and I don't get much satisfaction from it, and I just can't get use to it. Plus I don't enjoy touching skin to skin, it kind of turns me off in a weird way. I know this sounds pathetic, but I enjoy masturbating more. Is there something wrong with me?
2007-01-16 17:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't know what your missing.... get some help use your hand to dial the phone for an appointment with a sex therapist
2007-01-16 17:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think so.. alot of people are going to think you're reallly weird but I think everyone is different and you have the right to say how you feel about sex. You might be a solitude kinda guy, just really to yourself and you just handle your buisness and you're good to go... that can come in handy but is that really what you want to do for the rest of your life?
Have you tried falling in love and having sex? It's called making love, it's actually a much nicer experience , very heart warming. And if it's smelly, try the shower.... try using foreplay before having sex, so you can adjust to having someone... You really should try because you may want to make someone happy out there... but if not, then just keep doing what you're doing at least you're safe from diseases and babies. :)
And maybe you're an Alien...I'm an alien too...:)
Actually you kinda remind me of a futuristic movie called the demolition man... the people use these helmets that stimulate the part of the brain that give people the stimulus of an orgasm without exchanging fluids.... sooo cooollll
2007-01-17 01:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by ahs_freakychic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex isn't just about the physical part; it's about the intimacy level. It's supposed to be awkward, hard to perform, and smelly. That's what makes it so great! Sex is not for people who don't like to get close. It's for people who enjoy being passionate, and communicating in ways that are more than just verbal, and connecting on a deeper level. If you don't enjoy touching skin to skin, either you don't enjoy being that close to your S.O., or you actually have problems touching people (or having people touch you), and those types of problems usually are pyschological in nature, not phyiscal.
2007-01-17 01:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by supensa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is unusual to not want to lay skin on skin. Humans were built for bodily contact. That's why we usually run in packs. It's not too unusual to be slightly less than enthralled by sex tho. At 18, I am stil a virgin, and one of the reasons is that I don't really find it that appealing. And this from a teenager, who is at the age where sex is supposed to be all anyone thinks about! I have better uses for my time. I do enjoy hugs tho. Where do you stand on purely platonic touching? (ex: hugs, handshakes...etc)
2007-01-17 01:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by purrr:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ,could you have met the wrong girl/s?
I'm not sure how to answer this one .
i noticed you typed smelly ,there's a say if little girl are made out of sugar and spice ,how come they smell like tuna ?
let me tell you ,find you clean girls ,the smell should be turn on for you ,not the opposite.skin to skin next time try with clothes on or just pulled the panties to the side ,maybe be a turn on .
have you masturbated for so long ,that you have gotten used to your hand .
could you be gay?
2007-01-17 01:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are, but it could be your not ready to be having sex. Its possible that could change as you age but if it doesnt you better make sure if you ever plan to marry that the girl you marry is aware of your distaste for it. It wouldnt be fair to go into a marriage with intentions of not fulfilling her needs, and women love to be touched even without the sex.
2007-01-17 01:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the person with whom u are having sex with. But i've heard that some guys like to masturbate more than have sex. Maybe its a control thing. Try playing out ur fantasy with ur partner, maybe that will help. Do some research on it (it being masturbation.)
2007-01-17 01:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might benefit from a checkup. If you have trouble with textures (skin on skin), an occupational therapist can help.
I'd push away from the porn for awhile, however, so you can experience real human contact.
2007-01-17 01:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You have masturbated too much. Masturbation is lonely and selfish. You are not experiencing the joy of giving pleasure as well as receiving it. I feel sorry for you.
2007-01-17 01:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find someone with whom you're sexually compatible, you'll be fine. In the meantime, find positions that don't have a lot of skin to skin contact - woman on top, or doggie style.
2007-01-17 01:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might have sensetive skin, go see a doctor or get a full body massage and see if that does anything for ya.
2007-01-17 01:13:03 · answer #11 · answered by Tim G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋