what or how should i do???

Question

i still like one of my ex. we broke up almost 2 years ago but we still sometimes meet since fall and i think we have fun if we r together. i realized i like to be with him a lot, he makes me happy n he is smart too.
is there any chance? or what should i do?

Answer 1

first i would talk to him and see how he feels then just go where your heart leads you yes there is some risk involves but life is full of risks which ones are you willing to take


beat wishes

Answer 2

Well If he has a girlfriend that hes been with a really long time then I say don't bother because your asking for your a** to get kicked. And trust me its happening to me right now. 1 of my B-F ex ex girlfriend wont leave him alone after he told her like 2 times and I had to call her this week end to tell her to back off. So yeah thats what I thimk.

But if he is single sure go ahead have fun.

Answer 3

Hi, I would seriously examine the reasons you broke up with your ex to begin with. If it was due to matters of trust, such as infidelity, I doubt that a person's character can change fundamentally, especially in a short period of time as 2 years. If, however, it was due to reasons more of the nature of timing, or distance, or even maturity, factors which may be changed over time, then it may be well-worth it to re-examine your feelings and take another leap. I would try to see if the reasons we broke up in the first place have been solved enough, and enough time has elapsed, that we can begin again without the baggage of the first relationship. Take care!

Answer 4

If you broke up with him, it was for a reason you thought good enough at the time. Reevaluate that reason, and think very hard about it.

In my experience second chances never work out. I remember having several "repeat relationships", though not with the same girl every time. I think i had it happen twice with two different girls. One she had broken up with me, the other I hbroke up with her. In both times we broke up for the same reason as the previous time.

People seldom change. Only their circumstances change. It may be that as they mature they may behave differently, but personalities seldom change so much that you find the objectionable aspect gone.

In conclusion: Chances are not too good. Best of luck.

Answer 5

It seems that you are in love with this lucky person, actually it will depend on him if he has the same feeling as yours,, be honest with him and ask him so,, well if he said no then I think you should lookout for somebody else otherwise you will only hurt your own feelings,, its good to think about the other people feelings and care about them but at the same time we expect them same from the others .. if not then its humiliation and don't accept it

Answer 6

no, an ex is an ex you obviously broke up because you weren't meant for each other don't waste your time fantasizing about getting back together you will only end up hurt in the long run. I suggest you find another guy

Answer 7

There is still a chance bec you are still meeting with him and sometimes,"love is sweeter the second time around!"You can also ask him if he is still available.

Answer 8

Do some sneaky checking with him to see if he feels the same way as you. If he doesn't you need to see if you can win him back.. If that is not going to happen then you need to let go of these feelings because you will only cut yourself up.

Answer 9

Keep spending time with him but don't be available all of the time. Let him miss you a bit so he realizes what it will be like if he loses you again.

Answer 10

If being with him makes it feel like a Summer Day in January, then go get him my friend.