PLEASE BE NICE!EVERYONE IS A JERK NOW A DAYS,DONT ADD TO THAT COUNT!Heres my question,this guy I love,I mean love,started flirting with me,and I think he wanted to be more than "Friends".Then he gets asked out,and he accepts. :( Well anyways,I still caught him looking at me even though he had a girlfriend,almost every day,but now,for about a month,I hardly ever catch him,which makes me feel as though he's over me.But one day,about a week ago,we had to do this playing test(playing scales on an instrument in front of the whole band) as individuals,and when I got done,people started clapping,but he was the only one who stood up and clapped.That day,out of like 35 people,he only stood up and clapped for 5 of us,2 guys,his girlfriend,his girlfriends best friend,and then me.I was seriously the odd ball out.I could see why he stood up if we were super close,but were not,we dont talk much anymore.What do you think?Is he over me?
2007-01-16 18:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is most likely still attracted to you at times and would like to show tha he is still interested so yes i would say he is
2007-01-16 18:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by funkywhiteshirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. You have to consider the scenario where he sees nothing wrong with the relationship between you two. As a guy, we don't think about the deeper "meanings" of our actions. It is possible that he considers you a close friend and that you feel the same. Clapping for you may simply mean that he thought you did very well.
2007-01-17 02:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinik he still kiknd of likes you, but doesn't want to show it too much. It is kind of odd that he stood up for you and you were the only odd ball in the bunch that he stood for. Maybe he's waiting for you to talk to him. Just approach him as a friend and see if he wants to hang out some time, if he makes excuses then he really only wants to be aa aquaintance, but if he says that he will, there is deffinately something there.
2007-01-17 03:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mamma M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're reading to much into his actions because you have a thing for him.He may have very well thought you played well. Sometimes wishful thinking makes you see more than what is there. Besides he's already taken,.....would you want that done to you?
2007-01-17 03:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by svveetness_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could've stood up for his girlfriend too.
you never know. i wish i knew someone's thought too.
the person already has someone else and,,,darn....
my life is kinda going on a path like you, so i understand
you a bit.
just be kind to him as usual, and concentrate
on something more important and exciting than
seeing him. something that you really really like.
that will get you out of confusing times.
you can do it!!!
2007-01-17 03:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he still has thing for you, but he doesn't know how to show it. you said he has a girlfriend, maybe things aren't going very well and he's trying to throw signs your way.....guys are strangre creatures however, so don't go full scale assault right away. do some recon (but not stalker).
2007-01-17 03:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may still like you a little. But you have to get over him because he has a girlfriend.
2007-01-17 02:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ruth B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you love him.but he still love his girl friend.so if you want him,you have a lot of scrifices to make him die his girl friend.i belt u to let him be just a friend
2007-01-17 03:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by princessadaku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I don't think he was ever into you. How can you love someone you never even dated?
2007-01-17 02:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditto what emjolina said
2007-01-17 03:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋