I just moved out with my g/f of one year and I have to say it was a pretty big mistake. We do not get along whatsoever in a living together situation and It's obviously not going to work out. This is only three days into it and we've been just arguing every single day and tonight she went as far as to nearly break up with me. The apartment and everything is all in her name and if she decides to give me the boot I really can't do anything about it. I have nowhere to go to if she does either. What the heck am I supposed to do?
2007-01-16 17:13:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BE A MAN AND LEAVE even if it means a trailer park or mom's house
2007-01-16 20:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you both need to calm down and let everything normalize a bit. I am guessing that this is a big step for both of you and you both are expecting too much just settle down and enjoy the new things that come with becoming an "us" believe me it's nerve wracking but moving is in itself stressful but go home tonight after work bring her some nice flowers apologize to her for being on edge and she'll apologize and make dinner in your new apartment eat by candlelight and relax about the whole living together thing it's a natural step in a relationship and it's something to be enjoyed. Just relax and don't think the worst be positive and stop arguing let her have her way and if you refuse to argue she can't fight with you. Just sit down and talk with her and get you expectations from one another out in the open, before your worrying about which of your mates you can crash at first. Don't be so quick to give up fight if it's worth fighting for and it must be worth it since you have gotten to the move in together stage.Good-luck.
2007-01-17 01:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Katprsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work out the issues
make ground rules if there is no rules then there is fights
talk about the expectations u both have out of living together.
if u cant do that phone a friend and crash for a while till u get home of ur own
2007-01-17 01:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to line up another apartment or something just in case... if you're having problems, try to talk it out, give her some space. It sounds like it would probably better to not share the same place.
2007-01-17 01:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by aggieblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try & find a friend to move in with & surprize her by leaving.Or If in the USA,,Social Services can give you emergency help. Id play like everything is working out,,just say ,,yes dear,,your right or whatever,,then first chance you get,,split.Good luck
2007-01-17 01:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
it may be nothing you can do but try to make it work until you
can fiquire out what you can do about it, maybe you can go
to friends or family, but keep options open for you it sound like
this is not going to work out, and then maybe next time you will
think long and and hard about this before you do this again.
2007-01-17 01:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rent your own place and move on! Don't you work? most men make more money then women and can afford thier on place to rent!!
2007-01-17 01:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back to where you moved out from.
Get a job....get your own place
2007-01-17 03:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new place to live..
2007-01-17 02:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to determine what your arguments are about. If you're unable to do that..........Find a place.........Pronto!
2007-01-17 01:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋