This is a followup to my first question. I don't want to let her go yet. She was actually considering marrying me and was happy from the thought of us. Yes, I became insecure and handled the waiting for an answer time in idiot fashion, but, when I asked for a chance, she had to think hard, I could see she still cared for me and wouldn't say it. Though she said 'no' to even trying to date me during this period in her life, dealing with a child custody battle and simply supporting herself, I want to earn her trust back and get a chance. She told me a big reason she made up her mind was because of my stupid answer that I would simply walk out of her life and move on if she said she doesn't want to marry me and simply date to give 'us' some more time. My damn pride and mouth got ahead of me. Yes, I need to live and learn, but, I want to put my heart on the line and give it one more chance. Ideas how to win her heart again and approach this situation but giving her space she needs now?
2007-01-16 20:14:34 · 1 answers · asked by K. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think like you said you need to give her time. Leave her alone for a week or two, then maybe send her some flowers with a thinking of you or apology. Don't rush her or push yourself on her.I would start with the flower thing then wait a week again and send her a heart felt letter. Tell her how you really feel and apologize. Explain why you said and did what you did and ask if shell reconsider and let you take her out. If you don't hear from her after this then maybe a follow up call. If she still blows you off then take the hint and leave her alone
2007-01-17 03:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋