Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

i have been dating my hubbi for abt 6 years and jst got married.. i always think that i can never survive if i lose my hubbi.. i reali love him so so much.. but i also do feel that wat i have over him is obsession and its not healthy.. is it true?? how can i change myself??

2007-01-15 20:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating my hubbi for abt 6 years and jst got married.. i always think that i can never survive if i lose my hubbi.. i reali love him so so much.. but i also do feel that wat i have over him is obsession and its not healthy.. is it true?? how can i change myself??

2007-01-15 20:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

before the summer i had a really good friend but when i was hanging with other friends she started saying things that was horrible she even text my friend that i was hang with that day saying that i made her life hell and said that her mum and dad hated me so i have not talk to her since but now i would like to be friends again what should i do.

2007-01-15 20:33:29 · 3 answers · asked by sporty chick 1 in Friends

well i really love this man and we are both atrracted to each other.........i want to bed with him......but i'm not yet ready.......i'm still a virgin.........and i know it will hurt me.......my virginity was so important to me that i want it to give to my future husband.........and yet i want to give it now with my boyfriend..........should i stiill give importance to my virginity?...........is it ok to haVE srx with the man you love even though your not yet married?......is it bad to do that?.......what shall i do?

2007-01-15 20:30:32 · 25 answers · asked by gracielle 1 in Singles & Dating

But i dont know what to do what should i do i want a divorce but my whife wont let me have one.

2007-01-15 20:30:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it okay to show up at your old friend's wedding uninvited if you're there to have fun and you wanted to congratulate the bride/groom? I have always wanted to show up at people's weddings uninvited so I can meet new people and get reunited with my old friends from high school and I'm the kind of person who loves to have lots of friends and since I live in a small town there aren't alot of things to do.

2007-01-15 20:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by Fell In Love 7 in Weddings

Hi, I am having a bit of a problem. I met this person over MySpace and we have become best buds. Now he wants to move where I live and I am all for it but everyone I know won't be since I met him over the internet. I'm trying to think of an excuse that will seem legit so people don't freak. I can't say hes an old friend or a friend of a friend... should I say I knew him back in the day from school? Im 18 and hes 22... Give me some advice.

Please only serious comments, none of this "How do u not know he's a psycho from the net?"

Also: Neither him or I are gay and he wants to live in the same town not the same house! That would be a no, no!

2007-01-15 20:29:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really really love my man and he loves me too but we are in a messed up situation where i am gone away from him to overseas for 6 month.. Just because we both frustrated about this we tend to come off kind of rude towards each other. I know you might say if there is no trust there is nothing, but in my situation you cannot possibly blindly trust someone without being frustrated and suspicious once in a while.
Well last night we were talkin smack to each other and i asked him if i got any better at sex when i came to see him for 2 weeks (i know pretty stupid) and he instead of answering yes or no answer by asking me a question that made me really upset. He asked "what you have been practising out there?" Now what kind of **** is that? I flipped, cursed him out and pretty much let him go for good because he disrespected me by asking something liek this? But i love him to death and I want this work out and I am asking you superstitious people do relationships like this have a chance?

2007-01-15 20:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Singles & Dating

My mother and I just found out that our cousin's (my second ), (my mother's first) 24 year old son died in a car accident , we hear it from another cousin. She is beside herself to contact anyone, should we call her? She lives in the USA and we live in Australia, my mother hasn't seen her since they fled their home country. My mother talks to her on the phone occasionaly and I E mail her but we have heard nothing, should we call?

2007-01-15 20:28:08 · 17 answers · asked by ANASTASIA_NIKOLAIEVNA_ROMANOVA 3 in Friends

Thing is i met a guy at the weekend (my mates boyfriends friend)

we were all out and we got on really well.
I ended going back to his and the rest is history.

However, when i was there, he kept talking about meeting up, he lit candles etc etc and it was really nice

He walked me to the taxi, gave me a kiss and said well def meet up soon.

I rang him yesterday, and it just rang out.
Reckon hes avoiding me? or could there be a simple excuse

I feel like texting him and saying if it was a one night stand then thats cool just so i know.

But i do like him.

Any advice?

2007-01-15 20:27:21 · 24 answers · asked by Gemma D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parent live in different state, and i'm living with my boyfriend in CA. As a traditional viet family, my parents always want me to move back with them, i tried and i don't like the life style in Houston. It's quite hard for an OC girl to adapt Houston as home. I'm now living with my boyfriend for almost a year, and we had been together for almost 5 years. I miss my family alot, and sometimes really want to move back with them, but i can't leave my boyfriend. We tried the long distance relationship when i moved to Houston before. Honestly, i don't like living there and i missed him alot. I'm happy living in CA, but i know my parents planning to move back to CA so that we could be together. You can't imagine how happy i am to hear that. But i feel so guilty for making my parents moving back, starting over again in CA, while i should just suck it up and move to Houston with them. What should i do ?

2007-01-15 20:26:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so there is this person that was like a very good friend at the beginning of this year. now i dont know wat happened. she barely talks to me. i think she doesnt like me. i think she has been hearing a rumors about me. any advice on how to stay cool with he again??

2007-01-15 20:25:47 · 8 answers · asked by MJ 5 in Friends

I know a nice young man in India, who is too shy to talk to girls, who would like a girlfriend, but does not know how to ask! He has asked for my help looking for one! As I am in Australia, this is awkward! Any suggestions? He is 15 and a Taurus.

2007-01-15 20:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Whava 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 20:21:54 · 21 answers · asked by anand 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 20:19:17 · 5 answers · asked by toto l 1 in Weddings

2007-01-15 20:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by richa g 1 in Friends

Hi, I am having a bit of a problem. I met this person over MySpace and we have become best buds. Now he wants to move where I live and I am all for it but everyone I know won't be since I met him over the internet. I'm trying to think of an excuse that will seem legit so people don't freak. I can't say hes an old friend or a friend of a friend... should I say I knew him back in the day from school? Im 18 and hes 22... Give me some advice.

Please only serious comments, none of this "How do u not know he's a psycho from the net?"

2007-01-15 20:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-15 20:15:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am having a bit of a problem. I met this person over MySpace and we have become best buds. Now he wants to move where I live and I am all for it but everyone I know won't be since I met him over the internet. I'm trying to think of an excuse that will seem legit so people don't freak. I can't say hes an old friend or a friend of a friend... should I say I knew him back in the day from school? Im 18 and hes 22... Give me some advice.

Please only serious comments, none of this "How do u not know he's a psycho from the net?"

2007-01-15 20:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Last saturday night my girlfriend and I went to a dinner party and had a great night. By the time we got to her place (it was closer) we were a little tipsy and very tired, but in a great mood. We shared a shower and she was sitting down while washing her hair and I was standing. To make a long story short, while she was rinsing her hair, I "went". It caught her head and she saw it and flipped out! It's been about 3 days now and she's still pissed! Is she making too big a deal out of this?

2007-01-15 20:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 20:14:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 20:12:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hAve a funni case here... My hubbi calls me dumb!!.. and it reali hurts me.. wen we talk abt this.. he says he calls me tat way wen he feels i do things so stupidly... I could c that he feels sorry abt it. & he told me that : u mend the whole company at work but do so stupid things at home... and it irritates me... tat's y i tend to ask y u so stupid??.... i know wat he means... but ... i still feel veri hurtful inside me.. Y? other than not doing stupid stuffs.. wat can i do??

2007-01-15 20:10:18 · 6 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Friends

I have joked about threesomes with almost every girl I've dated, and even partaken with a few of them.

At the mere suggestion of my girlfriend saying she'd like to sleep with two guys at once I lost all sexual attraction to her and don't really want to see her again.

Is this normal?

2007-01-15 20:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hAve a funni case here... My hubbi calls me dumb!!.. and it reali hurts me.. wen we talk abt this.. he says he calls me tat way wen he feels i do things so stupidly... I could c that he feels sorry abt it. & he told me that : u mend the whole company at work but do so stupid things at home... and it irritates me... tat's y i tend to ask y u so stupid??.... i know wat he means... but ... i still feel veri hurtful inside me.. Y? other than not doing stupid stuffs.. wat can i do??

2007-01-15 20:09:54 · 18 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Singles & Dating

been 2gether 4 2 & 1/2 years & we have 2 of the most beautiful kids in the world. We were talking about something my little cousin said. And well I have bad memory and he asked me who was this guy I was talking 2 at at the park. & i told him it was my gay friend named kevin which is the truth. He sent me an e-mail saying please get out of his life & go back where i was, etc... I still want us 2 b 2gether because I still love him very much & we have kids together & i want us 2 b a family 4 our kids. I have lied to him & everything before, & I have cheated on him only once, & he knows about it. I haven't done anything since then. I have been faithful, I have done anything that he has asked me. He knows there is nothing in the world that I wouldn't do for him. I don't want to lose him. I can't imagine my life without him & I can't imagine him with anyone else,I can't imagine him telling another female that he loved her,I can't imagine him having kids with someone else! what should i do?

2007-01-15 20:09:41 · 5 answers · asked by starlight 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 20:09:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 20:09:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i recently figured out why i tell or told the people i care about(i.e. my family my ex ) " i love you" all the time. its because im telling them so that i can hear the response i want to know if there on the same playing field as me. kinda like checking in. b/c if i dont get a responce back or i notice a wierd response then i know something up. i dont just do it for that reason i also do it cause i truly love them too. is that wierd?

2007-01-15 20:08:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i and my bf r going around for the last 1 month..i know him since the last 10-12 yrs...hez a gr8 guy n i really love him...he also luves me but d prblm is dat hes too tall 4 me...im just 5'2 while hes 6'3...i know its a stupid problm but yet...i dnt even reach his shoulder...even though he tells me 2 wear heels when im with him but i just hate wearing dem'...i dont mind wearing dem for him but wearing heels gives me pain in my knees...wat do i do????????

2007-01-15 20:08:29 · 16 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Singles & Dating