ok. he is my dad and i love hem soo much but since 6 years ago he knoen a woman no it's a devil she loves hem soo much so for that she traied more and more to make us hate him he alwayes say the truth no he was the truth but now i dont know any thing i heared his voise with here making sex but he denyed i wanna believe him but i can't in firest iwas his soul ,heart and all his life but now i'm the rock on his road idont know what can i say else ? i can't live ican't love he was my world i was succed for him smile ,all my life for him but i'm soo sad now i can't lough no i'm not me i'm another person dont want to leve again plz help me.........
2007-01-16 18:40:35 · 16 answers · asked by jorjina09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although you are asking for help from others you probably know inside yourself what is the right thing to do in this situation, you may ask and ask but you are the only one who knows the full story here and you will have to eventually learn to trust your own instincts! What you feel is powerful and there is a reason for that, you must decide to trust him or not, confront him with your feelings in a calm manner and let him know what is going on here. The only way he will know is if you tell him and that talk may help you really decide what you will end up doing! By the was this seem like a hard one so good luck you have my best regards!
2007-01-16 18:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by funkywhiteshirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It's the stepmother thing. But i'd like to ask something first. Where is your Mom now? Did she pass away or did they get a divorce?
If it's the first one, then, Yes, at first we feel jealous of the woman whose arms are cuddled around our dad. We think that, "No. This is not fair! Daddy is for Mom alone! "
But have you considered your dad's feelings? Didn't he talk with you about your stepmom?
It has been 6 years. Don't you think it's unfair to let your dad continually mourn over your mom's death? If you love your dad so much, you should also the love the people your daddy chooses to love. Yes. It's better said than done. But at least, try for the happiness of your father.
2007-01-16 18:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by gremLin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh. I wish I had some clue as to what it was you were writing about, but I cannot make any sense of what the problem is. Would you try again, but attempt to be a lot more clear?
2007-01-16 18:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by huckleberry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you,I would confront your father,when you are alone, and tell him your feeling. I do not know your situation,but if your father loves you as much as you love him: I think that he will appreciate your feelings! I hope you arrive at a good solution.
2007-01-16 18:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by nmbernhardt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is very, very hard to read. Your father has a "right" to be happy, but he needs to consider your feelings as well.
2007-01-16 18:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by J W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're saying the step mother wants you to hate him. So do you trust her or him? Just stand by your dad and don't listen to what she says.
2007-01-16 18:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too possesive about your dad.Having another woman does not mean he does not love you.Daughters are important but he has a life of his own too. if he is happy you should share his happiness.
2007-01-16 18:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are getting depression you need to get some effector from you doctor. at the mean time sit down and talk to your father how you feel.
2007-01-16 18:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to a counselor
2007-01-16 18:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by upallnight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can barely understand your writing...but six years...i think its time to get over it...i understood something about a step mother or something?
2007-01-16 18:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Annabell C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋