i love him so much. we've been 4 1/2 years together. but yesterday he wanna break out wit me cause of my friends problem..i try to change myself to be good but he still say i'm the worst girl in the world. i'm really lost & sad! wat can i do to maintain our realationship? plz help me....everytime we argue i juz keep my mouth close so i dont argue wit him even thought he's wrong sometimes..........someone there plz HELP ME!!!!
2007-01-16 20:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by xiying726 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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he wants to break out w/u??? buys lots of acne medicine....
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2007-01-16 20:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Its Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if when you're arguing, and you know that he is wrong, stick up for yourself...don't be such a pushover, people need to argue, its healthy, and by the sounds of things it doesn't seem like you've argued that much in your whole relationship, but you must argue, to let out all your feelings and all your problems so that you can both decide what to do.
If you've been together that long, maybe he just feels like the relationship is going no where or he's getting bored, sometimes people get like that, i know it hurts but its the fact of life, if you really don't want to break up with him, tell him, tell him the way you feel about him and the way that you can't bare not being his girlfriend, tell him how much you love him and beg him to give you a chance.
If he wants to break up with you because of a problem about your friend, then he's a bit stupid, because it sounds like it has nothing to do with you...so tell him that, make him think about all the good times you've had together, because this will make him think less about breaking up with you.
Good luck, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work out, theres plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-16 20:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well truth be told if he can sit there and tell you that you are the worst girl in the world you arent worth his time unless you did something like cheat to deserve it. If I was ever with someone that said something like that to me I doubt i would try to salvage the relationship. Even If I was with the person for 4 1/2 years
2007-01-16 20:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Krystal W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u , i will just accept this . i say so because u need to show him that u can live without him. and, show him that u can live happier than with him . u oso need to have a make over. if u show him how sad u r, then he will think that he is so important to u (although he is ). i think u should argue with him ( i mean sometime) because this can make the relationship more fun...
Good luck!!
2007-01-16 20:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think can make you happy and if he still insist of the break up... cry a little but not to much...it hurts in a while but dont feed the hurt coz theres much more guys who can be more undertsanding and responsible than him...get the best medicine...another company
2007-01-16 20:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by eloi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably won't break up with you after 4 years, and if he does you will probably end up getting back together.
2007-01-16 20:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you should be asking yourself if he was even worth all that time for breaking up with you over something that simple. You have a right to speak your mind.
2007-01-16 20:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by michael h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you have been alongside with him for see you later it is going to not be a topic to talk to him approximately it. purely say you heard somebody asserting that he exchange into going to interrupt up with you and see what he says
2016-10-31 08:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL @ Its Y
2007-01-16 20:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't love you....................... as much as you do him............................................................................................
2007-01-16 20:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋