my grandfather sexually abused his daughters and moved on to us his grandchildren he was still abusing my mother in adult hood but she aloud it and when I told her what he done to me she said it was our secret you take it to the grave she has always detested me since I was born and still does I think my father is her father
2007-01-15 21:33:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're mother is allowing you to be abused by the same man that abused her? You need to get out.. and go to the police.
2007-01-15 21:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My blood is diffrent also but to me that does not mean I am not my parents child. You have to realize back years ago sexual abuse happened to many people and they were never allowed to speak about it. That is how it was handled back years ago. They had to hide there shame and carry it to there graves and never deal with it. She was not trying to hurt you in anyway she really did not know how to deal with what you told her since she was never taught anything diffrent. It is up to our generation to make this world a safer place for our children and all generations to come. We must open up about it becuase it is not all right to hide it and have so many people efected by something that should never be happening. If by any chance you could be right about your grandfather you may never know for sure unless they are all alive and you have blood work done to prove it or DNA testing to prove it.
2007-01-16 05:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just finished reading a book called "Fifth Born" and it reflects almost exactly what you are saying. I can't remember the author's name, but if you get a chance, read it.
In any case, stop the cycle. Seek counseling, and remember that no matter what your heritage, you are a special and unique person.
2007-01-16 09:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum is unable to get help for herself because she believes she deserves such a treatment... and its a behaviour she is afraid others would know and judge her for it...
You on the other hand,.. you have a choice.
if you feel you are in an abusive family... you move out and seek help. It is not necessarily a way of life for you.
2007-01-16 05:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid what they show on cerials and on television that is almost wrong
2007-01-16 05:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ethan hunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋