But i dont know what to do what should i do i want a divorce but my whife wont let me have one.
2007-01-15 20:30:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well youre in a relationship as in your married. i think your infatuated by this girl and since maybe your partners are not giving you the attentiion you want coz' maybe they feel the same, YOU feel that you are falling for some one else. y dont you try improve the relationship youre in?
if you two can do this to your partners that youre with, later on you two will do this to each other. appreciate the fact that they dont cheat on you etc.
improve and talk things out with youre wife.
you must have married youre wife becoz you loved her... its due to time, tiredness and stress that you two have drifted apart.
am glad you havent kissed this other woman. dont either. youur F***** things up.
lol
dont take marriage as a game.
marry today- divorce tommaro. ------ wrong.
please make the wise choice.
tkr
2007-01-15 20:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt in love during my previous relationship with my new boyfriend. This could only happen because the relationship with my ex was a disaster. I missed a lot of TLC and so on.
When I saw my boyfriend for the first time, i felt in love with him immidiatley. We kissed also that day (which means I cheated i guess). I had a lot to think, coz its never that easy. (especially I guess when you are married)
but after 1 week I knew, that I dont want to be togheter with my boyfriend (now ex)
I thought I break up anyway, coz I knew for sure, that I wont have a happy life with my (now) ex.
Now I am the happiest woman on earth and in a more than happy relationship.
I know it is a tough decision, but in my case, I just knew i had to do it.
When you're marriage is a mess, than your wife can not say she wont get divorced. Just live seperated for now, sooner or later she has to accept your new live. she doesn't own you
the best of luck
2007-01-15 22:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by langstrumpf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your quandary is a wierd one honey, besides the undeniable fact that i imagine that marriage is a time and position in case you love one yet another, no longer in reality as soul associates (like you and your pal) yet to boot as fanatics and on a distinct intimate aspect. Having a drunken kiss is fantastic, and that i'm no longer holding you should divorce your pal, yet is the call of Husband quite installation and in software right here? Your challenge is a lot distinct than that of the social norm, besides the undeniable fact that as on your initial question i imagine so that you could confirm different men if he's too, yet how will the guy that you word become your boyfriend and how will he settle for the very incontrovertible reality that you're married? i imagine you should carry off on the sex and reassess the total plan of existence. no longer holding so that you could divorce or that i desupport your selection, besides the undeniable fact that issues receives puzzling searching some different person even as nonetheless married. wish this permits =]
2016-11-24 20:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by livesay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had better deal with your situation at home before u do anything else first. its not fair to drag someone else into your world when its in so much turmoil. if u want a divorce then get a lawyer and get one. your wife doesnt have to give permission but be sure thats what u really want because its going to be nasty. forget about starting another relationship now.
2007-01-15 20:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the other woman and concentrate on your wife. Don't mixup love with lust.. you will regret it in years to come. Someone else always looks better to us, and their will be many. Just do the right thing. Make it up to your wife for the hurt you have caused her in asking for a divorce..she doesn't deserve the pain she may be feeling.
2007-01-15 21:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get a divorce it will just cost u money regardless if your wife wont give it to you. Dont leave your wife for another women that hasnt even kissed you yet leave your wife because your unhappy.
2007-01-15 20:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cali 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks like to me you two should be giving your spouses the attention you are giving each other...Why would you want to break up your homes for something that is probably a whim anyway...Your story sounds crazy to me...but most of the things on here are way out..better stop and think before you act....
2007-01-15 20:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok? well maybe you should just talk to her. I think she's just feeling insecure about you wanting to leave her for someone else. Also you might want to check with the girl you love to see if she'll even leave her husband for you.
2007-01-15 20:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tizmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about in your weeding day havent you had a kissed? well i cant seem to believe it, how can you both get into marriage when you did not have even a kissed what a heck!
2007-01-15 20:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by hotchixxxz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Talk to your wife..she needs to know where you stand and how you feel.Make sure she understand you are dead-serious about this.She can't keep you hanging on if there are no reasons to stay married..and she needs to know that.Get a good lawyer,he/she might be able to help you with this.
And....be sure about this other woman before you do anything at all!!!Good luck to you...
2007-01-15 20:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋