Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

"We all want happiness in our lives and relationships. However, how one achieves happiness in a relationship is one of the best-kept secrets. People involved in top-quality relationships do not seek happiness. Instead, they seek growth. Growth, in turn, creates happiness.
When each person in a relationship gets beyond "I want to be happy" and into "I want to grow," the relationship itself becomes transformed. It's basically a matter of relational addition: One growing person + one growing person = one growing (and happy) relationship"
-Drs.Cloud and Townsend

Peace and Love

2007-01-15 00:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by digilook 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am my own worst enemy and set almost unachievable standards for woman .......I am too picky and look for any flaw to use as an excuse to ....cross them off....

I know i do it but..... why do i do it.....? Who else has this problem....?

2007-01-15 00:31:12 · 23 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

well there are these 2 asian girls who are sisters. they did star at me now and then, and after a few weeks i started develoing an interest in them. the thing is that i wear a fake silver earing which shines like a diamond so i'm not sure if they like me or my fake, very shining earing. so then i started to stare at one of them. as i looked at her she looked at me and then turned her face the other way. so i'm not sure what to do. i sort of like them both. ladies what are the things to look out for ? to know whether they like me or my fake diamond. when i look at them i ont really get a stare back so i'm guessing its my diamond.
my not gonna go and talk to them btw.

2007-01-15 00:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 00:29:41 · 14 answers · asked by HAMED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you close the eyes?
Maybe yes... but...
for what reason does it serve then to be cute, handsome or ugly?

2007-01-15 00:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by Leonardo Genteamable 5 in Singles & Dating

Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last week when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me

2007-01-15 00:28:23 · 2 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 00:27:33 · 5 answers · asked by Doctor Answers 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 00:26:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i found out about the op she was threating to leave anyway for other reasons, but now im single i don't know were to start i know my looks won't be a prob and i think chicks like cooking and fetching beer but were do i srart

2007-01-15 00:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by conan 4 in Singles & Dating

it is hard for me. We usually dont not hang around much, felt lonely. Still i try to make up something but we dont get along with each other. FYI, we're not enemies. what should i do?

2007-01-15 00:25:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

him very much bt now ths 18 yr old wants a baby. he soma go fetch families babies and they spend time with the baby and yesterday he said tht he wants a baby. my question is ths relationship everlasting?

2007-01-15 00:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 00:23:21 · 17 answers · asked by CHANDU P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a really fun guy, but I am concerned that he is an alcholic. He has been sober a few times, but he normally does not go a day without a drink.

2007-01-15 00:23:09 · 3 answers · asked by Susan B 1 in Friends

I am so bored cauze' we're out of school right now, so if anybody knows of any web sites, it would be helpful!!!!!!!!

2007-01-15 00:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 6'4" and 240 lbs but I find shorter, petite women (with curves) irresistible...do you little ladies like bigger men?

2007-01-15 00:22:05 · 8 answers · asked by who da man 1 in Singles & Dating

Are their ladies in any circumstance that might think this or is it purely a male fantasy?

2007-01-15 00:21:48 · 2 answers · asked by docile_fool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm married and one of my ex's recently got married. We haven't emailed each other in a long time (a few years) but his mom emails me regularly, about once a month. I have been tempted just to send him a hello/how are you email and congratulate him on his wedding day - is this OK to do or totally rude and wrong and I should just step back? I don't want to do anything offensive. He and I had a good relationship for 2 years - he wanted marriage but at that time I was 24 and not ready. We were determined to maintain contact after our breakup but of course that didn't happen for too long. I recently saw their wedding pictures and he looked miserable in them. I was surprised because his mom had said how happy they both were. Anyway, what is the best thing to do here?

2007-01-15 00:21:47 · 29 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 00:21:36 · 5 answers · asked by wowwee 5 in Singles & Dating

like this guy how do i ask him out!

2007-01-15 00:21:14 · 3 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 9 mon. pregnant. 3 cm dilated this is a high risk pregnancy and my loving husband asked me for a seperation and said it has nothing to do with me and the baby but everything to do with him.That he needs to find himself. He says he will be in the childrens lives 3stepdaughters, 1 bilogical (on the way.) I've been supecting of of antother woman for months now he still insits it's not. He say he doesn't want a divorce just to seperate for awhile till he finds himself. He wants to remain friends. And he still lives with me he claims he still loves me and has affecton for me but when he tried to hold me his arms literaly felt empty, so I tried to kiss him it was like kissing one of my children so I tried to give him a romantic kiss and he laughed at me in my face! This all comes one month after christams and one month before our anniversary and in the same month his only child is due. I wanna be evil and not let him in the delivery room cause you know this seperation should I ?????????

2007-01-15 00:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was pushing my grandpa in the park and he asked me had I been taking money from his wallet. I told him no way but I had been. He accused me of lying and said he had video proof. He then squeezed my arm for lying and left a redmark. I was holding his cane and I hit him 4 times. Three times on thre back and once in the neck. He has some bad bruises. He says he is gonna tell my dad and also doesn't want me as his caregiver afterschool anymore. What should I say to mmy dad, and can I get into trouble with the police?

2007-01-15 00:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by Candy W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i still like one of my ex. we broke up almost 2 years ago but we still sometimes meet since fall and i think we have fun if we r together. i realized i like to be with him a lot, he makes me happy n he is smart too.
is there any chance? or what should i do?

2007-01-15 00:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive not been with my fella for long and love him loads but im getting fed up of always being the first one to instigate sex. if i didnt he wouldnt bother. i always have to approach him if i didnt we wouldnt have sex at all. he never turns me down but thats not really the point it would be nice to be pounced on once in a while.
if we.d been together for years id understand it but its only been a few months

2007-01-15 00:14:56 · 14 answers · asked by lovedancetoo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

PLZ help me

2007-01-15 00:13:50 · 3 answers · asked by koshka_628 1 in Friends

2007-01-15 00:13:15 · 16 answers · asked by mark w 1 in Singles & Dating

IS it ok to think about other people if your married? what about phone sex or looking at porn, would you condider it cheating if your not actually physically touching anyone?

2007-01-15 00:12:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You are not allowed to answer "yes" or "no" since he is asking for your opinion. He is not asking, "Shall we be a couple?" Got it?

2007-01-15 00:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so, there's this boy that i really like.

i'm in highschool- so, yeah. and this isn't just any crush. this is my ex-boyfriend.

the reason i broke up with him in the first place is a long and personal story, and i doubt i have all the characters to say it. So- yeah... I won't tell that one.

However, it was that I couldn't see him in him, and now I seperated the two people I thought I saw, and I loved the one that I was stupid enough to break up with. Well, there's a rumor that he likes me. emily, my best friend, tells me he's always staring.

i'm usually wicked confident, but i'm so scared to tell him! i look at him and all skills of speech just die out. there's a school dance coming up and i'm really nervous. and then there's valentine's day! what can i do?!

2007-01-15 00:10:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband just doesnt act like he loves me anymore. Like this morning, im sitting right here in the kitchen he he just walks out for work w/o a kiss , a hug, a bye, nothing. no word, nothing. i dont even remember the last time he actually kissed me. i always kiss him. i think the last time that he kissed me was a year 1/2 ago. and i dont remember a time he told me he loved me. I always, ...ALWAYS tell him and kiss him. I dont beleive he loves me, AT ALL? Anyone else think that too? He doesnt know but im always crying about it. And I cant talk to him about it b/c those subjects get him real mad. Im just not an idiot, i know somethings wrong. =(

2007-01-15 00:09:50 · 7 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been seeing this guy on and off for a few months. It didn't work the first time around. I hurt him by being honest and telling him i was in a long term relationship. We went through painful ups and downs and in the end he returned the favour by chucking me for someone else. When i called he put the girl on the phone and so i never called again. The few months break we had included private and prank calls i know was him.
We saw eachother passing recently and the fire was relit, we started seeing eachother again. He was so nice this time around and was honest with me emotionally. Of course i didn't trust this playboy and that showed in my attitude and behaviour. He left me for the second and last time. The question is was this playboy playing games, was i just another challenge or were his feelings real. He told me he missed me, put my hands on his heart. He then goes on to be rude and when he dont get his way says he's gonna call another girl. He treats me as bootycall.

2007-01-15 00:09:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating