my best friend is saying things like she is sleeping with my boyfriend and he says it is not real but my beat friend would never lie 2 me caz we have been friends for 15 years i have know my boyfriend from 14 years what would i do 4 this plz help i need HELP and plz
2007-01-15 02:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl_17192007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps, ask your friend for details, like when and where she has slept with your boyfriend. Ask her where does she meet him and where do they go. Ask her what does your boyfriend talk about with her.
The more details you have the more you may know whether he is telling you the truth or not.
If you deep down believe that your boyfriend is lying, then maybe you should just leave him.
Maybe you should ask your parents or guardian for some advice.
2007-01-15 02:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well huni,she obviously isn't your best friend if she's screwing around (literally) with your guy! So what makes you think u can trust her if she's doing something like this! I think you should get rid of her either way!
1.If they are sleeping together (she's a bad friend)
2.If they aren't sleeping together,she's lying her *** off!
As for your guy,the 1st facial expression when u ask him whats going on will probably give you the answer to what you should do about him...leave him...OR....something else!
But remember at the end of the day, you will never deserve being treated like you are being treated now!
g'luck sweety!
2007-01-15 10:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about their motives: Is there any reason why either of them are saying what they're saying? Why would your best friend say that they're sleeping together, and on the other hand why would your boyfriend deny that anything is going on? What do either of them have to gain? In addition, I don't know what kind of best friend would go behind your back to sleep with your boyfriend. Are you sure she thinks about you in the same way you think about her?
2007-01-15 10:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by little_ms.knowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are hearing these rumors from some one else other then your friend, and if when you confront her she says no. Be very careful, I would tell her that he confessed to me that in fact they are sleeping behind your back, but don't do it over the phone, and don't let her go anywhere. and do the same thing with him. Approach her as if you just broke up with him and do the whole scene "how could you?" I thought you were my friend. If she is guilty she'll fess up!
2007-01-15 10:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit, the three of you together. Alone, and talk that in private. No arguments, no fights, no nothing. Just TALKING.
And have your "best friend" to say in front of you and your boyfriend that she is sleeping with him, and when and where that took place.
2007-01-15 10:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would believe you best friend. Your young and so is your bf, 14yrs is a long time to be exclusive at such a young age. Its only natural to want to get with other people and your gf was the closest girl around. Don't blame eather one, go get someone new for yourself.
2007-01-15 10:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont trust any one, then u have to ignore both their satament. Or do anything except torturing urself. Nothing is Unfair in Love and War.
2007-01-15 10:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rebanta G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your friend is sleeping with your boyfriend, or she is a conniving evil witch.
Either way, get rid of her.
2007-01-15 10:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like some kind of test to me. Your boyfriend may be testing you.
2007-01-15 10:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Levey him
2007-01-15 10:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋