Ive not been with my fella for long and love him loads but im getting fed up of always being the first one to instigate sex. if i didnt he wouldnt bother. i always have to approach him if i didnt we wouldnt have sex at all. he never turns me down but thats not really the point it would be nice to be pounced on once in a while.
if we.d been together for years id understand it but its only been a few months
2007-01-15 00:14:56 · 14 answers · asked by lovedancetoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him how you feel, tell him it would be nice to have him show you that he is interested and attracted to you and you don't like feeling like you are the only one interested. Tell him you need to feel he wants you just as much as you want him. good luck
2007-01-15 00:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told him how you feel? I went through a similar thing with my hubbie - he said that he didn't like to think its his right and wouldn't "pounce" on me. Then every now and again i would remind him that he can/should initiate it and then boy did he. We're now 6 years down the track and things are much more even ;)
2007-01-15 00:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by blackberry_wilde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have a very low sex drive.
I have heard some red korean ginseng or Damiana work pretty good if taken regularly.
It will give him more energy and he will be stimuated easier, if you know what I mean.....
remember this isn't about you or what you have or haven't done.. it is a physical thing with him.
2007-01-15 00:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes prob shy. why not make him feel comfortable with the situation by talking to him. he prob hasnt had a serious relationship before and feels that he cant make the first move incase you let him down.
make him feel special, go into the bedroom with him and make him feel comfortable and let him know that he can make the first move. play little games in the bedroom to get him really going and make yourself slook sexy so he feels that he can take advantage of the idea.
he will soon enough get into the idea of making the first move
2007-01-15 00:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This issue is highly dependent on personality and age, amongst other things. Men are visual creatures and usually need some visual stimulation to get them started. Wear something he thinks is sexy and don't offer sex to see if he does, If he doesn't, ask him why not.
2007-01-15 00:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were you I would start to turn him on and then back off and see if he comes to you or sit down and talk to him about how you feel
2007-01-15 00:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just talk 2 him an tell him ow u feel, i know sumtimes it can b awkward talkin about it but if its gettin you dwn then its worth it, isnt it? xx
2007-01-15 00:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...are you sure your fella is straight? (not really insulting) but most men are hungry for sex.
2007-01-15 00:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by masterscribe888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlucky me again cause if he is me you will be getting your dose thrice atleast a day without ? hard luck baby
2007-01-15 00:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress to kill, then sit around nonchalantly. See how quickly he jumps you then.
2007-01-15 00:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋