i have a thought of start a serious relationship wit a dissable gal. cause i think they need more care and love... dissabled means not deaf.. but even more dissabled... i m thinking of having a relationship with tht kinda gal ..to care bout her and to love her ..cause they diserve it though they r dissabled....so do u think tht s a strange thought.... would da world laugh @ me if i marry tht kinda gal...?
2007-01-15 21:43:43 · 5 answers · asked by black space 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that you have pity not love for her as if she's missing that in her life and you want to give it to her. Look at what you've repeatedly stated. She's disabled. OVER and OVER. It bothers you a lot. You shouldn't get this woman involved with you based on what I've read here. She doesn't need a pity based relationship. Be her friend. If you cross the line you will hurt her and then you won't even be her friend anymore. Disabled or not she deserves to be treated with the same respect and consideration as other people. Not babied. Let her be.
2007-01-15 21:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in love with this girl despite the fact that she is disable then you are willing to accept the consequence of your actions. No matter what if the whole world will laugh at you. I do hope that you really love this girl and it is not only out of pity because it will only add insult to injury if you do. God bless!
2007-01-15 21:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care about what others might think,follow
your heart's desire!And it's not strange to love a disabled person,I think it's an amazing kind of love!Go for it!
2007-01-15 21:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find it terribly mean if you found that girl just because she is disabled/handicapped.
Find a woman you can love, if she happens to be disabled or handicapped then so be it.
If you just want to help some one volunteer don't get married because you pity them..
2007-01-15 21:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know what love really means?....if you really love that gal.... you would not care what the world would might tell or even they laugh... hey... if you love he person go for it.... THERES NO IMPOSIBLE WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE...
good luck!!!!
2007-01-15 21:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋