I really really love my man and he loves me too but we are in a messed up situation where i am gone away from him to overseas for 6 month.. Just because we both frustrated about this we tend to come off kind of rude towards each other. I know you might say if there is no trust there is nothing, but in my situation you cannot possibly blindly trust someone without being frustrated and suspicious once in a while.
Well last night we were talkin smack to each other and i asked him if i got any better at sex when i came to see him for 2 weeks (i know pretty stupid) and he instead of answering yes or no answer by asking me a question that made me really upset. He asked "what you have been practising out there?" Now what kind of **** is that? I flipped, cursed him out and pretty much let him go for good because he disrespected me by asking something liek this? But i love him to death and I want this work out and I am asking you superstitious people do relationships like this have a chance?
2007-01-15 20:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm, hun you need to calm a bit down there!
Sometimes flirting over the phone (if that's how he meant it) can involve stupid accusations that he knows aren't true. He probably just wanted to hear you say something sexy back about him being the only one. You never know. But one thing's for sure, you can't just flip on someone you care about like that.
It seems like you're still pretty young, and everything might seem so dramatic right now because you're overseas. Once you're able to consider the possibility that he wasn't being totally serious, then you'll have a real chance at making it up to him.
2007-01-15 20:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't like the way he talks to u then try talking different to him and ask him to be nicer to u. after the way u guys go on with each other i don't think his answer was disrespectful u guys cant keep tearing each other up or it really will be gone too far one day. yes u guys have as good a chance as anybody but if you cant be kind to each other and show it to each other then all your relationship is based on is anger. even kidding can hurt just like u found out here so call him tell him your sorry and get together and talk like grownups.
2007-01-15 20:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys where already arguing and you responded to his question with the negative energy the two of you were giving each other. It's your choice now to communicate to him how you are really feeling.
2007-01-15 20:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was so obvious that he was not trusting you since then coz if he trusts you he wouldnt ask you "what have u been doing out there?".........
if in a relationship the trust is gone much more the respect, its no way a relationship will work ...
2007-01-15 20:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can dish it out but not take it???He didn't disrespect you, you made a silly comment, he made one back...
2007-01-15 20:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop telling that much personal biz on the net. u sound immature.
2007-01-15 20:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's still love, you should both settle it...
2007-01-15 20:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but you will learn that for yourself
2007-01-15 20:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by legna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋