Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

A friend confides her problems to me but when I tried to console and advise her,she vented her anger, or rather threw an outburst on me.I feel really hurt because the problem was hers and she came to me to talk.I was a listening ear and just trying to help.

2007-01-15 21:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my grandfather sexually abused his daughters and moved on to us his grandchildren he was still abusing my mother in adult hood but she aloud it and when I told her what he done to me she said it was our secret you take it to the grave she has always detested me since I was born and still does I think my father is her father

2007-01-15 21:33:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we been together for nearly 2 years and we really love each other, but recently he has a recurrance of colon cancer in the lymph nodes, please help me, i am 28 he is 25, i still have lots of dreams like marriage, kids and buying a house. Am i being selfish? Realistic answers please!!

2007-01-15 21:33:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I met a guy via net. he's very flirty sweet talking, affectionate but seem lost wanting tobe loved like I do. am normally very conservative - parents want a traditional female. but now at 30's found myself with no experience with man and getting nowhere. I decide to change to the other extreme end. I made a mistake by sleeping with him the first time we finally met (something I've never done before). He was very eager and i just follow my body's reaction. I know i couldnt separate sex with emotions as well. but seem I've been thinking about hime too much to conclude it's just sex. I did hint he was in my thought the next day. he respond with dont want have serious relationship now because of ... is it worth to initiate another proper date with him since the first one was casual because I was too nervous and told him to go out as friend only - pathetic me. dont want scare him off but really attracted to him belindly :(

2007-01-15 21:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say the way that look boys more.

2007-01-15 21:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by Aram 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 21:28:07 · 15 answers · asked by Bill Gates 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 21:26:59 · 13 answers · asked by feedaworld 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any info an Capital punishment in the UK

2007-01-15 21:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by The real quagmire BBC Three 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

all men like girls with big t*ts & who are thin & pretty?

People tell me I'm not fat and I am pretty but I don't agree
and I have never had a boyfriend so there must be something wrong with me right?

my dad says i have a chip on my shoulder.not my fault i'm insecure.

please be nice

2007-01-15 21:25:14 · 25 answers · asked by leannexfairy 3 in Singles & Dating

After tht..the first word he'd written was SEX! then i started teasing him about how much he like tht word.. and he said was "how'd i do tht?" then he tried it again and typed the same word about 3 more times..but the last "sex" he added a "Y" so it was sexy! does this mean anything or am i being paranoid??

2007-01-15 21:25:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here is an explanation please read A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a
woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:
"When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all
circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and
fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

2007-01-15 21:24:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just say he lost it in a freak accident and he was a great guy
be honest please

2007-01-15 21:22:11 · 9 answers · asked by donkeywollenjumper 1 in Singles & Dating

Or should I wait ... and take her somewhere more public....?

2007-01-15 21:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

he loves his son very much it is the one and only child he has had and the only one he will have, she is a **** mother she is now preg. agian and is on probation so is her new husband.... My cousin would just like to know what does he have to do to get in writing visitation rights to his son? He pays child support every week and never been late , she use to give him every weekend now all of a sudden she wont let him keep the baby over night and it is only when she says that he can see him that she allows???? How can she get away with that?

2007-01-15 21:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by lonley in Ohio 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is getting a divorce and he must go to a divorce class before he gets it. He told me the room was packed, 40+ people and there are new classes every week. It really saddens me to think of all these broken families from every walk of life. What can a person do?

2007-01-15 21:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by Clrinsight 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I think I messed up. I have a girl I really really like. but I turned her off because I was too busy trying to impress her to impress her. I built her up on so high of a pedistool I lost sight of what I was doing. I want to win her back. I realize this means starting over from scratch.
How can I make her start to fall in love with me and win her trust back?

2007-01-15 21:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 21:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

as this would save the cost of a funeral

2007-01-15 21:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

falling in love - is there a way not to :) ?

what if you like people. meeting people. but you are resistent to falling in love just easily. what does it take to still fall in love head over heals?

if you have a relationship already. is there a way not to ever fall in love again-? ..stupid i know.. just keep away.. but what if both have friends and meet them from time to time. you get to meet people sometimes. no? even if you don't care. and every relationship does have its ups and downs. so, if you quarrel with your boyfriend -or are disappointed about a basic point -what to do if you accidently meet a guy you immediately like? isn't there situations where you start talking with just "the" one dangerous guy -?

2007-01-15 21:13:32 · 4 answers · asked by india18 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

interested in sex, we have 3 children and we are always arguing. its got to the point that if it weren't for the children I think I'd leave. Should I stay? i live away from my home town and miss my family, and the thoughts of divorce keep entering my mind, but I'm scared to make the break and upsetting my children. What do I do?

2007-01-15 21:12:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a girl took me for granted. maybe she thinks i'm useless or not interesting but the truth is i am. so.... any funny tips out there?

2007-01-15 21:12:08 · 27 answers · asked by Patrick Cool 2 in Singles & Dating

falling in love - is there a way not to :) ?

what if you like people. meeting people. but you are resistent to falling in love just easily. what does it take to still fall in love head over heals?

if you have a relationship already. is there a way not to ever fall in love again-? ..stupid i know.. just keep away.. but what if both have friends and meet them from time to time. you get to meet people sometimes. no? even if you don't care. and every relationship does have its ups and downs. so, if you quarrel with your boyfriend -or are disappointed about a basic point -what to do if you accidently meet a guy you immediately like? isn't there situations where you start talking with just "the" one dangerous guy -?

2007-01-15 21:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by india18 2 in Singles & Dating

i met with my ex, i knew i shouldnt have to do it but i did and now i am totally destroyed. i am always aking why i am soo big looser why he loves another girl and it is hurting a lot.:(
after breaking up my wound started to heal but bcuz i saw him my heart is bleeding again.

2007-01-15 21:10:54 · 11 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Singles & Dating

seriously, just about half an hour ago my so called bf, who does happen to be the father of my daughter who is only 5 months old...., was here, yes, we had a few drinks together and were playin some cards........then things turned sour and I found myself in the bathroom with the tele, except then he ripped the lines outta tha wall so I couldn't even call for any advice or help, (and still cannot)........then he came at the bathroom door and about 3 times tried shovin or kickin it in and I have a battered up arm to prove it.........when I finally came out, he was gone.........WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO NOW??????

2007-01-15 21:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 21:09:06 · 10 answers · asked by ARMCHAIR WARRIOR 2 in Singles & Dating

i used to like this guy in the past but the feeling died off when i know nothing will happen between us because he still seemed rather immature and childish,when i was attached, he was soo close to me!i thought he liked me as he even asked me out to the movies!and we had some kind of silly argument after that and things began to change,we no longer talked like we used to and even if we did,it was a rather formal conversation. and now,he's sitting right beside me!and i always feel so safe and secure when he's with me..i miss him! and the other day,i claimed i was cold and he said in a rather rough tone "you want me to hug you is it?"oh gosh!LOL and today, i fell aslp during lecture and he tapped me to wake me up!i know these gestures don't mean a thing but i think it's sweet cause i like him!when my lecturer posed a qns of what one will do if a woman declare her love for him,he said he'll run away,sigh,looks like he's still rather a rather childish guy though we're all 18,what can i do?

2007-01-15 21:08:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 21:08:31 · 15 answers · asked by sakshi 2 in Friends

What does a man intend to do if they regester at a personals site like "sex finder"? What does it mean if he is in a relationship already-should the woman pack up and go after finding out?

2007-01-15 21:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by Mari 2 in Singles & Dating

they did have a meal on saturday !!

2007-01-15 21:05:18 · 33 answers · asked by William H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, me and my friend who's a girl bonded recently. We talked about our depressions, crushes, opinions, etc etc. She's conservative but can talk about mature things. And then, as we sit next to each other, we straddle our arms together and eventually hold hands...but not romantically. Just being close. I find her attractive and all that, do you think she allowed me to flirt with her? Would she like me as well?

2007-01-15 21:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by hegelian 2 in Singles & Dating