I have joked about threesomes with almost every girl I've dated, and even partaken with a few of them.
At the mere suggestion of my girlfriend saying she'd like to sleep with two guys at once I lost all sexual attraction to her and don't really want to see her again.
Is this normal?
2007-01-15 20:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I am a hypocrit, but Its how I feel.
When women are bi its hot, and almost every women I've met are.
Most women I've met WANT to have some sort of relations with other women... from kissing to whatever.
Straight men kissing eachother is just weird.
2007-01-15 20:16:02 · update #1
hows it feel to be on the other side of the fence?
if you can do it, so can she. if she can't do it, neither can you. thats how relationships have to work.
2007-01-15 20:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by bigwoodenhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first, male bisexual activity in a MFM is pretty rare. You just have to be comfortable being naked with a hard on in the same room as another guy. And there will be some touching of course because you can't be that close to a woman at the same time and not bump into each other once in a while.
I think people think that because in many FMF threesomes there is bisexual activity between the women (but not always), that it's the same with men. It's not. No bisexual activity is the rule, not the exception in these instances.
As far as other issues? It sounds to me like you might have some predisposed ideas that a woman is hot in one situation and a "sl*t" in another. Not a healthy attitude toward sex in general and women in specific.
You may also have some issues about insecurity regarding other men and the women you've been with. You worry that someone else may be "bigger" or "better" than you. From hardcore experience I can tell you that is she is with you on a committed basis, than sex with others isn't better, it's just different. You are still #1 in her life.
2007-01-16 05:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are then so am I. At least that makes two of us which makes us probably less wierd.
I think that a lot of people find the idea of male homosexuality repulsive but do not feel the same way about lesbianism. The fantasy does not worry me but the reality would.
2007-01-15 21:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh!!HYPOCRITE!!
Is a very lame excuse to say that its weird to kiss another guy. You just want ur ego to kick high.
The man doesnt have to kiss you or evn touch you mate, all that he have to do is: DO ur gf!!!
If you want that threesome, accept the other term w ur gf!!!
puh!
2007-01-15 20:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing normal about wanting to sleep with more than one person at a time.
2007-01-15 20:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. Nobody wants to know their partners sexual fantasies that involve other men/women unless it is their fantasy as well. Perfectly normal, don't worry.
2007-01-15 20:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Williams 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what normal is but maybe she just said so you would understand what it feels like when you do it to her.
2007-01-15 20:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tit for tat - you're okay with two girls but not two guys? If its not good enough for you, then stop talking about threesomes!
2007-01-15 20:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are weird. Maybe she told you that, hoping you would lose the attraction.
2007-01-15 22:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal...for hypocrites.
2007-01-15 20:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by somegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋