2007-01-15 20:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by richa g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it does feel like that, doesn't it. And from a bitter past experience, I thought I knew so. I stopped making friends, because, the pain was not worth the loss..
Its not until i met a TRUE friend that i believe it is not so. Marriage like any other relationship is a relationship. It is BUILDING... not destructive!
When a friend marries, aquaintances gets lost and immersed in their own bubble. However, a true friend, builds their marriage lilke they did your friendship.
My true friend got married 4 years ago. Instead of being left alone, he made sure his wife and I build a relationship of our own... and now, I am his daughter's godmother.
2007-01-15 20:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 25, yet married while i replace into sixteen very almost 17. I lost a variety of of acquaintances (i actually did not have very many to start with truly, lol) & people who i did not lose the friendships replaced notably! a variety of of human beings had the opinion that i replace into pregnant & it is why we married, in spite of the undeniable fact that they on no account reported it to my face the techniques-set replace into unquestionably there. I had fertility matters & even miscarried a pair of years while we've been married and at last had a toddler at 20. issues did not get from now on advantageous after this truly! I had yet another truly undesirable miscarriage a pair years after my son replace into born & then had slightly female final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days a pair of months earlier I grew to become 24. i'm now pregnant with my third that's due in November & the couple of those that i presumed have been acquaintances have the undertone techniques-set that I should not be pregnant lower back. yet....the sturdy information is! the sturdy pal that I lower back in severe college that drifted away once I married, have been given married this final March & we've become close lower back. My sister has replace into my very terrific pal apart from my husband. And my sister-in-regulation & i actually get alongside fairly lots. My mom & significant different's mom have caught beside me via each and every thing & I evaluate them fairly sturdy acquaintances! SO....You on no account know! As you lose the "acquaintances" you could benefit far extra advantageous acquaintances!! Congratulations on your marriage & I in actual fact wish you have your candy little kit deal purely as quickly as you could possibly have it!!!
2016-10-07 05:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when friends get married yo have a new set of priorties. but it shouldnt be a friend lost you just have to accept that she is in a new role and she will be able to talk to you when she can .
2007-01-15 20:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they arent ! When we grow we understand the need for love and companionship. A good friend is Wonderful, but should not be a woman's life. You have to respect your friend's choice to follow her heart. We are where we wanna be.
2007-01-15 20:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As life partner becomes more important than friend for initial few years, after that he/she will again search you.
2007-01-15 20:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend is not lost wen married, its just becoz very often we thinks that he/she ll b lost now.. but if only once we try n think that now there is someone in his/her life who is very new n is gonna spend whole life wid them then frend is lost nowhere....
2007-01-15 20:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after marrige there is new people,responsbilites for her.and she has to fulfill all that afterall its a new life 4 her . i agree b coz of her new life she might have less time to meet her old frds but she cant lost her old frds coz old relationship cant b broken due to new relationships.
2007-01-15 20:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by kashish d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that friend has now got responsibility's to their partner
2007-01-15 21:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after marriage the spouse of ure freinds lives with ure freind. they have a complete new life. they have responsibilities towards each other. things change with everyone, so will change for u too.
2007-01-16 08:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because wives have a tendancy to push out single friend, of both sexes.
2007-01-15 21:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by mpefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋