seriously, just about half an hour ago my so called bf, who does happen to be the father of my daughter who is only 5 months old...., was here, yes, we had a few drinks together and were playin some cards........then things turned sour and I found myself in the bathroom with the tele, except then he ripped the lines outta tha wall so I couldn't even call for any advice or help, (and still cannot)........then he came at the bathroom door and about 3 times tried shovin or kickin it in and I have a battered up arm to prove it.........when I finally came out, he was gone.........WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO NOW??????
2007-01-15 21:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I CANNOT CALL THE POLICE,,,, MY TELEPHONE LINE HAS BEEN RIPPED OUTTA THE WALL...
2007-01-15 21:17:20 · update #1
yes, I still have internet...but I do not know how to contact police via email...and true...I may not have been tellin all the details, this isn't the first time he's threatened me, he has beat me up before...I just need honest help...why am I acting so foolishly by even allowing him back into my home???? serious answers only PLEASE!!!
2007-01-15 21:20:52 · update #2
As someone who has been physically abused and beat up by my own ex-husband, you need to get some support and counseling immediately.
It is hard but you also need to let people close to you know what is happening so they can help you.
You also need to report it to the police as soon as possible so they can see your bruises.
Then, you need to take your child to a place where he cannot access you.
He has an anger and abuse problem.
You might believe him for a while if he says he will get better and change, but in most cases, these people cannot acknowledge that things are their responsibility so they won't change.
I hope you can gather whatever strength to do things to protect yourself and your daughter. It is very hard. I know.
It gets better though if you get away from him.
Please think of your daughter as well because she could grow up thinking that behavior is okay and then she'll be in the same position when she gets older.
2007-01-15 23:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by KAR36 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen Love, you need to change all the locks on the door (If he has a spare key) then you have to report him to the police.
Even if he manages to talk to you and beg your forgiveness, he WILL do this again and again.
I know he`s the father of your daughter but this does not excuse him for the violence and what he did to you.
Just think what may happen the next time, you have a responsibility towards your daughter, he could harm her next time.
You must report this incident so that the police have it down on record in case he does it again.
2007-01-15 21:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the police and file a report. Then file a Protection From Abuse Order asap.
2007-01-15 21:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
R U KIDDING! Y ou have all the reason you need to get rid of that loser. Your 5 month old daughter. If you can't do it for yourself then do it for her. That's all the reason you need. I don't think you would want someone to do this to her,would you?Do what you have to call the police, get a restraining order, whatever.
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2016-10-07 05:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock the door so he can't get back in. maybe you should email your local police station and have them on standby or something. even better you might want to leave, you and your baby should go somewhere else for the night. it's dangerous to stay in a house with a small child with no phone anyway. just remember it doesn't get better it only gets worse. trust me i know
2007-01-15 21:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by chrisarea_99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
analyse the matter you are definitely not reporting all details must be some reason(though it does not authorize him to carry this to you) only then you can decide to quit him report to police or forgive him for the next chance
2007-01-15 21:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lock the door and call the police in case he tries to come back when things calm down call it quits with him.
2007-01-15 21:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either go to a neighbors phone or go to a pay phone if there is one close to you. 911 is a free call. Dont let that go unreported. I wish you all the best on it.
2007-01-15 21:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by timmy2505 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
report to the police
2007-01-15 21:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋