all men like girls with big t*ts & who are thin & pretty?
People tell me I'm not fat and I am pretty but I don't agree
and I have never had a boyfriend so there must be something wrong with me right?
my dad says i have a chip on my shoulder.not my fault i'm insecure.
please be nice
2007-01-15 21:25:14 · 25 answers · asked by leannexfairy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha i'm not desperate
just not happy with my looks.
2007-01-15 21:36:03 · update #1
& i'm trying to sort out my self esteem because i know it is really low
& the media doesn't help. All these model types on the TV and in magazines
2007-01-15 21:39:58 · update #2
i know looks aren't everything. to me they're not.
www.myspace.com/punkrawkfairy.this is me.
2007-01-15 21:42:55 · update #3
most females r unhappy with their looks..even the most gorgeous celebs are..they are always moaning there ankles are too fat too thin..they have too long a finger..I mean thats nothing..but they think its the end of the world..you need to work on your confidence and accept what youve got.
2007-01-15 22:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're looking too hard, men can sense desperation and no they don't like it. Calm down, enjoy life. I'm assuming that you are young since you mention your dad so here's what I say you do. Hang out with your friends, see movies, do whatever hobbies you have and try not to worry about the boys, trust me it works.
When I first went into high school I had recently been in a bad accident that ruined my very young modeling career so until then had no problem with getting guys, well I was so determined that I would get another great guy even without my modeling that I came of desperate.. and couldn't get one to save my life. Really killed my self-esteem. Finally I pretty much gave up trying my junior year and after that have kind of found nice guy after another (not to say i was never single haha).
really try to be calm.
GL
Oh and about the all men like part, that's not true at all. My ex loves little breasts, my current really doesn't care, and as for skinny im told I'm TOO skinny by most guys I date.
2007-01-16 05:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think that true. Yes, loads of guys do seem to be attracted to slim girls that have a large chest, but not all of them. Every guy has their own personal prefers as to a ladies attributes! But as they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder!
My boyfriend thinks I'm gorgeous, but I'm sure there are loads of guys that don't have the same opinion!
Having a boyfriend is not the be all and end all, so I wouldn't judge your appearance by this. Just enjoy life and I am sure a boyfriend will come along soon. Don't look for one, or stress about it, or (sod's law) it just won't happen!
Also I would really try to deal with your insecurities, and because there is not much point trying to get in to any sort of relationship when your insecurities would get in the way of things!
Hope this helps x
2007-01-16 05:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to be worrying about not having a boyfriend....I don't know anybody who is totally happy with the way they look and it is a dangerous thing to compare yourself to photos in magazines that are touched up to make them look perfect....focus more on being a good, interesting person and enjoy your life and there will be plenty of interested men over the coming years.....i
2007-01-19 08:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your measurement of your own beauty should not be measured by how many boyfriends you have or not, or how many men look at you. The best measure of beauty arises in the way you carry yourself. I mean in your confidence. I am always amused and attracted to small ladies who are confident and like themselves. I am very tall with average stamina, but from my experience, the small ladies I have met are very cheerful, charming and challenging. They carry themselves headon with other people and do not give a bother about their size but character. Take it easy and tell yourself that you are ok, feel at home with yourself. Love yourself first before anybody loves you. This is sometimes where men get it over women generally, they know themselves, are proud and go for anybody. Know yourself, appreciate yourself, love yourself, be proud of who you are, be confident, be positive and assert yourself into the world. You will be amazed at what character you can develop and how people will treat you. Have that power of being able even to tell men off. You will meet people you get inspired by you and about boyfriends, you will have the power to choose, they will come. Do not push it or show that you lack anything. For someone like that, I will surely be attracted and would automatically want to associate with that person dispite the size.
2007-01-16 05:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Admire N 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks don't matter, added bonus, but what is the point in having a relationship with someone you cant hold a conversation with, get to know care about etc. It is the person that is important you stay with someone because of who they are you "love" them for who they are not what they look like. There is a lot of pressure to be in a relationship if you aren't your lead to believe that there is something wrong with you, people play match makers as they assume you are not happy. It is more important to be happy with who you are how you feel the rest just follows, be confident in you believe in you and be happy with you.
2007-01-16 05:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't think like that, as this is probably the case of all your troubles. All men are not like that granted I have big boobs, but I'm a size 22 and I wouldn'y say attractive, but I know my finace thinks I'm gorgous. You should relax and let a man into your life.
Even if you think your not pretty, there will be hundreds of men that think you are, it's all about making men think that you think your attractive. Go out in your favourite clothes and imagine that you are the most attracive woman in the room (You may well be you just don't realise) You'll be surprised how men respond to confidence.
Don't get worried about it, you'll do fine and enjoy yourself after all thats what lifes about
2007-01-16 05:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by joanna b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to boost your self esteem first men do pik up on women's insecurity's and don't like it.also you don't need a man in your life to be happy i was 22 b4 i met my first boyfriend (hes also the man I've married and had children with)don't be in a rush to get a man good things come to those who wait.oh and by the way the big t*ts and thin thing its a load of rubbish men like all different types of women just relax bout it and someone will come along who's just right for you.good luck!
2007-01-16 05:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by dee.jackson7@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its not true yes ok it would be a benefit for them as they are men but if a mna lves n like u he will like every part of u i,m a size 12 dont have the biggest breast in the world but they just right amount for my man he really gets annoyed with these skinny women we big t*ts as u lightly put it as he knows himself that i taint natural b,cause real women end up feeling insecure about themselves i bet u r a pretty enuff lassie but people do notice it when u got a problem wi ursel look in that mirror and say ur worthit dont let the mirror be ur enemy
2007-01-16 05:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by blonde286021 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No thats not true. Like women, different men like different 'types' of women.
With regards to u not having a boyfriend, maybe your low self esteem & insecurities scare men away?
How can u expect someone to like u when u dont like yourself?
Learn to love yourself hun.
Good Luck in all u do x
2007-01-16 05:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋