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partners whilst you were pregnant?.......my partner of 2yrs did when i was carrying his son at 5 months!......trust is not the same!

2007-01-15 21:57:00 · 17 answers · asked by Just passing the time! 5 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

17 answers

not me and thats terrible what happened to you.

2007-01-15 22:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0 0

i was too i was 5 months pregnant when i found out we had been together 13 years and had 3 children already i forgave him and guess what he done it again a few years later i could never of trusted him again so once a cheat always a cheat i dont care what they say about changing it all lies i nearly had a breakdown over it

2007-01-16 07:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by tina t 1 · 0 0

right here. I was 7 months and it was the night before my baby shower. Still married to him. He didn't get caught right away, but I was always suspiscious but he would always deny it. Finally, about a year later, as I was throwing his clothes over the balcony I demanded the truth and clothes just kept getting hurled until he fessed up. By then, time had passed by and i was just so relieved to have finally heard the truth that I just stayed. Every now and then it still comes up and I make him eat sh-t for it everytime. I tell him that that is the cross he will be made to bear until I finally get sick of talking about it. and your right, trust is not the same. I still don't know how men can be so heartless!!

2007-01-16 06:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by gg55 3 · 0 1

In August I was 6 1/2 mos pregnant with our daughter...he brought another woman to our home to spend the night while I was out of town at a funeral.

2007-01-16 07:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by addisonsmom17 2 · 0 0

I have been married for 15 and with my hubby 17 years.He hasn't ever cheated on me.I covered that subject with him before I even went on one date with him.My policy was and is.No cheating no excuses.You had better be sure you never want to see me again before you cheat because I don't give second chance when it comes to cheating.If you let them get away with cheating in any form they will think that they can walk all over you.

2007-01-16 12:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I was a long time ago but not by my current husband this was by an ex boyfriend who said he wanted to marry me but as soon as he found out i was pregnant with his baby he took off like a shot in the night and he is a dead beat dad who has never even attempted to see his beautiful daughter.... However on the flip side she has a daddy who loves her very much who is my husband so her real so called father can just live his life and we will live ours... When my daughter gets older and wants to look him up i will take her to find him if she even wants to.

2007-01-16 06:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0 1

Yipee... so glad I am fully independant. I don't have those worries. But I will say this.. trust comes from within, if you are a trusting person you will trust more easily. Just because someone isn't trustworthy doesn't necessarily mean that YOU can't trust them. I trust almost everyone but I wouldn't waste my time or energy on someone who I felt was untrustworthy.

2007-01-16 06:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by breezinabout 3 · 0 1

Listen, honey you havent had the half of it. My husband's girl friend actually came to visit me at the hospital and brought the baby a present. She wafted in all slim and wonderful and i'd just had a baby and looked sh*t!

2007-01-16 12:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1 0

I have been with my husband 11 years and he's never cheated on me and never would. There are some blokes out there who don't cheat you've just got to find them. GOOD LUCK.

2007-01-17 07:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by jkdtw 2 · 0 0

I agree. If he had any issues or concerns he should have discussed them with you .. Tell him how you feel and make sure when he goes out in future youare there with him.. that is the price he has to pay for being untrustworthy.

2007-01-16 06:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 0 1

yes once, but i did it first so guess i deserved it!!
wow thats bad hun, i forgave my partner only cos he forgave me but we stil bit iffy with the trust thing. when ur pregnant thats bad! but i spose u have to give him one chance for the babies sake!! xx

2007-01-16 06:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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