My husband just doesnt act like he loves me anymore. Like this morning, im sitting right here in the kitchen he he just walks out for work w/o a kiss , a hug, a bye, nothing. no word, nothing. i dont even remember the last time he actually kissed me. i always kiss him. i think the last time that he kissed me was a year 1/2 ago. and i dont remember a time he told me he loved me. I always, ...ALWAYS tell him and kiss him. I dont beleive he loves me, AT ALL? Anyone else think that too? He doesnt know but im always crying about it. And I cant talk to him about it b/c those subjects get him real mad. Im just not an idiot, i know somethings wrong. =(
2007-01-15 00:09:50 · 7 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes prob. just staying w/ me b/c of 2 kids and another on the way. beleive me... he does NOT act like he loves me at all. and remember i cant say anything to him b/c he gets pissed off. its SOO hard to talk to him.
2007-01-15 00:10:07 · update #1
In time we change, and also our feelings; so it is possble that he get bored, and need some changes, like everybody else.
If you want to know the trouth you may ask a oppen discution with him and let him know that you lake affection, and you need his atention. You can also stop to thel him that you love him, and be more reservate with him, and see if he notice that change.
He can also change because of the rutine, nothing new and interesting is happend on the couple and he is not strong enaught to understant and change something, and bring love back between you and him.
Try to make everithing oppen and onest, and don't let him to play his drama! Make him to be honest
Good luck!
2007-01-15 00:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nicolaie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't always as affectionate or romantic as women. It's also important with men to discuss issues before they become huge. If you are upset, crying, or angry when you discuss them--it won't have the same effect. It's important to discuss things early on, before all the emotions are involved.
I would suggest that you step back, and concentrate on pampering yourself and taking care of yourself. Do things that you enjoy. Find family or friends to enjoy time together. When you feel better yourself, it will be much easier to communicate with your husband.
If possible, I hope you two can take a romantic vacation together (no kids) to rekindle the romance. Many guys, by their nature, are a not romantic or "I love you" kind of guys. But, most of them also live for your romance and affection.
2007-01-15 00:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 9months high risk pregnant 3 cm dilated and my so called loving husband just aske me for a seperation cause he needs to find himself. I suspect another woman at his job found love notes to him and pics. of him and her together. He stopped huggin me kissin me and having sex says it's not me it's him all of us ladys know that when a man says that theres another love intrest. Your man is trin to get the balls to leave you he is just looking for an xcuse to do so that way he don't feel guilty like he did something wrong so before he leaves you leave him with the fact he has to pay child support alimony/spousal support. i'm not letting my loving husband in the delivery room to see his only child be born if we are seperated then he don't need to be there the hospital has a waiting room!! Sorry to be going back to my problem but girl he is cheatin or thinking of cheating get out now or start saving to get out when the baby is born start calling attorneys so he can't get custody of the children. Hurt him where his hurt you in his heart and POCKET BOOK !!!!! Ooh, and my loving husband decides to ask for this seperation 1 month after christmas, the month his only child is due, the month before our wedding anniversary. Wasn't he nice !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 00:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you make children with a guy who won't say he loves you and won't kiss you?
If what you say is true, tell him how you feel and when he gets mad, just say "We'll talk about it again tomorrow and each day till he gets involved"
2007-01-15 00:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him get mad, you deserve to know what he is feeling towards you. He is not being fair, sleeping with you, impregnating you but won't say a word to you. You deserve better treatment and until you insist on it your life will be miserable.
2007-01-15 00:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but it sounds like you have a room mate, not a husband
2007-01-15 00:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but some people have probleme to express their love and maby he is just having bad time that he dont tell you i think you should talk to him but dont cry coz men dont like that be strong woman and talk to him good luck(iam sorry to tell you this cheak his clothes if you found condoms then he is cheating on you i hope that he dont)
2007-01-15 00:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by natasha_thesexygirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋