if your partner that you had for 5 years cheated on you and then came and told you about it
would you overlook it and stay in this relationship are get out of it
but please bear this in mind you really love your partner and you know they love for you is still there
your partner not only tells you they love you but they also show it the two of all are not only lovers but bestfriends
could share anything witheach other
what you two had was like a near perfect relationship(because nothing on earth is perfect) but you always glow and light up when that person is around and you could see it in they faces that they too was happy
how much is your love for that person after telling you and asking for forgiveness
would you forgive and continue this relationship or
would move on putting 5 years out thourgh the door
but would you forgive even though you are moving on
please let me know how much do you love your partner
2007-01-15 02:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by k?? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everything in life need second chance so give him..
forgive him and tell him if i feel that u cheat me next time i will leave u forever..
and see if he really sorry or not..
and u must to thank him that he telling u that he didn't hidden this from u .. so he will never do it again..
give him other chance he deserve that and come back to normal.. everyone can make a mistake in life.. but don't let him do it again let him say sorry from his heart and mind and never do it again... good luck
2007-01-15 02:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I have only been with my bf for a year and if he cheated on me I would forgive him. It takes time and maturity to be able to forgive someone that has hurt you. For you to have been with ur partner for 5 years is worth saving. I have a connection similar to my bf that u described and it feels like we've been together forever. Dont throw away what the both of u made together. No one has the right to cheat on someone especially if they love the person, but they should be forgiven. You seem to really love your special person since you were asking for advice because most ppl would have just decided to call it quits. What ever you do I hope its the best choice for the both of you and Good Luck!
2007-01-15 02:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Sheenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a partner cheats on you, the hardest part after the cheating is the trust you'll have for him. I had a partner that cheated on me. Well I couldn't stop torturing him by reminding him of the cheating. Obviously it was not leading to a very healthy relationship. So I broke it off even though I loved him very much. It was just too painfull to deal with. So, if you could live with him without torturing him, then stay with him.
2007-01-15 02:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Gfrog123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A solid relationship is based on trust. Once it's gone, there is no solid relationship anylonger. People don't change (unless they're kids). If he did it once, he will do it again.
It is hard to leave behind something that has been with us for many years. But if in the end it is a bad thing, the sooner we cut if off, the sooner we heal. You can give it a second chance and things can turn out fine. But chances are that you will be going through this suffering again.
2007-01-15 03:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dolphin-SSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, ummmm for me it's going on 10 years and if he came and told me and knew he made a mistake I'd still keep him. The fact is we are best-friends and he's my world. The problem is I'd lose my trust in him so that would take a long time to get back. I feel if this happened to me I'd be devastated because best-friends do not do this to each other. It would really change things in the relationship and take a long time to over-come. I'd have to figure out why did it happen in the first place, what went wrong etc. Anyways I wouldn't through a relationship away....
2007-01-15 02:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself, I would do ANYTHING for my partner, including forgive and forget!! If it is really love, then that is part of the whole thing. If you decide to break up, then at least forgive them, because you don't want to be carrying that weight around with you the rest of your life. Either way, you should forgive them their digression.
2007-01-15 02:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my boyfriend immensely, but I think I love myself more. I think it would be exceedingly difficult to overcome that punch in the face. The main thing that is important in a relationship to me is to know, without doubt, that my partner would love me beyond all reason, and if he was to cheat on me, I would know that wasn't true. I don't think I could accept that.
2007-01-15 02:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself love my partner very much! AHe is my world.
I would try to work things out with you partner. I dont think there is anything that can break up love. If you are truly in love then you can get past his mistake and work on it. He should have consequneces. though.
2007-01-15 02:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you he wouldnt have cheated
im sorry its harsh but its true..i dont care how many times ppl can say but it was only once what about forgiveness etc NO he cheated
and no i dont love my husband and why not because he cheated and will i forgive him NO and u know why i deserve better i dont care how much he loves me he can go kiss my a%% and i hope he dying loving me and regretting what he did
2007-01-15 02:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure and get lots of jewelry as presents before you forgive him. And make him go down on you without you doing the same to him.
2007-01-15 02:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋