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no u do first move
2007-01-17 03:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ahmad E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋