I am 55 years old.I am getting my daughter married by 1st week of February'07.I feel,my daughter wants to condemn me after she gets married.Is it fair enough?She feels that her mother is only the one who cared for her,not the father.
2007-01-15 21:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by Varanasi Sitarama Murthy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hi, I pity the state into which you are currently into. This is quite a common feature among children who do not see the world from all angles without any bias. Do not worry. As it always happen, I am sure your daughter will the see the world with proper frame of mind in the near future and reconcile her thinking about you.
All the best to you and your family and wishing your daughter a happy and prosperous married life.
2007-01-15 21:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by basics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It figures that you love your daughter very much. If she is on talking terms with you, ask her what differences she thinks have arisen. I'm pretty sure that these are minor differences and making a mutual effort to erase them would ensure a better things. Try to mutually avoid areas of conflict, develop alternatives to problems where you have a dissent or go for a little bit of compromise. Compromise from your side would be better as you're the one whose more mature and wishes to restablish a relationship. Don't rush this, though. Give her her space and time. Let her realize that you do care for her.
I she's not on talking terms with you, try the smoothing process taking the help of a mediator. I'm sure that with time, it'll all be okay.
2007-01-15 22:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Parry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir,
Ur daughter thinks her mother has cared for her and not u. Do u remember any such incident that why she is thinking like that ? First of all find out the reason, then make her understand that u too care for her. If u had behaved strictly with her, there was a reason to do so. She will definitly change her mind.
All the best and good wishes for ur daughter.
2007-01-15 22:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and ask her to talk to you, talk about everything from her childhood upwards Dont be afraid to say sorry if there were failings on your part. Listen to her, REALLY listen to her, respect her thoughts wishes and feelings but DONT get angry, try to understand what she is saying.You may not agree with it all and you cn tell her in a calm way but you have to accept that what she is saying is her own thoughts to which she is entitled.
It is not too late to build bridges, talking a LOT should bring many years of happiness and understanding between you both
2007-01-16 07:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things in your stride. You are doing a pious duty of life. She will realise later on that you did her good.
2007-01-15 22:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell sad for u sir.and ur daughter will soon be.
2007-01-15 21:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by v girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋