My bestfriend is a year older than me so shes ahead by one grade too.. Well the thing is she asked me to do one of her projects in history and she gets straight F's in school and i get straight A's.. So even though she's in a school grade higher I decided to do her project that was worth her whole grade. She has to turn it in tommorow and I totally forgot about it. I dont know whether to feel bad cuz i do EVERYTHING for her like homework.. I dont know what to do.. If i dont do it she might not even talk to me anymore.. If i dont do it what will i tell her tommorow.. I CANT TELL HER I FORGOT!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!
2007-01-16 18:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your so called 'friend' is definitely taking advantage of you--and whether you realize it or not, a friendship should not be built upon how much you can do for the other person. When it comes to her homework, you shouldn't be doing it for her.
Yes, I understand you get Straight A's and she gets F's and you're trying to help, but think about it....are you REALLY helping her LEARN anything by doing her entire project?
Of course not!
In this case, Just call her up and say that you forgot and make sure to make it clear that you will no longer take responsability for her homework.
Trust me, as a friend, the BEST thing you can do, is to sit down with her and HELP her do her work, so she can understand it better--and actually learn something.
2007-01-16 19:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by WickedCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you realize that by doing your friends work for her you are making her more dependent on you, as well you are telling everyone that she is not intelligent enough to do her own work. You may have convinced your self you are only helping, but now it is an expectation and because you forgot to do her work for her she will no doubt fail her grade, and at least she will have you to blame for not doing it for her on time. I f you really want to help her show her how to get serious and do her own studying and home work. The old saying is true, feed a man a fish he has a meal today, teach him how to fish he has a meal for life. Please do not take any more away from your friend
2007-01-17 03:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friend would ask another to do such a huge favor. If she treats u bad for this she is no friend. Quit doing her homework. You could get in big trouble if youre caught too
2007-01-17 02:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. she wants u just to help here in here work u should know that u r younger than her so she should take care of u so it wasn't abeg mistack that u forget but u also wrong because u saied u will do it so she dont do it do u got what i wanna say? so u should find afriend has tha same life and be more closer to u
2007-01-17 02:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by jorjina09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're not responsible for her homework. It sounds like she's just using you. If she gets caught, you're BOTH in trouble.
2007-01-17 02:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. If she is your friend, she'll understand but if she doesn't want to speak to you after this, just forget her and make new friends.
2007-01-17 02:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's using you... i dont think you need her as a friend. look for people that care about you and ask you how your days going, and help you when your down.. those are friends.
2007-01-17 02:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by jason r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's ure real friend.....she'll just forget about it....
2007-01-17 02:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by winneythepooh1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋