Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

My GF met a guy during an out of town training and continued conversating via phone with him afterwards and never told me about him. I suspected she met someone while in training, because she became aggressive with me. I checked her phone and found out they were having long conversations with each one late at night. I confronted her and she claime he was just a friend and that she will stop talking to him. However, I checked her phone records a few weeks later and found out she continued talking to him and infact they will stay as long as 128 mins on the phone together. She deletes the calls the made to each other from her phone. I was only able to get the records through her billing statement. I am confused, my mind tells me she is or was going to cheat on me if I hadn't intervened.

2007-01-15 02:47:22 · 25 answers · asked by Maxwell V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months and in a lower classman in high school & so is he, but b4 we were dating we've made out and b4 2 months we have dont hj and fingering & stuff, but im wondering if its time for the next level. BUt im worried he wont want ot do anything more b/c i know for sure he said no sex at this age, but a bj? i dont want to ask him and scare him.

2007-01-15 02:46:11 · 7 answers · asked by WhatTheHell? 2 in Singles & Dating

if your partner that you had for 5 years cheated on you and then came and told you about it
would you overlook it and stay in this relationship are get out of it
but please bear this in mind you really love your partner and you know they love for you is still there
your partner not only tells you they love you but they also show it the two of all are not only lovers but bestfriends
could share anything witheach other
what you two had was like a near perfect relationship(because nothing on earth is perfect) but you always glow and light up when that person is around and you could see it in they faces that they too was happy




how much is your love for that person after telling you and asking for forgiveness
would you forgive and continue this relationship or
would move on putting 5 years out thourgh the door
but would you forgive even though you are moving on

please let me know how much do you love your partner

2007-01-15 02:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by k?? 2 in Singles & Dating

Cos, I believe the Internet shouldn't be left for swindlers. It's quite shameful!

2007-01-15 02:44:42 · 3 answers · asked by Damola 2 in Friends

besides eating them as bars. Like some kind of topping for ice cream or whatever.

2007-01-15 02:44:12 · 12 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Singles & Dating

Like loveing our women,kids,Gold,Silver,cars , planting the ground
Loveing them more than ...our lord ..... that created this universe,

2007-01-15 02:43:53 · 10 answers · asked by naser19642006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When we first got together she could not stop doing things to me and telling me how much she wanted me... but here we are moved in together and now she does not even want to think about it... She says her sex drive is just not there anymore... I dont know what happend but all the sudden she stoped.. The other night she said the past couple times we made love she has not been there..... Please help me on what i should do or if there is anything i can do.

2007-01-15 02:42:51 · 31 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend "nicely" (and yes I mean nicely) pushed me away from him when I was nibbling on his ear. I know he likes it. Hes told me he loves me doing it, but last night I got a strange reaction out of him. We were sitting on the couch and I was straddling his waist and I was doing what I usauly do but with a little more preasure and he started breating really heavy/panting and maoning. Like hes breathed really heavy before but never really made any sound. But after a while his breathing got really heavy and he started to get louder but than he pushed me away and told me I had to stop.

I dont know what I did wrong. Can someone help me find out what I did wrong. Tell me some reasons why he might have made me stop.

2007-01-15 02:42:47 · 6 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Singles & Dating

my partners ,EXhusband and EXpartners get mentioned in our day to day lifes,I thought it was an adolesant thing but it occurs to me in adulthood.too why help please,any advice would be good

2007-01-15 02:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by s2or3 2 in Family

Here's the situation. You are close friends with a couple. Through all your relationships, the interaction between the couple, and your prior partners has been mild. Now you are with someone new, and married. The interaction between your couple friends, and your spouse is a good one because everyone has something in common and you all get along. But now, the wife in the couple starts to flirt alot with your husband. Although it would deem 'harmless'...is it?

2007-01-15 02:41:01 · 11 answers · asked by snugg_bug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As I was reading Maxim last night, I read on one of their articles that chicks with tattoos on their lower back are slutty. They love to get laid more often. I found it somewhat true in my personal experience, but they are freaty too. Also, Maxim says that for a long run look for chicks who drives truck, they don't seem to cheat on their bf and they are faithful. Not my type, coz I m not looking for long run. I would rather choose the one with tattoo on their lower back.

2007-01-15 02:40:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because I am the Man.

the Man rules, that's part of nature. 95% of the Leaders worldwide are Men, the vast majority of inventors, writers and philosophers were Men.

Men are here to Lead the Women and Children.

Is there a way I can put all of my requirements of my lovely wife in a Prenup Agreement, so that if she doesn't adhere to my rules and requriements, I can kick her azz out of my big house and send her packing back to her poor family?

2007-01-15 02:40:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im a proud father of a six month old, I have joint legal pay chid support. She is not breast feeding we only live 20 miles apart, but she wont give me the visitation I want. she wants me to only see her 15 hours a month, and shot down my proposal for 131 days for the year. I know our daughter is just an infant but by the time this is all over she could be well over a year old. so Ive decided to get the ball rolling on joint physical custody, im wondering what she can fight me on, michigan grants joint physical in quite a few cases so im not all that worried. what can she fight me on? im just tired of her calling all the shots, we have no parenting plan or visitation set up now.

2007-01-15 02:40:00 · 3 answers · asked by storminnormin 2 in Family

Overly sensetive to what strangers think about you? Should we all just learn to let things roll off of us?
Has anyone said something to you that really upset you lately?

2007-01-15 02:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy on my msn who i always thought was cute but i never seemed to be online when he was then the other day he was and we talked for like 6 hours!! we talked once or twice before but for like 20 minutes. He was being so sweet, he lives in vancouver i lve in winnipeg and i might go there in the summer anyway because i have cousins out there. But since the other day i cant stop thinking about him and the summer cant come fast enough. Could he possibly fall in love with me in time. Can i love him already, i mean thats really fast!!??

2007-01-15 02:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 02:37:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 20-yr-old boyfriend-thing-whatever seems to have the misconception that it is alright to make a girl fall in love with him for about six months, when things are going just peachy & fine, and then all of a sudden decide he wants to break up 'cause he doesn't want to deal with his future as well as a relationship. He really is a good guy, but I think his upbringing has had some weird effects on his mind, his family being hardcore Christians & him having rebelled some when he was younger. I've always known he's had problems & insecurities, but he did the same thing with me that he did with his last girlfriend two years ago--who is also a good friend of mine. Before, I was so broken up that all I wanted was for him to take me back, which he did after two days, & he even admitted to being happier again! But now he's saying that he simply doesn't want a relationship & doesn't want to make it work even though we could. I don't ******* understand this at all. Is there anything I can do?

2007-01-15 02:36:13 · 6 answers · asked by CrystalDreams 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 02:35:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently unemployed and debating seriously about getting a divorce. It's not a cut and dry case..(neither of us cheated..or just found out we're gay etc..lol) but, we just don't seem to want the same things in life anymore. One fear I am having...(besides loads of others) is the fear of being able to take care of myself financially. I guess I just would like to hear success stories or failures. And, we do not have kids in the mix. Thanks.

2007-01-15 02:35:09 · 16 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should I say to ask her out? she is in 8th grade

2007-01-15 02:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by Guitar heroez 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to a nice guy who really likes me.. and even proposed to me.. I never met him cause he lives far away.i'm not sure what i should say to him.. any one could help me?..

2007-01-15 02:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Paki Kuri 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 02:33:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well let's start this long story... ok I've been in an odd long distance relationship with an AMAZING guy-Forrest- for almost 6 months && now some weird crap's been happening... Ok first he hasn't talked to me since the 11th but I was guessin he's just busy or something IDK & then one of my guy friends- Jared- told me that he asked forrest about me & he said "I hate to say it but I have nothing to do with her anymore".... I like freaked out && was going nuts because this guy who tells me he loves me is now saying I'm not in his life, but the worst part was he didn't even tell me this... Then I was talking to one of forrest's friends- Phil- & I said something about me & forrest aren't talking anymore & asked him if he knew what was going on. Then he said "well me & forrest said something to jared last night as a joke if that's what you're talking about" & I about died... WTH WTF WTFH is going on?? I don't understand this....

2007-01-15 02:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

the most embarrassing thing to ever happen to me "off the top of my head" is when my mother caught me doing the dirty with my now ex-boyfriend, just wondering if anything embarrassing has ever happened to you, answer please i need a good laugh.

2007-01-15 02:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by Chloelouise 2 in Friends

he's 15 and he loves basketball and football. We just started going out and Valentines day is our one month anniversary so i wanna do something really special that tells him I wanna be with him but not too mushy

2007-01-15 02:32:16 · 2 answers · asked by ALL SMILES :D 5 in Singles & Dating

hasbeen or a neverwas?

2007-01-15 02:32:07 · 25 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Singles & Dating

Asking girl to dance?
i would like to ask this girl to the dance

problem is we are both shy

in the same class
but not much time to talk

help
the dance is in 1 month

2007-01-15 02:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is saying things like she is sleeping with my boyfriend and he says it is not real but my beat friend would never lie 2 me caz we have been friends for 15 years i have know my boyfriend from 14 years what would i do 4 this plz help i need HELP and plz

2007-01-15 02:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl_17192007 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin got herself into this relationship with this guy who later became abusive and unfaithful. They had left each other, but ended up one night being together and she got pregnant. He made so many promises on being there for her. He lied. 11 months has past and all he has done is argued with her every time she needs money for diapers or for doctor's appoitments. All of a sudden he demands to take the child. He makes these threats on how he's going take the child away by putting her in court or by calling her offensive names and saying that she is not a good mother. She is terrified and those not know what to do. She wants to leave the state to live with her mother but he threatens her and say that she can't do that. What can she do? If anyone that has been in a situation like hers please give advise? She really needs it?

2007-01-15 02:30:35 · 11 answers · asked by av 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 02:30:12 · 14 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating