I have this wonderful loving sexy girlfriend whom I love very very much. However she gets these moods and when in one of these moods she tells me how she has heard these promises and words b4 and I am sure she has. I need to prove to her that I am not ome of "those guys" and that I would never lie, cheat, or abuse. There are just too many guys who treat women like crap in this world and it makes it really hard for gentlemen like myself
2007-01-16 18:50:30 · 9 answers · asked by John N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is just insecure about being loved because she has been hurt before. There isn't much you can say to make those feelings go away, you need to SHOW her you are different by your actions.
You know, being truthful, loving, strong..etc.
Eventually she will trust in love and in you.
If she keeps up this "moodiness" for months then you have another issue...she'll need to see a therapist.
But for right now she just needs some TLC.
2007-01-16 19:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen, my brother!
I hear ya, I feel your pain! But the only way you're going to get her to stop talking like this is to stay the course and prove to her your not like those other guys, eventually she will stop - if not a quick reminder of how long you've been with her and stuck by her might be in order, but don't be mean about it.
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!!
2007-01-16 18:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its difficult to win the trust of a women that has heard it all before. The best way is to show her through ur actions, continue to love her, give her no reason for her to doubt ur sincerity, loyalty &trust by remaining faithfull.
2007-01-16 19:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u're rite when u said that many guys are treating women like crap tis days. so to make your women feel safe and secure, earn her trust. keep on telling and showing her how much you luv her and how much she means to you. always be there and dude be truthful and loyal. she will get the msg eventually
2007-01-16 19:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do your best to reassure her but don't let her walk all over you either. You are not those other guys and she cannot continually compare you to them
She may need to get some counseling if this becomes a big issue.
2007-01-16 18:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make promisses like the past guys that she knows.Talk less but show her in action that you care and love her.Iam sure the past guys promissed but did not fulfill the promisses.On your part dont promise but let actions show you care.
2007-01-16 18:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi john from ur q i can understand that u really love ur gf,very few boys think about it .just give ur gf time so that she can really know u,behave as u r after some days she will understand the depthness of ur love and then all will be alright.take care
2007-01-16 19:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by vrushali c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know alot of girls who get like that i am one of those girls. I have leared that she gets like this coz she feels inscure n not sure or she is not happy with herself. The only other reson that ican think that she gets like this is becasue wat u say has been said by her Xs n she thinks that u n her will turn out the same. I think u need to sit her down n talk 2 her n tell her how u feel n wat u think. I hope this will help if not i am sorry.
2007-01-16 18:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy when she get one of those "moods", she is experiencing PMS. and therefore you have to understand mood swings are normal. As for you, I'm pretty sure you don't have PMS so no excuse for you there buddy!
2007-01-16 18:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Naresh N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋