i have been dating my hubbi for abt 6 years and jst got married.. i always think that i can never survive if i lose my hubbi.. i reali love him so so much.. but i also do feel that wat i have over him is obsession and its not healthy.. is it true?? how can i change myself??
2007-01-15 20:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, love yourself first above all!! dont think that you could'nt survive without him... life goes on ok? there are a lot of things in this world besides him... on the other hand, why think of loosing him? you've been together for six years and he even married you recently!! thats an assurance or symbol of his love and strong commitment to you, so, cheer up!!! and always pray to god for both of you's blessing! ok? and by the way, congratulations and i wish you a happy married life.... !!
2007-01-15 20:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by joannamae_19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 5 years
lolololol
I'm j/k
but it's okay to be infatuated with your husband when your marriage is new. Talk it out with him, see if you both are comfortable. If he has some needs, then compromise to achieve the balance of happiness most appropiate for the both of you.
On't change yourself until you know FOR SURE that it will be for the better, and when you do, act a lil more like a bachlorette, as in, build yourself up personally, get good friends, etc.
2007-01-15 20:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by antsam999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just in love with your husband and there isn’t anything wrong with that. The think is of course you will be able to survive without him if you lose him. At this moment in time I don’t think that you have anything to worry about you are just crazy in love and that is a good thing. Only start worrying about things when you start getting jealous of him talking to other woman, but hopefully you will not be like that
2007-01-15 20:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew him for 6 years and married him now. Well you must now build your marriage.
The obsession must end and learn to trust your man.
Basic rule of marriage is trust. Give each other the space that everyone needs from time to time. Respect each other.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 20:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be wrong if you consider something unhealthy. Obsession was the matter of past. Now you are married and caring each other is the essence of success of married life.So you should be considerate of health and happiness.
2007-01-15 20:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you think that you would lose him if your just married. You need more faith in yourself, your husband and your marriage.
2007-01-15 20:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Susan M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋