IS it ok to think about other people if your married? what about phone sex or looking at porn, would you condider it cheating if your not actually physically touching anyone?
2007-01-15 00:12:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes all of them are cheating.
Are you asking bec you are into this or your partner is?
It is not ok to have roaming eyes. It can lead to wanting to meet that person and much more. If one is happy and satisfied with their partner they would not do any of them.
If you are into this then, ask your yourself :
Would you want your partner to fantasize about someone else while he is wild in bed with you. This means you are not enough.
Or would you like if he does phone sex with someone?
Or if he looks at other tons of nude porn women while he has you.
It is disrespectful to a relationship. It does not matter if actually physically touching is there or not.
2007-01-15 00:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating. Phone sex is going a bit far, but it's still really lame especially if it's one of those 1 900 numbers. Looking at porn is definitely not cheating. I say this when these things are done in moderation as in a glass of wine at dinner as opposed to a bottle or two. One is good for your health or so the studies suggest and the other is bordering on alcoholism.
2007-01-15 00:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok to think about other people if you are married. As long as you don't act out your fantasies it is not cheating. Looking at porn also is fine, no big deal but perhaps the phone sex thing may be a bit much. Would you like your partner doing phone sex ?? If not well then there's your answer to that question. I guess anything that you would both be comfortable about each other doing would be classed as acceptable.
2007-01-15 00:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that in order to qualify as cheating, a behavior must include interaction with a person other than the spouse. Therefore, fantasizing and porn are not cheating, but phone sex is. The latter does not include touching, but it does involve getting off with another person.
2007-01-15 00:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing and looking at porn aren't cheating, but
phone sex is considered cheating!
2007-01-15 00:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking, No
Phone Sex, Yes
Porn, No
2007-01-15 00:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating? What is the GAME that you think you are playing? Different games have different rules, so cheating depends on what game is being played?
Oh, you say you're not playing any games, you are talking about living your life, well then there is no such thing as cheating in living life...
think about it... and then rethink your question.
2007-01-15 01:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it could be, I fantasise about being a doormat and a shoe licker, but if I was in a relationship it could be construed as cheating as you are paying attention to another, HOWEVER, if you can mantain a relationship with respect then i guess it could be harmless fun
2007-01-15 00:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by docile_fool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasizing, porn aren't cheating. phone sex is.
2007-01-15 00:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by masterscribe888 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fantasize is not cheating....
phone sex is definitely cheating
and porno im not sure but "u'r looking at porno so ur eyes are cheating"
i get offended if im with my man and some girl passes by and he looks at her, imagine if he watches porno...
2007-01-15 00:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋