Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

a guy friend told me that a lot of the time, he would like sex to just be sex, no mushy, touchy feely stuff that girls are into, and that it would be considered quite "rough" by a girl's standards. He loves his girlfriend, but he admitted (when drunk) that deep down, guys just do the romance for their girlfriends and he wishes they would understand that sometimes they just want a shag, plain and simple. Comments?

2007-01-15 22:05:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have not heard from this man in over a year, we have not really talked a lot in the past but we just seem to have a connenction and he is a sweetheart to boot. He want's to get together tomorrow and hang out, I have a bad habit of thinkin too much of people. How can I really tell if he is still the great guy that I once knew and if his intentions are good. Im just tired of being played with thats all. Maybe a few tips on what we sould talk about tomorrow would be helpfull. Keep in mind Im getting over an ex and would LOVE to move on and I don't want to use this man in any way. I don't belive in useing anyone to get over or gain any thing. Maybe that's why im always the one to get my heart broke. Young and dumb as well lol. btw I met this man through a friend of mine that plays in a band we all know each other pretty well.

2007-01-15 22:05:31 · 6 answers · asked by pinkness775 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone please help me in what i should do in what just happened to me. About 4 days ago, I came home and noone was at home at all, not even my wife, so I didnt think anything of it till that night and a couple nights later when i didnt see her. She is always talking about joining ICP(terrible musice group) as a groupie or a juggalette or whatever she wanted to do. But I think she actually did it this time, she left. What should i do, call the police, put a missing persons add in the paper, call for Russian Mail order brides, or what?? I dont know how to cook or anything right now and i am struggling to figure out the toaster and microwave. Thank you god for fast food. Thanks for any suggestions you might have.

2007-01-15 22:03:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 22:03:32 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Kinky 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright me and my ex were thinking of getting back together until i started questioning whether she had sex with her last boyfriend or not. She told me she didn't but when i asked again she confessed that she did have sex with him and we had a lengthy discussion on what postions she did with this guy. After this conversation she stopped talking to me, this is going to sound odd but how can you tell if a girl is making up her own sex life just to make you jealous, ladies are there any tell tale signs that someone is being honest with you or just saying what you want(expect) to hear?

2007-01-15 22:03:28 · 5 answers · asked by purplewingduck 2 in Singles & Dating

if so do you think its wrong for an 18 year old to date a 23 year that she just met

2007-01-15 22:02:54 · 6 answers · asked by free the plant 1 in Singles & Dating

my man and i were talking last nite (we have only been going out a few months) and suddenly he asked me if i had ever used or been given a sex toy. When i told him yes i had used and been given some as gifts by previous boyfriends he just stopped talking. we had been having good fun chatting about stuff then he just stopped and wouldnt say what was wrong. Have i dented his ego maybe???? how do i get him to talk to me

2007-01-15 22:00:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not able to see my red ball out .Should I consult any doctor for this? I did not had sex till now but wat I saw in porn movies tat foreskin automatically goes back...

2007-01-15 22:00:16 · 6 answers · asked by Kingpin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a huge problem there is this guy in my church that doesn't wanna take a hint we were friends but now he keeps on asking me out and I keep on telling him that I'm not intersted in him in that way and that i like someone else but he doesn't listen so I told him we can't be friends any more and that he must stop contacting me. And now I have this fear that he might start stalking me I haven't heard from him since I told him this last night when he send me a sms and send him one back saying he must stop cause he's freaking me out but what do I do if he makes contact again. Please help.

I didn't lead him on.

2007-01-15 21:57:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It might sound stupid but out of curiosity would like to what exactly we mean when we say women has reached her orgasm and under what circumstances she reaches easily .. Is it right to say after orgasm.. She has reached climax and have experience good fun ..

2007-01-15 21:57:45 · 2 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

partners whilst you were pregnant?.......my partner of 2yrs did when i was carrying his son at 5 months!......trust is not the same!

2007-01-15 21:57:00 · 17 answers · asked by Just passing the time! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Father not allowed to see him or talk to him. Whereas the boy was very close to his father.

2007-01-15 21:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by krsna_2001 1 in Family

i'm 20 years old . My Girlfriend is 16 years old .
We Love each others so0o0o0o Much . But , she always thinks about sex .i told her that i'll never made a sex-relation before we get married . Like i've mentioned , she always thinks in sex . Even when i call her on the Mobile-phone, she wants me to make a sex-phone. :s :s :s :s :s :D
I want her to forget the sh*** which is called sex-phone .
What should i do , pleeeeeeeeeeease Help !

2007-01-15 21:54:00 · 19 answers · asked by Jooda Groova 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 6yrs had our ups and downs but pulled through each time. Things appeared good when disaster struck. We visited my daughter and partner she is 24, while there my husband was left alone in the house while we went out to the local supermarket. He saw here mobile phone and decided to have a look to see if she had any new jokes ie. [the ones people text each other with pictures ,sometimes rude] He came across some personel photos of herself that she had sent to her partner as he works away alot.[very personel] My husband then proceeded to download these to his own phone.He was found out as he had not turned of the infa red on her phone because he was disterbed by har partner returning home.I did not get to know about this untill 2 days later as my daughter was embarrased about the content of her photos. When I confronted my husband his answer was [it was curiosity thats all!] and addmited all. I was disgusted and to keep the story brief, left him .filed for divorce.

2007-01-15 21:53:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 21:51:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am tentatively getting my children married knowing very clearly that these children are not going to take care of my future life.I am not employed and there are least chances of getting any employment.What should I do?

2007-01-15 21:50:43 · 10 answers · asked by Varanasi Sitarama Murthy 1 in Weddings

2007-01-15 21:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met the girl cousin of one of my friends she is very atractive but she is 3 yrs older than me and i only met her once(i mean i only have seen her once)i dreamt about her tonight and i cant stop thinking about her she probably dont will go out with me cause im younger than what do i do?




and what do ttyl means?

2007-01-15 21:50:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should I do about it?

2007-01-15 21:48:17 · 32 answers · asked by hamtaro 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a girl.making friends with who is better?boy or a girl?

2007-01-15 21:47:58 · 18 answers · asked by v girl 1 in Friends

At my gym there is a guy and have noticed him looking at me and looking at me even while i am walking on the treadmill.however i never payed any heed...Do u think this itself is a signal of him liking me as u nowadays boys check all girls and try to flirt ..Also at a gym where u get conscious it becomes difficult to know who's thinking what?Are there any other clues or some kind of indirect body language which can make an attraction more obvious

2007-01-15 21:45:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 55 years old.I am getting my daughter married by 1st week of February'07.I feel,my daughter wants to condemn me after she gets married.Is it fair enough?She feels that her mother is only the one who cared for her,not the father.

2007-01-15 21:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by Varanasi Sitarama Murthy 1 in Weddings

I need to kill her. unless there is an alternitive. i cant leave ive only been here 1 month, and the pay is excellent.

2007-01-15 21:43:46 · 28 answers · asked by kingericthe7th 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a thought of start a serious relationship wit a dissable gal. cause i think they need more care and love... dissabled means not deaf.. but even more dissabled... i m thinking of having a relationship with tht kinda gal ..to care bout her and to love her ..cause they diserve it though they r dissabled....so do u think tht s a strange thought.... would da world laugh @ me if i marry tht kinda gal...?

2007-01-15 21:43:43 · 5 answers · asked by black space 1 in Singles & Dating

when i try to tell her she needs to train hard she gets on her high horse, i get a load of mouth back as she knows it all, how will she be in the army if she acts like this

2007-01-15 21:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 21:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by stillintrouble 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 21:36:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sometimes I think back many years ago to my first love, that I knew I had to let go, but I still feel bad about it, as if I wish badly that things could have worked out, and that I didn't hurt her when I dumped her, but I know for a fact there was no other choice. And I wouldn't want to go back with her, but I remember, in those short moments, how good things were with us.

Usually I feel this way when I hear a favorite song that reminds me of her because it played when we were together. Or smell her favorite perfume that a female stranger is wearing as she walks by in a Mall. Perhaps this is the effects of love that you can't escape...even though you know the relationship was a failure, you can never forget them no matter who else you're with. (not that your thinking about them all the time ofcourse...just once in a great while)

Does anyone else feel this way about their past ex's? Tell me about it. How do you feel? And how do you cope with it?

2007-01-15 21:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband and I have been divorced for about 7 months now. He has since gotten a new girlfriend and for the life of me I can't stand her. It's not the part of her being with him, it's the fact that I found out she was doing drugs. He has weekend visits with my son and I don't want my son to be around her especially after finding this out. My son doesn't even like her, in his words because daddy doesn't spend any time with him when she's around. I don't want to force it either but how can I keep her away from my son and not violate the court order we have as far as visitation goes? I live in a small town so I hear that as soon as my ex gets back into town from working all week, he is looking for some "stuff" for her. Please....help me if you can. I want to do something about it before something happens to my son while he's in their care.

2007-01-15 21:35:37 · 11 answers · asked by single_momma 1 in Family

I am naturally attracted to women more than men. I even find it to be very attractive for my husband to be played with by me and another women. How many men or women find they have the same attraction or wanting? Are most women or men bi-curious?

2007-01-15 21:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Cali 1 in Singles & Dating