Ive been seeing this guy on and off for a few months. It didn't work the first time around. I hurt him by being honest and telling him i was in a long term relationship. We went through painful ups and downs and in the end he returned the favour by chucking me for someone else. When i called he put the girl on the phone and so i never called again. The few months break we had included private and prank calls i know was him.
We saw eachother passing recently and the fire was relit, we started seeing eachother again. He was so nice this time around and was honest with me emotionally. Of course i didn't trust this playboy and that showed in my attitude and behaviour. He left me for the second and last time. The question is was this playboy playing games, was i just another challenge or were his feelings real. He told me he missed me, put my hands on his heart. He then goes on to be rude and when he dont get his way says he's gonna call another girl. He treats me as bootycall.
2007-01-15 00:09:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be honest you deserve it, you call him "this playboy" yest you feel for him, i'll let you in on a secret, you crushed this guy, like a steam roller, and no matter what he says, he'd like to crush you twice that, there will be no getting back together with him, he think you are nothing, sometimes guys are easier to hurt then girls.
2007-01-15 00:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just sounds like a complete scumbag!
He clearly has no care or worry about you feelings, and im sorry to say, but he was probably just stringing you along.
And if he keeps prank calling just tell him very nicely that youll inform the police of harassing calls. And if he keeps calling after that, set you big brother (or someone well 'ard) onto him. That should teach him a lesson.
2007-01-15 01:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the game Hun.....sorry to say but you were played as are so many other men and women by heartless, selfish feckers.... but u knew this before you got involved with him the 2nd time and if you could, and be honest here, would you not go back to him if her swore it was just a phase or a bad time in his life or somett that made him act callously?...bet cha would! move on and look back on the good times you had, the laughter and tears have made you stronger and wiser, right?.....so find a decent bloke....and have a proper good time....
2007-01-15 00:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by JackLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're attracted to this person why?
My God, I just don't understand it when women come up with ways their revolting boyfriend has treated them badly, and then think that this man has any respect for them. WAKE UP. He's a classic tw@t. Your question was 'How does he really feel?' Ok this is how he feels - 'Wow, I'm really enjoying manipultating women, it's nice when they think I'm a really deep person with alot of genuine emotions, when in fact, I'm just HAVING A LAUGH'. There.
Get a nice guy, they're better in the long run.
2007-01-15 00:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are predictable...once bitten, twice shy...if he can cheat on you once he will cheat on you again and again...that is my motto. Never trust a guy as far as you can throw them and trust me that is not very far. This guy is playing you, show him that two can play that game. Give him the cold treatment the next time around and see how he likes it....Don't keep your hopes too high as he is sure to use you more in the future.
2007-01-15 00:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ansy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Doesn't matter what he said he continually walked away from you. Men who are harbouring secret passions do not generally do that.
Time to move on. He sounds like a right t*osser.
2007-01-15 00:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this man is worth your time. He is using you and doesn't seem to care about your feelings and what you might be going through. Let him be, and move on with your life. You are worth so much more!
2007-01-15 00:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this man is not only using you but probably as many women who are stupid enough to allow him into their lives, have no more contact and mean it don't wave, speak, argue, tell him any of your business etc
this man uses women hopefully one day he will end up a lonely old man
be strong
2007-01-15 00:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing games.
he wants women to hang to him so when he has a boring night, he'll only have to phone you and you'll come running.
if he liked you he wouldnt be like this and would have wanted to be with you.
na get rid, men like him are playing mind games with you so you'll always go running to him when he says
2007-01-15 00:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's definitely playing games. tell him to BE GONE! you don't need a guy like that cos you're better than that. at least i hope you are. you shouldn't put on with trash like that.
2007-01-15 00:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by Miami.Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋