i used to like this guy in the past but the feeling died off when i know nothing will happen between us because he still seemed rather immature and childish,when i was attached, he was soo close to me!i thought he liked me as he even asked me out to the movies!and we had some kind of silly argument after that and things began to change,we no longer talked like we used to and even if we did,it was a rather formal conversation. and now,he's sitting right beside me!and i always feel so safe and secure when he's with me..i miss him! and the other day,i claimed i was cold and he said in a rather rough tone "you want me to hug you is it?"oh gosh!LOL and today, i fell aslp during lecture and he tapped me to wake me up!i know these gestures don't mean a thing but i think it's sweet cause i like him!when my lecturer posed a qns of what one will do if a woman declare her love for him,he said he'll run away,sigh,looks like he's still rather a rather childish guy though we're all 18,what can i do?
2007-01-15 21:08:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've tried asking him out to the movies after our argument but he claimed he was busy and so on..when we were buddies,he didn't mind going out with me,in fact he seemed enthusiastic about it..sigh..i really have no idea what happened.i don't wanna ask him cause i never wanna rake up the past and put a strain on our relationship again..
2007-01-15 21:11:10 · update #1
Boys will be boys.....keep being there for him and maybe he will grow up a little bit. Otherwise, don't keep waiting around for him to do so....use your intuition and sense if he will settle down with you or not. It sounds like he needs some time away to see how not having a girlfriend is like. Make your intentions known to him, communicate to him that you are not happy how things are right now and that either a change or discontinuation is in order.
He is not right for treating you like this, like a puppet that will readily agree to whatever he feels like at the time. I feel for you but you really need to make him decide, you or his own whatever....
2007-01-15 21:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment concentrate on your studies first...just be casual with this guy...just wait for him make the first move to ask you again to go to a movie. There's no use declaring to him your feelings...just enjoy the care and concern he's showing you as a friend. Be patient and wait for the right time where he'll be emotionally matured enough and ready to get into a boy-girl relationship.
2007-01-16 05:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on in ur life. Don't give any attention to him.
There would be someone else for you that's why God is not letting him to be urs.
Forget abt him
2007-01-16 05:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u but ther only way ur going to soet it out is by askin him all ur questions if u want the truth ask him
2007-01-16 05:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask its the best way ot find out. you dont want to but tis the only way to get it straightened out.
2007-01-16 05:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by jordie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u act weird again..he will avoid you
2007-01-16 05:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by chi_south_kid1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea, give him a hug!
2007-01-16 05:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋