I've been with my boyfriend for 1 yr and we had a long conversation about our relationship last thursday. He told me he couldn't move in with me right now because I had talked to his ex behind his back and now he can't fully trust me anymore, he told me he felt caged by me, that he likes to be by himself sometimes, that I go nuts if I don't see him for 1 day, but the truth is that we only see each other 2-3 days out of the week and sometimes he doesn't call me all day or when he says he's going to so I feel neglected and I just want to see him whenever I can. since our conversation on thur. he told me that he loved me and he invited me and my brother over to his house on fri. called me on sat. to let me know we couldn't go to the movies like we were suppose to and said he would call me later on or on sun. but ever since sat. he hasn't called and I don't know why and I feel so hurt because he tells me "I love u" all the time and now I'm thinking maybe he's not that into me anymore
2007-01-16 17:22:14 · 6 answers · asked by bettygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him space, sounds like he is trying to make space in between you two. Love is one of the most abused words these days, I think love starts when both people cannot get enough of each other. Give him as much time as he wants, he may grow up a bit in that time and realize what he has with you. If he doesn't then drop him, not healthy to be in a one sided relationship. Good Luck.
2007-01-16 17:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, he's 'not' that into you anymore!
If you 'did' talk to his X behind his back, then this is the reason he
feels he can't trust you.
You have to understand that he 'does' have a good point!
How would you feel if he spoke to an X of yours?
You'd probably throw a fit, as most people would.
An X is 'bad memories, bad feelings, and bad endings', so hopefully you can see where he's coming from.
I really think he's having 'second thoughts' about you and your relationship.
If he hasn't called you by now I think I'd just move on.
Maybe he just needs time to think!!
2007-01-17 01:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress too much, just give him some time.
I'm not sure how long he hasn't spoken to you, but just give him that little extra time.
This will let his mind settle down to do things properly, the last thing you want to happen is, to make him jumping into conclusions with a confused mind.
I've been in a similar situation in the past, but she did not give me time, she bugged me time after time, I finally snapped and said to separate... 2 weeks should be enough to settle his mind, otherwise, you should leave, as his wasting your time and hurting you.
2007-01-17 01:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your devoting a lot of energy to a guy that Truely does not appreciate, or deserve you. Good luck in finding true Love and Happieness.
2007-01-25 00:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking Betty, it sounds like this guy is a selfish loser.
Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want to be
open and honest with you.
2007-01-25 01:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gee drop him...let him go ...it sounds like he is not into you...do not call him longer let him be and than see what his reaction is...you take care
2007-01-17 01:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋