a girl took me for granted. maybe she thinks i'm useless or not interesting but the truth is i am. so.... any funny tips out there?
2007-01-15 21:12:08 · 27 answers · asked by Patrick Cool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go beneath yourself, revenge is not the way to go, I think God with cry if you did so. So do the right thing and take it like a man :)
2007-01-15 21:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by ANASTASIA_NIKOLAIEVNA_ROMANOVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had plenty of advice to move on and not to waste your time thinking about her -- and I agree with that.
But right at this moment you're hurting. And you've got to get something out of it or you'll have wasted however much time you spent on her. And how are you going to get someone else? And how are you going to ensure that she realises you're not useless or interesting?
Learn to smile at people -- though obviously don't use it on her.
Learn to speak to people -- even if it's only to say Hi! in the passing.
Learrn to be interested in people -- all sorts of people, including those who are not potential girlfriends.
Learn not to be desperate -- don't worry, out of an outgoing approach will come another relationship and in the meantime as your circle of acquaintances and friends widens and you become more popular ex-girlfriend will see you becoming more popular and feel left out and wonder what she missed in you (even if some of the things she didn't see weren't there at the time!). And don't take her back. If she tries to get into your circle be polite but do no more than be polite. If she pushes it just tell her you're not interested.
2007-01-16 05:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tip not to be taken for granted. Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
Don't worry about it. If she took you for granted then she is not good enough for you... she is not the right person for you... don't spend many moments of your time being concerned about her taking you for granted... in other words your time is more valuable. Move on. You have the last laugh... you will not give her the time of day as she was not good enough for you... You do want a girl that will not take you for granted right? The last laugh is done by not giving her a second thought anymore. Find the girl that is right for you... this girl taught you somethiing and that is, she is not.
2007-01-16 05:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by lindasue m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Pat- tell you what ? You have a great name - PATRICK -
You have great pride in who you are - DO NOT LOWER
OR STOOP YOURSELF TO A LEVEL THAT IS NOT YOU _
right now you sound pissed-off for being taken advantage of
Pat - have you heard of "GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST "
i see it this way - you were just too good to this girl to let her take advantage of you - believe you me - it shall all come back to haunt and hit her , and when it does , she may never know what hit her and so hard .
GOOD LUCK PATRICK , you seem like the type of guy that deserves someone as good as yourself - dont loose heart
some day you shall sit back and laugh your head off
wondering why you even got pissed off at such a poor example to society ?cheer up buddy - just be yourself - take care
2 wrongs do not make it right >>>>>>>>
2007-01-16 05:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she will know she was wrong is watching you be with someone else and be the same with that person. Then she will regret she is no longer there.
Sorry not funny but the thing is you need to move on - why want someone who doesn't want you. Find someone who does appreciate you.
Much better idea!
2007-01-16 05:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by london.oval 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with your life and be the best you can be. One day she will see you in the mall and you`ll be a doctor and she`ll be barefoot and pregnant and victory will be yours. If that doesn`t happen you will have no regrets anyway because you will have outgrown your need for vengance!
2007-01-16 05:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Scott T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny tips? No. Real tips, yes. Forget about her and stop wasting your time and emotional energy on thinking about how to influence her life - positively or negatively.
2007-01-16 05:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is taking you for granted then get rid of her..and then she will realize what she's missing.
thats the least u can do.
sometimes people don't realize what they have til its gone.
but if she wasn't interested in u in the first place..NOTHIN will make her realize that she took you for granted. cause the passion just wasn't there to begin with.
2007-01-16 05:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with living and forget about her. You'll find someone someday that knows you are a terrific guy. When you do you wont care about that shallow tramp anymore. Or you can date her sister if she has one.
2007-01-16 05:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, show her that your happy show her what she missed, show her that you're worth a thousand of chicks after you.. LOL
yeah, work hard be successful.
Or have me and get her jealous lol kidding
2007-01-16 05:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by backward_thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋