Hi, I am having a bit of a problem. I met this person over MySpace and we have become best buds. Now he wants to move where I live and I am all for it but everyone I know won't be since I met him over the internet. I'm trying to think of an excuse that will seem legit so people don't freak. I can't say hes an old friend or a friend of a friend... should I say I knew him back in the day from school? Im 18 and hes 22... Give me some advice.
Please only serious comments, none of this "How do u not know he's a psycho from the net?"
2007-01-15 20:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
IM NOT GAY NEITHER IS HE!
2007-01-15 20:20:58 · update #1
Are you saying he want to move into your house or the same city?
Into your house i would have to say no way.
I have know people that get along great once they meet each other...and then there was the 13 year old girl found dead on a river bank....so think before you say yes to his real friendship. I know 18 is grown and all but please think this one through.
2007-01-15 20:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough, because people are like that. The truth will get everything over with and there won't be any story that has to be made up and keep the story going. Or just make something up, saying you knew him from high school could pass or even from a college class. If you do tell a story, make it simple and right to the point. The more complex the harder it is to stay with it.
2007-01-15 20:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by alcy_1994 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nobodys business but your own. You don't have to explain your relationship to anyone. He's your friend period. As for him being a psycho, if you have been talking to him for sometime you should know by now if he's a wacko. You would get the vibes (extreme jealosy, unprovoked anger, possesivness, etc.) Meet him in a public place the first time. Trust your intuition. Women know danger. It's this inner radar that tell us something is wrong. Follow it.
2007-01-15 21:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually people only move to be with people form the internet if they are romantically involved. it will be really hard to explain that he is just a friend. It is best to be honest though. You can just say you met him online, and it is really common to meet people online these days.
2007-01-15 20:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you cleared up the gay thing... Anyway. You need to be honest with people. C'mon. Man up. You make your own decisions and he makes his. What do you have to do with him moving near you? It's his choice. You guys get along. The problem will be when you no longer get along. And... is that really a problem? It happens all the time.
Don't worry about it.
2007-01-15 21:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by ScottyJae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what? to hell with what others think. if u think that meeting him is the right thing to do then go ahead. dont u ever make a decision dat will make u regret for what u hav done one day. try telling people that he's ur distant relative or so..
2007-01-15 20:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just say that you met him in a club or some common place and befriended him immediately.
2007-01-15 21:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what 's the problem telling the truth?nowdays lt is so common people meet each other from the net.....
2007-01-15 20:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thou shalt not lie. Be honest, it is the best policy.
2007-01-16 03:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new myspace account & RUN
2007-01-15 22:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by bite_me_harder_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋