i met with my ex, i knew i shouldnt have to do it but i did and now i am totally destroyed. i am always aking why i am soo big looser why he loves another girl and it is hurting a lot.:(
after breaking up my wound started to heal but bcuz i saw him my heart is bleeding again.
2007-01-15 21:10:54 · 11 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He will keep coming back as long as you let him if he left you before he will hurt you again...move on...........
2007-01-15 21:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is painful to go thru such a situation. watchin the person you love, fall in love with someone else.
you just gotta learn to not care so much! i'm sure your losing sleep over him, and your appetite, and everything you look at reminds you of him, and you're head is hurting over the thought of him with someone else. i would say..write down everything that went wrong in the relationship..and why did it end..and just make a scrapbook out of the two of you..and then just carry it around..til u get over him. he was like your best friend, your companionship. after he disapeared suddenly out of your life..it just seems as if he suddenly died and you won't be able to see him again. and that the love that you once shared is gone. but BELIEVE me he probably is feeling the same way..and is feeling the pain too. (unless he was a jerk)
like the saying goes "if you love some1..set them free. if they come back..then he's yours. but if not..then maybe it was never meant to be"
sigh..hope u will feel better! maybe ice cream will make the pain go away, a hot bath, and some sleep! it's ok girl..time will heal all wounds..it just happen so sudden..but u WILL get over it. believe me.
2007-01-16 05:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid seeing him ever again. Pay no interest in his life. I know that it is hard. I am sorry for you are going through. You sound really sweet...definately not a loser. You do silly things when you are in love but rather learn from them and move on rather than dwelling on what happend. I pray that you find a guy who will replace your ex in your heart. But for the time being, be by yourself. Do things to make you a better person and to improve your quality of life. You deserve it. hugzzzzz
2007-01-16 05:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Taurus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the past behind and press on forward!
Make new goals.Get busy with things that you enjoy.And pamper yourself!And just think that you and him are not meant for each other and not because you are less than the other girl,etc.
2007-01-16 05:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by ranya j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell urself tht he was not destined 4u and he is not meant to b ur guy... and be sure tht someone is meant to be urs and someday u'll come across him then u'll forget ur bf...
till then try to go out n hve fun with friends n family... chat on net... make friends n flirt... Make things tht u like...
2007-01-16 05:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Shania 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whenever your close your eyes, just think of me. You will forget the pain and your heart will stop bleeding.
2007-01-16 05:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Carl R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Turn your back on him.
2. Keep breathing.
2007-01-16 05:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your ex is trying to hurt your feeling so get jealous
2007-01-16 05:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by robcud232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't have hearts.
2007-01-16 05:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Avoid places where he ussually go...In time, you will be able to forget...believe me.....
2007-01-16 05:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by bea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋