unfortunatily we get a badlife partner what to do
2007-01-16 18:24:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You picked em, right?! Didn't you notice fatal character flaws prior to deciding that this person was "The One"? What makes this person a bad life partner now that didn't make him/her a bad choice before you "chose" to make a life partner out of him/her? Has he/she changed or have you changed? Have you discovered things about this person that were purposely hidden from you before that would have changed the way you saw them? No one said a life commitment would be easy. We all have flaws. The best anyone can hope for is to find someone who will love us and stand by us, not in spite of our flaws but by recognizing that those flaws are part of what makes you, you and embraces them and remains committed to slogging through life with you anyway making the tough choices and getting through the good, the bad and the ugly in hopes of looking back on your life together and knowing that this was in the beginning, your choice, and later your darkest moment, but finally your greatest accomplishment.
2007-01-16 18:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by just lisa & proud of it!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "get" a bad life partner. You get RID of a bad life partner. 'Why would you want to go through life with a bad one when there are so many good ones out there??
2007-01-16 19:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by geminicatlver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad life partner means what? Is ur life partner being bad with you, or is he/she having bad habits, or is bad with everyone?
if ur life partner is being just bad with you, then u must understand that you both should clear some misunderstands and try to be nice with each other. love and care will wipe out any kind of hatred. be patient with ur life partner and show love and caring in spite of he/she being impolite to u. then u will see the change in ur life partner towards you!!
2007-01-16 21:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by rekha K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This whole life is about Change...Change....and Change.......
I am not suggesting you to change your partner. But try changing yourself first so that you can lead a happy life with your partner. Most of the time we are the root cause for all the problems. Give it a try.....
2007-01-19 05:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Love - we should know what is love. first of all to whom is your life partner bad. is it to you, not to herself or himself, what is wrong - where does something go wrong. sugar is sweet to us not to itself, mirchi is chilly to us and not to itself, similarly your life partner may be bad to you not to her/him self. We should never think that our life partner should be like this but think of how your life partner want us to be and if we start behaving as they expect us to be then there will be nothing bad. put milk on stove it will take few minutes to boil and ready to use. In the same way through the stone into the sky it will take some time to drop on us. Give some time for fruit after planting i.e. start behaving as per the expectations of the others even though you don't like and then they will be to our expectations. this is not simple but practise makes man perfect.
2007-01-17 17:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by nani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the reason why is ur partner being so bad..ask the question to urself..if possible win urself before u win ur life partner..
2007-01-18 03:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let your self down get out there and get a good life partner in all my day i would never let no one push me round lol x
2007-01-16 18:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by xvougeprincessx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this arranged? If you chose, then think on those things that made you choose this person in the first place. Try to see the good.
2007-01-16 18:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that this is the person you chose...out of all the people in the world...this is the one you picked
and then pick better next time...
2007-01-16 18:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of flute player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear sir/madam, bad in what sense?? Is it up to character or only up to habit??
If it is only up to habit then please help him/her to get rid of those habits...kind suggestion then temporary isolation. But if it is up to character then best way is give him/her enough space to enjoy life in his/her way and suggest him/her that in future he/she will be having very big trouble.
I don't know whether it work or not..but please have a try.
Best wishes!!!
2007-01-16 23:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by nbgl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋