Love is hard!?
I had been dating this girl on and off on and off for about a year. Untill a couple weeks ago we broke up. I just recently moved states for school. But i am in lots of pain because im missing her i think. We broke up because we kept arguing at least 4 times a day. We would go out to eat and wouldn't say a word to each other. Unless we forced a convo. I feel like an idiot because when i was in the relationship i wanted out so we would break up. But then when i was not in the relationship i wanted her again. So i realized that she wasn't right for me she had nothing i wanted in a girl. Well to be honest the only good thing we had together was the sex. But nothing more. But now that i have moved away its killing me knowing there is no possibility now for us again. And jealousy is also killing me. Why do i still want her knowing she isn't right for me. And how do i deal with jealousy of her sleeping with other guys?
2007-01-16 18:01:34 · 10 answers · asked by dishizal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe, just maybe, there was just a little bit more than just the sex. But think about this---if you two cannot stand being in each others company w/o arguing all of the time, perhaps it is for the best that you have moved on. Forget about her and don't concern yourself with HER sex life, be concerned with your own! Time to find someone new.... Move on, dude.
2007-01-16 18:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The writting was on the wall when you both became embroiled in nonsensical arguements leading to periodic break ups.
this gut feeling that she was not the right gal for you was evident from the arguements that took place. As usual the only thing that held the relationship together was sex and you know that it takes much more than that.
You will in time find the right gal for you and I do hope that maturity on your part will prevent you from getting into arguements, should this arguementive mode persist in other relationships anger management may be the right thing to do.
2007-01-16 18:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by trendz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is! You just lusted that girl...she's not the one for you so move on and let her go. If she sleeps with other guys then who cares she not your girlfriend. Why would you wanna be in a relationship and all you do is argue with someone? and the only thing good about it is the sex?
2007-01-16 18:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you say love is hard... if she isn't right for you get over it...u need to move on. She has.... so why cant you coz.... u jealous...make up your mind she's either right or wrong for you... maybe she didn't like the sex between you guys..coz usually its the girl that runs after the guy... GET OVER IT..i know its harsh but move on..if you don't keep looking for someone new how will u find miss right for you.
Good luck
2007-01-16 18:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Natz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not about her but about how you feel about yourself. When she goes out with other guys it makes you feel that you are not good enough. It's not about you.
Open your hand. Let go of the past. Only when you let go of the past will you be free to hold the future.
2007-01-16 18:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away it takes time, You dont want her. So now is your time to heal and get on with your life. Go enjoy your life and someday the girl your looking for will come along
2007-01-16 18:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by xxgq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't really love her,you just want to own her.The best way is go to chase other pretty girls and forget her.
2007-01-16 18:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by ♡Ling♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a lot of issues to deal with.
2007-01-16 18:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be bery hard how you feelt love
2007-01-16 18:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called lust...not love. better luck next time
2007-01-16 18:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by Marty B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋