Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

I was talking to this guy for two years. I was there when he needed help and all the bad times. We were the best of everything. Then one day he decides to leave me and get back with his ex. He no longer calls, or anything! Now that he is doing good in his life, he is telling people, that it never was nothing between us, and that is a lie! This hurts me so bad!! he no longers wants to be frineds ot to see me anymore. I have no clue wha happen, he just left. i'm so sad. please help me. He promised me that he would see me, and call me, but he never did.

2007-01-16 20:20:05 · 16 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 20:19:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there is this one guy that I really like but I don't know if I should tell him. What Should I do?

2007-01-16 20:17:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for 6 years and 2 months. Im divorced, he has never been married. For the past couple of years I have wanted to get married, he said he wasnt ready. Back in july he came around and we desided to get married, with a long engagement. We set the date for sept 2008. He has not offically purposed because we simply don't have the money for an engagement ring right now. He bought me a ring (not the engagement kind) for christmas, he asked me to wear it on my left hand, sort of like a promise ring and when he get me an engagment ring I can wear the other ring on my right hand. Anyway, I was all for it when he wasnt ready. And now that Im wearing this "promise" ring. Im scared to death, Imnot sure I want to do this, but I dont know why. He is so good to me, we never fight, we laugh together. He is a much better person than my first husband. So why am I so scared to marry him?

2007-01-16 20:16:46 · 13 answers · asked by hlizzy21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i have another little dilema....

I need to know guys, If you had the desicion to make which would you pick?

The girl thats easy to talk to and easy to have sex with and beautifull girl but with a bad reputation but everyone still likes her.

Or the pretty girl that everyone talks aout saying how nice she is and sweet and easy to talk to and the virgin who is saving herself till marriage with a good reputation.

WHich would you pickk and be completley honest!!

2007-01-16 20:15:35 · 19 answers · asked by This is me 1 in Singles & Dating

I really loved this guy, we had this ups and down, though no one admitted were in a relationship, but the truth is, we already shared things only a husband and wife should, sooo many times.. Though we both know he's engaged to be married.. What can I do, I really felt it the way he touch and kisses me, he loved me too.. that I had a chance of ending up with him for a lifetime than that girl who's 2 years his senior.. Who cheated on him by telling she's pregnant when she's not? Pls.. tell me..

2007-01-16 20:15:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a followup to my first question. I don't want to let her go yet. She was actually considering marrying me and was happy from the thought of us. Yes, I became insecure and handled the waiting for an answer time in idiot fashion, but, when I asked for a chance, she had to think hard, I could see she still cared for me and wouldn't say it. Though she said 'no' to even trying to date me during this period in her life, dealing with a child custody battle and simply supporting herself, I want to earn her trust back and get a chance. She told me a big reason she made up her mind was because of my stupid answer that I would simply walk out of her life and move on if she said she doesn't want to marry me and simply date to give 'us' some more time. My damn pride and mouth got ahead of me. Yes, I need to live and learn, but, I want to put my heart on the line and give it one more chance. Ideas how to win her heart again and approach this situation but giving her space she needs now?

2007-01-16 20:14:34 · 1 answers · asked by K. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This isn't a question. I just wanted to say that I love all women. You are amazing. You are God's gift to us men and you should know how much you are appreciated. I think that without women, a man's life wouldn't be complete, so thank you.

2007-01-16 20:14:09 · 14 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

SHe likes me and i like her we're both 20

2007-01-16 20:12:14 · 24 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

knock someone out or not

2007-01-16 20:11:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just as the folks have said...

2007-01-16 20:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by jun l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I have an older brother who just turned 31 yesterday (I will be 27 in February), and I haven't talked to him in over 3 years. The last time anyone (other than me) in my family talked to him was over 5 years ago. Considering his birthday was yesterday, I've been thinking about him quite a bit. I don't even know if he's alive, married, has children or anything. I want to try to locate him and talk to him just to see how he's doing, but I'm not sure if I should. I'm not sure why he stopped talking to our family, I just know that he hurt our mother badly. She won't even mention him on holidays or anything. She considers me as her only son these days. He was physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive towards me until I was 17, but I've forgiven him for it. I also know that depression runs in my family and that all the abuse might be a byproduct of the condition.

Do you think that I should try to contact him? And if so, how would I go about finding him?

2007-01-16 20:11:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really want to be a swimsuit model/lingere model, do you think I have any potential ?


About Me:
-19(Age)
-116 pounds(Thin but curvy)
-5'8(Height)
-Half Italian and half Russian


Questions:
-Do I have any potential ?
-How do I become a swimsuit/lingere model ?


Thank you for your help :)

2007-01-16 20:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love him so much. we've been 4 1/2 years together. but yesterday he wanna break out wit me cause of my friends problem..i try to change myself to be good but he still say i'm the worst girl in the world. i'm really lost & sad! wat can i do to maintain our realationship? plz help me....everytime we argue i juz keep my mouth close so i dont argue wit him even thought he's wrong sometimes..........someone there plz HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-16 20:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by xiying726 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancé and i have been engaged for a little bit longer than a yr.
He asked me one night at a friends 21st birthday bash and i said yes, but whenever i talk about saving for our wedding he changes the subject. We have been together almost 3 yrs and i am afraid that if we don't start saving now then we might only be able to get married in 5 yrs time and i dont want to make him feel as though i am rushing things either. I would just like to be able to call him my husband instead of finacé for the next three yrs!!! I know he loves me but what must i do????

2007-01-16 20:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by Roxxy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 20:07:42 · 36 answers · asked by sekhar75ec 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are renewing our vows and we are thinking of having a military style wedding put not all the members of the party is in the military so there for i dont know what colors to use for the party members

2007-01-16 20:05:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what can i do ?

2007-01-16 19:59:44 · 14 answers · asked by anaspharamcy 1 in Family

2007-01-16 19:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by mark o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really need help on this. today, i got my results back which are incredibly good. however, again i talked too much in front of my friends, i did not care about wat they feel.so, i think they are really not so satisfied with me at this moment.
cheers

2007-01-16 19:59:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well when i got out of bed this morning i noticed that my ankle socks reached my thighs, and my knees are touching my ankles! What could be causing this? I asked mother to hit my knees with a hammer (ive seen them do this on hospital programs) although this didnt really do anything apart from give me a swollen leg! Do you think it was brother messing around with me in the night? I mean he has done things to me before like the time he shaved of my long black and white chavtastic hair and sold it to the local famers wife as a wig! He told me that my hair had been stolen in my sleep by hair fairy's, i believed him at first until i saw the farmers wife in tesco wearing MY hair! Anyway my question is does anyone know what has happened to my legs?

2007-01-16 19:57:05 · 14 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 19:56:38 · 14 answers · asked by ramesh c 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend just asked my ex-boyfriend out! When i was going out with him she kept on saying that he was ugly and mean and all that stuff so 4 days ago we broke up. And 2 days ago she asked him out and she just told me that today so they have been dating for 2 days now. What should I do??? Please HELP ME

2007-01-16 19:55:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He nitpicks over everything and says mean things when I do/say things he doesn't agree with or if he doesn't like the way i say it. I don't like to talk to him, especially about things that are important to me. I don't like to go to him for advice. If I ever need comfort or a listening ear, I go elsewhere.
Both of his parents are very critical. This was something he was told to work on when we went to pre-marital counseling. It has gotten worse since we got married.
How can i better our relationship?

2007-01-16 19:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girl says to me, "Can I call you in like 5 minutes?" It's been almost half an hour...

2007-01-16 19:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for someone to bring your ex up in a conversation everytime they see you, especially when youre married? I havn't talked to the ex in 4yrs/never been married to him/ no kids w/ him

2007-01-16 19:54:33 · 7 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Yet again, I ask this question! Now I have found colonge in the bathroom and I have known this man for 6 years. He has NEVER worn colonge. He all of a sudden changed from briefs to boxers (again, always said he HATED boxers) and we have not made love in over a year (I was pregnant most of the year, but now our baby is 5 months and we still have not had sex). Should I hire a private investigator? I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm being betrayed. Or am I just being paranoid? What would you do?

2007-01-16 19:54:28 · 26 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 19:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by Aiea Joe 3 in Singles & Dating

PRADEEP

2007-01-16 19:52:30 · 12 answers · asked by pradeep 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 2 years and 2 months but now i am starting to worry .. bc men die before women and he is already 11 years older than i am ... i mean i love him but that subject crosses my mind.. what is ur opinion

2007-01-16 19:52:14 · 28 answers · asked by b_77p 1 in Singles & Dating