i'm 20 years old . My Girlfriend is 16 years old .
We Love each others so0o0o0o Much . But , she always thinks about sex .i told her that i'll never made a sex-relation before we get married . Like i've mentioned , she always thinks in sex . Even when i call her on the Mobile-phone, she wants me to make a sex-phone. :s :s :s :s :s :D
I want her to forget the sh*** which is called sex-phone .
What should i do , pleeeeeeeeeeease Help !
2007-01-15 21:54:00 · 19 answers · asked by Jooda Groova 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your relationship is not going to work out all the time you have different opinions on sexual-relations. Do not take things any further - there's no hope if all she wants is a sexual relationship and you don't intend to have sex before marriage. Respect each others choices (both are valid) and simply move on.
The age gap here is going to prove a problem and you have to keep in mind that she may consider looking elsewhere for sex if you are unable to tend to her needs - stick to your own beliefs and find a girl who feels the same.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 21:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you as much as she says, sex can be put on the back burner-------but there are levels of physical love that you can go to without having intercourse if that's what u r referring to.16 is a tough age 4 a girl...hormones,etc.If its a religious situation, well it might be time to find a girl on the same playing field as you.We all know marriage is a really huge step in your life. I think the real question here is about you and your beliefs
2007-01-16 06:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you expect of her, if she cant take it, i guess its time for you to move on and stop wasting her time, but as you said, you loves her soooo much, why not just explain to her that you want to leave sex for the later part of your relationship, and you respect her so much, your love is based on the heart and soul, not the body, ask her to ditch the phone sex idea, or you will be very sad.
2007-01-16 06:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend, here in Va. it's against the law to have any sexual relations with a minor. i know this not the response you were looking for but this ought to give you a hint. also, if all she wants to do is have sex then that's also a bad sign. this girlfriend of yours has a problem in the serious section. she's a typical teen but actually too young to have sex in the first place. my real advice is for you to continue to remain sex free until you choose to give in to your when to be wife. then it will be special to you and her and not to some sex-crazed teenager that's looking to put another notch on her belt. FIND someone in your age range
2007-01-16 07:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by tanyahurt76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmm
tought well told that if u have sex before ur married u will go to jail she loves so that will hold her for some time,im sry but thats what i can think about now
2007-01-16 05:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The role is reversed. If she really loved you she would not pressure you. She would hold off on the sex thing, but ask yourself this, if she isn't getting it from you (and she obviously does want a taste) then who will or is she getting it from? Find someone else.
2007-01-16 06:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Stumped 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 16? You are 20? Is that relationship even legal for sex in your jurisdiction?
2007-01-16 06:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she 16 and to young but that not the point if she don't like Wat you think you should get someone that do but not the point just have phone sex with here you not have relation with her just go along with that if she don't like that then i think that you should move on .
2007-01-16 06:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by jans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean shes young usually young girls this age only think bout sex and then u gotta remeber youre older than her....so u cant reallly blame her for wanting some from u
anyway enough with the enlightted bull crap
DITCH HER!!!!!
2007-01-16 08:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe, its called PHONE SEX! not sex phone.
but, just tell her. you have your commitments and your beliefs and if she cant stick with that, then maybe you two shouldnt be seeing her.
then you'll find out if she actually loves you as much as you love her.
2007-01-16 07:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lor. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋